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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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# 1

2008-06-21, 11:30
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Quiting masturbation
The reasons don't matter in this thread, but I want to stop masturbating (anal/prostate stimulation included). Also never want to have sex of any sort ever again.
I'm finding this quite difficult, and think maybe I need to join a support group, like chronic masturbaters anonymous. Or castrate myself.
I can't get my mind off of sex. I really want to stop, and so far I've gone like 2 days but the urge is so much worse when you know it's something you're trying to quit.
Please no, "There's nothing wrong with sexual pleasure," posts, I agree completely. I see nothing wrong with masturbating at all, but I have reasons and they are my own.
Anyone gone through something similar? Thinking that experience quitting ANY addiction could be helpful, so please speak up. I'm open to your advice.
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# 2

2008-06-21, 11:33
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Re: Quiting masturbation
Why you be trolling op?
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# 3

2008-06-21, 11:35
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Re: Quiting masturbation
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Originally Posted by Name's Taken
Why you be trolling op?
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The mods of S&A are some of my favorite posters, and I respect them enough to not clutter their forums with trolling.
Unless it's exceptionally hilarious. Which this thread is not.
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# 4

2008-06-21, 11:46
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Re: Quiting masturbation
Problee has aids or something
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# 5

2008-06-21, 11:57
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Re: Quiting masturbation
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Originally Posted by killuminated
The mods of S&A are some of my favorite posters, and I respect them enough to not clutter their forums with trolling.
Unless it's exceptionally hilarious. Which this thread is not.
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Nobody seriously suggests self-castration as a reasonable way to quit masturbation.
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# 6

2008-06-21, 11:59
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Re: Quiting masturbation
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Originally Posted by Name's Taken
Nobody seriously suggests self-castration as a reasonable way to quit masturbation.
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I think you should get your sense of humor checked- seems out of whack.
Can we please stay on topic?
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# 7

2008-06-21, 18:28
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Re: Quiting masturbation
You could always try pain. If you punch yourself in the face every time you orgasm you're probably not going to want to keep doing it.
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# 8

2008-06-21, 19:18
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Re: Quiting masturbation
haha I haven't masturbated in three days now.
Not doing anything.
HAVE MORE WILLPOWER BOY!!
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# 9

2008-06-21, 20:08
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Re: Quiting masturbation
Willpower or bust.
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# 10

