I had anal sex a few times, but years ago. I didn't really enjoy it, I just tried it because I like giving new things a go, but decided it wasn't for me.
I know buttsecks can be an acquired taste, some girls really love it, but that's because they're willing to get past the initial discomfort. For a long time I figured I'd just leave it, it wasn't worth the effort.
Recently though, I've been thinking more and more about trying anal sex again, and getting rather turned on by the concept. I realize that trying it out of boredom when I was younger hadn't really done much for me because I didn't have the feeling of desire for it I do now. I think I could give it another go, despite swearing that I would never bother with anal again.
I really want it. Considering the discomfort the first two times, however, I'm a bit shy about it, which makes it more exciting, it feels like something new, all over again. I feel that now I have someone I love and trust, I want him to give it to me good and proper. I still don't see how something that size will fit, but I know it will!

So anyway, totse, I would like some advice. I know the part about relaxing and using a lot of lube, etc, but I'd like to hear about peoples' experiences.
Girls (and homos), is it worth getting used to it, is it something I might truly enjoy after being "broken in"?
Also, tips and ideas, please. How can I make it a good first-time-in-ages?
I appreciate your thoughts on the matter!

omg it's flock! good to see you back.

OK so this is my semi embarassing story about my attempt at anal sex (giving it, that is).

So, I had made her come vaginally with my wang but I am rather slow to ejaculate, so my GF at the time graciously offered me her bum (as she was getting a bit sore, and also wanted to please me). So I was like "score!" I lubed myself up, and tried to work it in. She was a very small young lady however, and her sphincter said ¡NO PASADRAS!

So, being the resourceful young man I was, I thought I should finger her bum, I worked one in, nice and slowly, then I thought "hmm my dick isn't that small i should probably use two", so i pulled the first one out, and I was like "hmm, there's a bit of shit on my finger" and wondered what to do with it, then my erection softend substantially and it never happened.

This happened several times with this girl IIRC.

So, I recommend a thorough bum clean.

Really worth getting into. The key is simply you must really want it, all the lube and relaxing won't help if you don't get wet at the thought . Ideally you should be so turned on that he could use your juices as lube.

omg it's flock! good to see you back.
Yeah, my boyfriend (the potential buttsex0r) has a modem, I've been in the wilderness without totse for some time.
As for your sordid tale, I agree that cleanliness is an issue, one which I will properly address!

Ideally you should be so turned on that he could use your juices as lube.

This has almost happened a good few times, but I get girlishly shy whilst secretly my whole body yearns for it... I'll certainly go for it, I just keep delaying, but that makes me more excited, especially when he tells me what he'll do to me!
I'm still a bit anxious about the amount of discomfort involved, but I guess when the time's right, it'll all go well...

Yeah, my boyfriend (the potential buttsex0r) has a modem, I've been in the wilderness without totse for some time.
As for your sordid tale, I agree that cleanliness is an issue, one which I will properly address!



This has almost happened a good few times, but I get girlishly shy whilst secretly my whole body yearns for it... I'll certainly go for it, I just keep delaying, but that makes me more excited, especially when he tells me what he'll do to me!
I'm still a bit anxious about the amount of discomfort involved,

Good, try working the first time into a 'scene' (S&M type thing), let him keep you on tender hooks for it, make you BEG for it.

You might try a little dildo practice in the mean time, y'know? Or splash out and buy a butt plug which he orders you to wear all day,everyday. All assuming you like a hint of submission of course.

PS. if you like it submissive, that he really 'does' you, then I'll think up some suggestions.

^^^^^^

Eeeeew! I retract my complimentry comments on your modability!

Bottom sex is just so gross, ugg!

PS. if you like it submissive, that he really 'does' you, then I'll think up some suggestions.

Of course I do!! Very much so. The way he teases (or is that threatens?) me already with the idea of anal drives me crazy. Well I'd like you to think up some suggestions... even if I don't actually put them into practice, I can have something delicious to consider as I fap off.