My boyfriend is truly a wonderful guy. He pays for me, looks out for me and treats me like every girl should be treated.

Only recently have we decided to take the plunge and lose our virginity to one another. The scene was perfect, and I really enjoyed it, but every time we do it he seems to get more and more aggressive and yells horrible things like "Take it bitch!" and "You're a nasty little whore aren't you?!" and also "This is what I do to big titted sluts!".

It really ruins the atmosphere for me, and I always thought sex was a way to express love, not talk dirty like that. Maybe he watches too much porn? I don't know how to approach him because I'm worried I'll hurt his feelings.