I don't think I'm designed to be sexual.

Like most other guys, when I see a good looking girl, I will check her out and say things along the lines of "I want to fuck her badly." etc, but just recently I realised I don't mean it the same way as other guys do.

I was talking to a friend and he said when he says something like that, he is visualising himself having sex with that girl and it turns him on.

When I say it I'm not actually thinking about having sex with that person, I am just admiring their beauty and responding in a way that I have been conditioned to.

In fact, going by this, I have only ever felt true lust once, not the countless times I would have thought. It was when a girl I knew was bending over in a bikini and I just wanted to do her doggy right there and then, and got wood.

Apart from that I don't think I've ever had a desire to have sex with someone.

When I have girlfriends I often want to have sex with them, but it's just to make them happy, I don't actually feel like I want to have sex with them for my satisfaction. In fact, I don't even get the big deal about sex, I mean it's good, but it's not as good as everyone makes it out to be, in my opinion, but once again maybe I'm not designed to be sexual.

If I have really strong feelings for someone though, I can and do get strong sexual desires, but I don't have physical attraction anymore, just emotional I guess.

A few weeks ago I made a thread saying I thought I was bi because I saw a guy and thought I'd let him suck me off. But it wasn't that, I wouldn't even say it was attraction, he was just a good looking guy, really pretty. I don't think I would have let him suck me off if he offered, it wasn't sexual attraction.

In fact, about 3 years ago I was socialising with a couple of gay guys who were trying to convince me I had gay tendancies. I was pretty sure I didn't. I went back to one of their places, just to have a couple of drinks and hang out. I had one beer when I was there. These guys were a little bit older than me. They kept pressuring me to fuck them or touch them and I was like no. Then one of them asked to suck me off and I was like I don't think so, then he said everyone needs to experiment, so I said yes. The point is he was sucking me off for 10 minutes and I couldn't get hard, when about 2 weeks before I was with a girl who wasn't even that attractive and she had me hard before she even touched me. So maybe I'm not gay or bi.

But maybe I am, because straight porn doesn't do anything for me, lesbo porn can sometimes, and same with gay porn. But generally porn doesn't even get me going. Erotic stories can do it easily though.

I've had really beautiful girls naked on my bed who have wanted to have sex with me, and I've only done it to satisfy them, and getting a hardon required a decent amount of foreplay. I never had this problem a few years ago, I could get hard from a girl just looking at me seductively. Now, I'm just not in to sex or anything sexual, unless I get lots of foreplay, I'm more than happy to go to work on a girl though. This can't be normal for a guy. When I am naked with a girl I don't think about sex anymore, it's just like we are at a cafe having coffee, there's no sexual feelings for me, I just want to make her happy unless we have a shitload of foreplay. Also, when I jack off, I don't think about me fucking her and getting off, I think about her riding me and getting off, that's what gets me off.

I thought I had low testosterone a little while ago so I went to a doctor for a blood test, and he said I was fine, maybe I just get anxious during sex. He even wanted to prescribe me cialis, but I can get an erection if she sucks me off and then I'm usually fine, and it's not getting an erection that worries me, because I can get one, it's the fact I have no desire to get myself off with a partner anymore. It's like sex means nothing.

Does anyone else have this problem? Am I broken? I don't want drugs like viagra that just give you a hardon without desire, because I can get around that if it was just easy hardons I wanted, with morning sex. I just want to get turned on like I used to.

I don't know any other guy that is like this.

Stop masterbating so much

I would theorize you have had too many sexual encounters for them to seem meaningful to you anymore in the sense that you can get pleasure from them. Now you are past the point of taking pleasure, and are only somewhat interested in the aspect because you want to emotionally support your partner.

In short, you probably have had sex too many times in too short a time frame. Refrain from sexual intercourse for a while and go back into it with a woman you find very attractive. That might help.

http://www.ufonews.us/PineGap01.html

Just wait until you smell that sweet aroma from an unclothed woman. It will change.

You're a virgin obviously. What could you compare it to? Your hand?

Quit worrying so much.

Stop smoking pot.

Just roll with it...and to quote some damn movie (I think it was 40 year old virgin) quit putting the pussy on a pedestal

I don't masturbate excessively, so I don't think that is the problem.

I'm not a virgin.

I don't smoke pot.

When I smell pussy I just want to bury my face in it, but I wouldn't say the smell alone makes me excessively horny.

I am going to quit wanking and watching porn though, and see how that goes.

Low sex drive can be a symptom of depression.

As depression can be a symptom of a low sex drive.

Low sex drive is a symptom of death.

My grandpa had a high sex drive after death pretty much until his corpse disintegrated from our family gangfucking it.

First of all, you wasted a perfectly good topic by being a long-winded lil whine bag.

Second of all, I don't think you've lost your "mojo", whatever that means. I think that you are simply being Aryan (I am assuming that you are white). A lot of the really intellectually oriented Aryans are asexual.

My grandpa had a high sex drive after death pretty much until his corpse disintegrated from our family gangfucking it.

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That made me laugh pretty hard.

To the OP, you're not alone. When I think about it, I'm always rushing around doing stuff. I could probably get laid if I wanted.

Sometimes I'm in your position, only fucking for her.

I find i'm getting quite bored of my current girl, the sex is great however I need more in a relationship and it isn't there.

First of all, you wasted a perfectly good topic by being a long-winded lil whine bag.

Second of all, I don't think you've lost your "mojo", whatever that means. I think that you are simply being Aryan (I am assuming that you are white). A lot of the really intellectually oriented Aryans are asexual.

I'm not white I'm a mix breed, but a neo-Nazi who was a friend of the family insisted I was Aryan.


That made me laugh pretty hard.

To the OP, you're not alone. When I think about it, I'm always rushing around doing stuff. I could probably get laid if I wanted.

The problem is not in getting laid. I can get girls fairly easily.

I'm not white I'm a mix breed, but a neo-Nazi who was a friend of the family insisted I was Aryan.




The problem is not in getting laid. I can get girls fairly easily.

http://www.ufonews.us/PineGap01.html

Yeah I saw it before. Thanks for the link. Interesting, but I couldn't find other sources in regards to the UFO spotting.

It's a good thing if you're not getting erections just from seeing chicks it means it won't happen at the awkwardest of times like at a funeral. It means you can control urself or you might just have a fetish. you could be gay? jk.:D