2008-06-21, 22:31
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Re: Quiting masturbation
you really want help?
okay.
walk for several miles a day, satisfy yr lower brain
don't eat fiery foods (meat - especially PORK, garlic, onions, etc), take cold showers daily, practice pranayama, meditate on lust, etc
you might also want to try injaculation with the three fingers method
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#11
 2008-06-21, 22:34
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killuminated 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
you might also want to try injaculation with the three fingers method
What's that? Can someone explain in detail?
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#12
 2008-06-21, 23:06
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Howard Radford 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
You need religion boy, become a catholic priest, but don't mess with the alter boys
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#13
 2008-06-21, 23:08
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killuminated 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
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Originally Posted by Howard Radford
You need religion boy, become a catholic priest, but don't mess with the alter boys
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No, my religious beliefs are not changing for this or anything.
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#14
 2008-06-21, 23:15
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Re: Quiting masturbation
http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=2e7cf54968b00cb4ecea
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#15
 2008-06-22, 02:35
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Re: Quiting masturbation
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Originally Posted by Rizzo in a box
you really want help?
okay.
walk for several miles a day, satisfy yr lower brain
don't eat fiery foods (meat - especially PORK, garlic, onions, etc), take cold showers daily, practice pranayama, meditate on lust, etc
you might also want to try injaculation with the three fingers method
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alright there mahatma ghandi...
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#16
 2008-06-22, 10:03
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Re: Quiting masturbation
The reasons don't matter in this thread, but I want to stop masturbating (anal/prostate stimulation included). Also never want to have sex of any sort ever again.
Actually, yes. The reasons do matter.
Without knowing your reasons, we can't understand your underlying psychological drive to quit, and therefore cannot come up with an effective plan to work toward a goal that is suited for you.
If we know what you're thinking, then we can develop a strategy to combat the underlying mental aspect, which is one of the largest factors when trying to accomplish a feat as massive as this.
You aren't going to be able to get results with half-assed attempts. Testing random things won't work here. We have to know why. Otherwise you'll just endlessly run around in circles trying random suggestions before dealing in to your hand.
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#17
 2008-06-22, 12:22
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killuminated 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
I don't feel comfortable sharing the reasons with y'all. I might send Jack an e-mail explaining, but even then I'd never let anyone else find out.
Dammit, I fucked up tonight. I just got so horny, and went with it. There was no one else involved thank shit, but I did orgasm. Really I don't deserve sexual pleasure, and now that it's over with I feel terrible about it. I fucked up guys.
I need help stopping myself from doing more and more of this, but after YEARS of masturbating almost daily it's a bit difficult for me.
It just seems that everything makes me hard, and I really don't want to have to limit what I can watch on TV or read.
I'm slightly drunk, so.. I hope this makes enough sense.
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#18
 2008-06-22, 14:12
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Re: Quiting masturbation
Have you got some deadly STD or something?
I just can't see what could be bad enough not to share with us.
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#19
 2008-06-22, 14:29
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Re: Quiting masturbation
Dude, this is Totse, you don't really have anything to be ashamed of :/
I think that if there's anyone who's got the willpower to go through with such a thing, he is most certainly religious in some way. I just can't imagine it being possible otherwise...
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#20
 2008-06-22, 15:15
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Re: Quiting masturbation
I don't feel comfortable sharing the reasons with y'all. I might send Jack an e-mail explaining, but even then I'd never let anyone else find out.
I can understand why you wouldn't want to tell somebody about it in a face-to-face situation, but this is the internet and you are anonymous. You could be anybody or nobody. There are no faces or names here, just a handle and some text. Cut loose and leave your inhibitions at the door.
Just tell us why you feel you need to stop, then we can work on making some progress.
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#21
 2008-06-22, 16:11
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Re: Quiting masturbation
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Originally Posted by BlackSails
Dude, this is Totse, you don't really have anything to be ashamed of :/
I think that if there's anyone who's got the willpower to go through with such a thing, he is most certainly religious in some way. I just can't imagine it being possible otherwise...
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My thoughts exactly.
This is Totse; it's meant for this kind of thing. Just explain what's going on. You'll feel better about it, and people here will be able to offer advice.
Unless it's a religious motivation, there's really no reason to stop masturbating. So, let's hear it.
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#22
 2008-06-22, 16:16
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Re: Quiting masturbation
I can understand why you wouldn't want to tell somebody about it in a face-to-face situation, but this is the internet and you are anonymous. You could be anybody or nobody. There are no faces or names here, just a handle and some text. Cut loose and leave your inhibitions at the door.
Just tell us why you feel you need to stop, then we can work on making some progress.
this.
I use totse for advice on personal matters b/c that's all it is here a handle and text. no pictures, no voices no nothing.
let loose man
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#23
 2008-06-22, 17:19
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surprise buttsecks 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
All I can say is lawl, and good luck.
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#24
 2008-06-22, 21:08
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Fire-Man 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=2e7cf54968b00cb4ecea
Hilarious.
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#25
 2008-06-22, 21:15
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Re: Quiting masturbation
I can't get my mind off of sex.
Maybe you should learn some fucking grammar you american piece of shit before you start using our language
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#26
 2008-06-22, 22:06
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mikehunt1 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
If you think you have an STD then go get checked out, this is the only reason why anyone would wanto quit having sex or quit jerking off.
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#27
 2008-06-22, 22:20
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killuminated 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
Maybe you should learn some fucking grammar you american piece of shit before you start using our language
Maybe you should learn some fucking grammar, you European piece of shit, before you start using my language.
Look y'all. I'm not going to state WHY exactly I'm doing this. I will say though, that I don't have any STDs, and I'm not worried about spreading anything.
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#28
 2008-06-22, 22:37
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crazyass4411 
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Re: Quiting masturbation
Hey man, we can't really help you much without specifics.
But, if you still feel uncomfortable, I'll say this: it won't be as bad after a while, and once you get into the routine of not doing it, it'll just be a part of your life.
I would ask that, if you'd like, to PM me about the cause. I can help you more, then.
And you have my word that I will not repost it. I know that doesn't mean much on Totse, but I do promise you. Either way, good luck.
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#29
 2008-06-23, 00:32
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Re: Quiting masturbation
Try having your masterbation "dose" every week. If you get off twice a day, do that for a week, then once a day the next week, then four times, then twice, then once, then try none.
It's hard to just go cold turkey.
And yes, this is exactly like weening yourself off of drugs.
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#30
 2008-06-23, 01:19
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Re: Quiting masturbation
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Originally Posted by Thought Riot
Try having your masterbation "dose" every week. If you get off twice a day, do that for a week, then once a day the next week, then four times, then twice, then once, then try none.
It's hard to just go cold turkey.
And yes, this is exactly like weening yourself off of drugs.
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Fuck that, just promise yourself not to touch yourself again, set your browser to give you a reminder of your promise every time you go to your fav porn sites, go outside and do stuff there every time you get an urge to fap, and you're done.
Soon after you stop fapping you'll start getting wet dreams which can be awesome (which would motivate you not to fap so that you can get the next one quickly again); after 2 weeks you'll get prolactin out of your blood (http://www.humpjones.com/rear/entry/prolactin_proof_that_god_hates_us/), and frome experience of some totseans girls will start paying you more attention.
So yeah, if you want to just man up and stop fapping, it's easy.
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#31
 2008-06-23, 07:04
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Re: Quiting masturbation
fuck wet dreams
bane of my existence
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