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 #1 
Old 2008-06-18, 13:42
Sniper78 Sniper78 is offline
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Default Meeting this girl I haven't seen in 9 years.

Ok well here's the story.

I use to go to school with this girl (karly) from kinder garden to third grade. During that time she always told her mother that she liked me a lot. Her mom, and my mom were friends, and amazed that a little girl like that would have that interest already.

So I moved after third grade. For three years I lived about 6 hours away. Three years later I return, and now only live an hour away from where I originally went to school. I go on with my normal life for 6 years until last week.

I've kept in contact with my best friend who goes to school with Karly. Well she sees me on his facebook and messages me right away. She asks if I remember her, and she definitely remembered me, like she's been thinking about me all this time.

She starts bringing up a lot of random stuff from back then trying to make it like we had some memories. Now here's the kicker. We both discussed college plans, and were attending the same college this fall.

So after that she asks when am I going to be in the area next? I told her this weekend. She wants to hang out saturday.

**So short all in all, I'm meeting this girl saturday that I haven't seen in 9 years. What the hell should we do? I think I might take it as meeting any new chick, but it seems it will be different. Does she want me again? Fuck buddy for college?**
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Old 2008-06-18, 17:14
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Florida, US
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Im sure she wants you based soley on the fact that you were a cute third grader. You know what they say, true love never dies.
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Old 2008-06-18, 17:24
Flannery Flannery is offline
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Default Re: Meeting this girl I haven't seen in 9 years.

pics pls
 #4 
Old 2008-06-18, 18:57
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Treat her as you'd treat any other girl.

You've obviously got the advantage of her having fond memories of you. If you find her attractive, that'd just make your life easier (but don't let it influence the way you behave around her). Otherwise, it's going to make your life more difficult.

Either way, good luck.
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Old 2008-06-18, 19:24
Sniper78 Sniper78 is offline
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Default Re: Meeting this girl I haven't seen in 9 years.

pics pls

pic the only one she has in her profile. Not a big facebook girl. O by the way that is not her baby!

http://i29.tinypic.com/2mr9zz4.jpg
 #6 
Old 2008-06-18, 21:25
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*check the background out*

lol


you're going to meet her and....
 #7 
Old 2008-06-18, 21:29
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Volcanbaru
*check the background out*

lol


you're going to meet her and....


Carve toy angels?
 #8 
Old 2008-06-18, 21:50
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just an impression she or her family are christians or maybe catholic.

*shrug*
 #9 
Old 2008-06-18, 22:26
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It's just like Layla and Majnun, except . . . not.
 #10 
Old 2008-06-18, 22:37
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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I'm not even from the US and I can tell she's a redneck.

That's with the knowledge that ain't her kid.
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Old 2008-06-18, 23:14
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Take her.....do work on that. If you went to school with her, bring up some past memories and reminisce....basically you can never run out of things to talk about since you shared past times with her.

I met up with a girl i had not seen in 6 years, and did just that ^^^ was golden....
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Old 2008-06-19, 14:28
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Default Re: Meeting this girl I haven't seen in 9 years.

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Originally Posted by ZeroMalarki
I'm not even from the US and I can tell she's a redneck.

That's with the knowledge that ain't her kid.


No she's not. She's just obviously one of those hyper-sweet christian girls who ignores ugly dudes.
 #13 
Old 2008-06-19, 14:33
Flannery Flannery is offline
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I'd hit it. Those angels are really creepy though.
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Old 2008-06-19, 15:19
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Almost a first for totse..usually the pics people post up of some girl its either A. Shes gothic/emo or B. Shes a droop...

Looks like a WIP...Walk In the Park.
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Old 2008-06-20, 13:09
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Originally Posted by Flannery
I'd hit it. Those angels are really creepy though.


This.
 #16 
Old 2008-06-20, 17:51
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bang her
also post pix
 #17 
Old 2008-06-20, 17:57
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Bay Area, Ca
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Hit it and quit it

Nail and bail.

Skeet and delete.



Do you see where I'm going with this?
 #18 
Old 2008-06-22, 17:57
Sniper78 Sniper78 is offline
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Default Re: Meeting this girl I haven't seen in 9 years.

UPDATE

Ok so her and I hung out last night. We went to the movies. When she walked through the door she came in right away and hugged me. We were like wow long time, etc. We got into the movies I paid. Then we sat next to each other, and talked about past memories. Also current things. Then we watched the movie "The love guru" Funny shit. During the whole thing we were pretty close to each other. I didn't make any moves.

Afterwards we sat in the theater kind of relaxed until everyone left. It really seemed like both of us wanted to make out. But it really did not feel appropriate.

She then brought up she had her senior yearbook with her. We decided to go to Chilli's and look at it. We sat there for about 2 1/2 hours just talking about random shit. I basically listened a lot.

So her x calls her up, and she tells me about him. She's over him, but he's not over her. He dumped her though.

I don't know where this is gonna go, but were hanging out again next weekend. I'll make some moves this time.

***All in all though I think I'm going to take SomeLowLife's advice. Hook up with her for a little bit then dump her. But since were going to the same college I'm not going to create grudges. I don't want a commitment right off before college.***
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Old 2008-06-22, 18:10
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Just see where it goes. Don't put yourself in skeet & delete mode just yet. You haven't even made a move. Hang out with her and see how it goes. If she's a cool chick, maybe you'll want to stay with her for a while. I just graduated from college, believe me when I say that most of the girls you'll meet will be slag. There are a lot of hot girls at any given college, but your chances of getting with them are not always that great, especially if you actually care about your grades/go to class, etc.

Just have fun.
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Old 2008-06-22, 18:15
Sniper78 Sniper78 is offline
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Default Re: Meeting this girl I haven't seen in 9 years.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Fanglekai
Just see where it goes. Don't put yourself in skeet & delete mode just yet. You haven't even made a move. Hang out with her and see how it goes. If she's a cool chick, maybe you'll want to stay with her for a while. I just graduated from college, believe me when I say that most of the girls you'll meet will be slag. There are a lot of hot girls at any given college, but your chances of getting with them are not always that great, especially if you actually care about your grades/go to class, etc.

Just have fun.


Good shit. Thanks.
 #21 
Old 2008-06-22, 19:01
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Bay Area, Ca
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UPDATE

***All in all though I think I'm going to take SomeLowLife's advice. Hook up with her for a little bit then dump her. But since were going to the same college I'm not going to create grudges. I don't want a commitment right off before college.***

Good shit. Good shit.


Fanglekai does have a point though. Don't just bust & bounce if she's a keeper.
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Old 2008-06-22, 19:38
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Just see where it goes. Don't put yourself in skeet & delete mode just yet. You haven't even made a move. Hang out with her and see how it goes. If she's a cool chick, maybe you'll want to stay with her for a while. I just graduated from college, believe me when I say that most of the girls you'll meet will be slag.

Goddamit, Slag is fuckin everywhere. Mad
 #23 
Old 2008-06-22, 20:48
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Goddamit, Slag is fuckin everywhere. Mad

Fuck! I dunno why it has to be this way. It's really hard to find decent women. I kind of want a girlfriend, but I'm not about to sacrifice my dignity to be with some waste of space slut. That's life, I guess.

OP, if she's good, just take my advice and hold on to her. I haven't had a steady girlfriend in about 2 years because I haven't found a worthwhile girl. I did the casual dating thing for most of my time in college, and it's really tiring after a while. Finding a girl you can hold on to is the best plan.

Best of luck.
 #24 
Old 2008-06-22, 21:16
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tl;dr + don't care
 #25 
Old 2008-06-22, 22:54
mikehunt1 mikehunt1 is offline
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she looks like a keeper from the pic, seems to be alittle more goin on with her ex though maybe..keep us updated
 #26 
Old 2008-06-23, 03:01
Sniper78 Sniper78 is offline
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Originally Posted by mikehunt1
she looks like a keeper from the pic, seems to be alittle more goin on with her ex though maybe..keep us updated


I'll let you guys know what happens this weekend.
 #27 
Old 2008-06-27, 17:24
Sniper78 Sniper78 is offline
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Default Re: Meeting this girl I haven't seen in 9 years.

Update:

So we've been talking. After our college visit thing tomorrow she invited me over to her house to go swimming. I don't know if her rents will be there or not, but does this mean something big?

I need some advice here on this situation totse. I think it will just be her and I swimming. So I definitely know some shit has to go down if her parents are not home. If they're home then I don't know what will happen.

Over all how should I play this situation? Expect her to move on me if she's in a bikini, and I'm in trunks. Or do I move on her? I have no clue what to expect.
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Old 2008-06-27, 18:01
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Originally Posted by Sniper78
Update:

So we've been talking. After our college visit thing tomorrow she invited me over to her house to go swimming. I don't know if her rents will be there or not, but does this mean something big?

I need some advice here on this situation totse. I think it will just be her and I swimming. So I definitely know some shit has to go down if her parents are not home. If they're home then I don't know what will happen.

Over all how should I play this situation? Expect her to move on me if she's in a bikini, and I'm in trunks. Or do I move on her? I have no clue what to expect.


dude. you have her if shes taking you swimming, easily. if her parents arent home, flirt insanely. get the whole getting close thing goin and then have a wet and sloppy mack sesh underwater, its definitely fun, especially if she takes her clothes off.
good luck man
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Old 2008-06-27, 19:34
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
Default Re: Meeting this girl I haven't seen in 9 years.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Sniper78
Update:

So we've been talking. After our college visit thing tomorrow she invited me over to her house to go swimming. I don't know if her rents will be there or not, but does this mean something big?

I need some advice here on this situation totse. I think it will just be her and I swimming. So I definitely know some shit has to go down if her parents are not home. If they're home then I don't know what will happen.

Over all how should I play this situation? Expect her to move on me if she's in a bikini, and I'm in trunks. Or do I move on her? I have no clue what to expect.


Whos setting the trap on this one haha? If her parents arent home, expect to see something going down..just be ready/confident since you know something is up, if you make a move or if she does just be ready to cooperate...simple as cake. Run it good...cuz shes going to be watching.
 
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