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 #1 
Old 2008-06-12, 03:15
Gojeero Gojeero is offline
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Default I hate my girlfriend's cig smoking

Hey.

I am going home on leave next week to visit my girlfriend. It is her 21st birthday. Here is the big problem for me... She smokes cigarettes, and I fucking hate it. I wish I could accept it sometimes. Maybe not accept it, but not let it piss me off. And when she drinks, she smokes even more. We are going out for her 21st. I am talking to her online right now and I said I am going to get upset if she smokes, she just said that I don't have to watch. Right, but I still know you did it... duh. I don't want to fight on my one weekend of leave. Any advice? It's really not worth fighting over but I just know right now I am going to get pissed off.

Thanks.
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Old 2008-06-12, 03:22
baliente baliente is offline
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Default Re: I hate my girlfriend's cig smoking

Bitch is probably cheating on you anyways.

Lay one/two/three of her friends.

Otherwise, if you don't like her smoking, why date her? Break up with her and go kick some ass, thanks for fightin'.
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Old 2008-06-12, 03:23
doooshbaggy doooshbaggy is offline
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either one stop being a fucking pussy and just not give a fuck about it or two fucking take up smoking your self and then you wont have any problems at all. smoking is nice anyway.
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Old 2008-06-12, 03:25
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Why do you hate it so much? You 2 will long be broken up by the time she develops emphizima anyway.
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Old 2008-06-12, 03:56
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Originally Posted by doooshbaggy
either one stop being a fucking pussy and just not give a fuck about it or two fucking take up smoking your self and then you wont have any problems at all. smoking is nice anyway.


fucking this.
 #6 
Old 2008-06-12, 05:12
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Originally Posted by doooshbaggy
either one stop being a fucking pussy and just not give a fuck about it or two fucking take up smoking your self and then you wont have any problems at all. smoking is nice anyway.


Well done.
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Old 2008-06-12, 08:25
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Sir, I don't mean to be blunt but I must be. You're dating a smoker. This smoker you are dating, she will smoke, and there is nothing you can do about that.

Common logic dictates that if you do not like cigarettes, you should not date a smoker. It does not matter what else you like about her, this is a big thing, a deal-breaker. You have to let it break the deal.

Oh, and enjoy her 21st. Mine is coming up soon, and it should be quite fun I suspect.
 #8 
Old 2008-06-12, 09:23
torqueman torqueman is offline
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Eh, my ex from years ago smoked. I got her to quit. Now she hates it.

It's possible.
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Old 2008-06-12, 17:03
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Try get her to switch to weed..soon enough, she will be smoking joint/blunts(to help her cigarettes addiction out).

Better than cigarettes...plus you can get high with her!
 #10 
Old 2008-06-12, 17:08
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if she smokes, she pokes.

'nuff said.
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Old 2008-06-12, 17:52
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Originally Posted by Gojeero
Hey.

I am going home on leave next week to visit my girlfriend. It is her 21st birthday. Here is the big problem for me... She smokes cigarettes, and I fucking hate it. I wish I could accept it sometimes. Maybe not accept it, but not let it piss me off. And when she drinks, she smokes even more. We are going out for her 21st. I am talking to her online right now and I said I am going to get upset if she smokes, she just said that I don't have to watch. Right, but I still know you did it... duh. I don't want to fight on my one weekend of leave. Any advice? It's really not worth fighting over but I just know right now I am going to get pissed off.

Thanks.

You sound like a conservative pussy. She has probably already cheated on you. Why push it? It's just going to make both of you unhappy. Either accept her for who she it, or break it off, simple as that.
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Old 2008-06-12, 19:45
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I asked my girlfriend to stop smoking before we got into a relationship and she conceded. Sounds like you should have done the same.

Try telling her how you feel.
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Old 2008-06-12, 20:49
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I asked my girlfriend to stop smoking before we got into a relationship and she conceded. Sounds like you should have done the same.

Try telling her how you feel.


Did the same thing.

but one day she smelled like smoke, she showed me the cigs, I took them from her, broke 'em so she couldn't smoke them and gave her the money for them.

Mad
 #14 
Old 2008-06-12, 20:58
KriminalMinded KriminalMinded is offline
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I'm trying to understand, but I honestly can't. I don't think I know 5 people who don't smoke. Is it the fact that she is smoking and harming her body?
Or is aroma/smell pissing you off and irritating you?
 #15 
Old 2008-06-12, 21:00
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Default Re: I hate my girlfriend's cig smoking

There's probably hundreds of things about YOU that piss HER off as well. She just doesn't bitch about them.
And you don't want to fight because it might ruin your weekend off? Don't be so selfish! It's her 21st birthday!!! She will only ever get one of those you will have plenty more weekends off!
If you end up fighting with her and ruining her 21st then you are a twat.
Just grow up.... I can see how it would be a problem if the smoking was a new thing.... but if she was a smoker before you got together you have no right to suddenly decide you don't like it now!
 #16 
Old 2008-06-12, 21:55
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You should make her smoke your cock instead. That would be a nice 21st birthday treat.
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Old 2008-06-12, 22:21
rs_luvva_91 rs_luvva_91 is offline
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Originally Posted by Volcanbaru
Try get her to switch to weed..soon enough, she will be smoking joint/blunts(to help her cigarettes addiction out).

Better than cigarettes...plus you can get high with her!


he could just lead her into a dependency on crack, she stops smoking cigarettes and she can't do without him; Sorted.
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Old 2008-06-12, 22:26
BluryVision BluryVision is offline
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Get her to smoke American Spirit, they're better.
If the smell bothers you, honeyrose cigs are quality. ;)
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Old 2008-06-13, 01:17
Gojeero Gojeero is offline
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i just feel like she is taking time away from our future together, but i decided fuck it, it aint worth fightin about.
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Old 2008-06-13, 01:43
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Originally Posted by Gojeero
i just feel like she is taking time away from our future together, but i decided fuck it, it aint worth fightin about.


That's pretty fucking weird. I hope she's as serious about you as you are about her.
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Old 2008-06-13, 01:49
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Originally Posted by The Poet Chemist
You should make her smoke your cock instead. That would be a nice 21st birthday treat.


This :D
 #22 
Old 2008-06-13, 02:19
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Default Re: I hate my girlfriend's cig smoking

All you haters suck. Smoking is freaking nasty for those of us who are lucky enough not to be addicted to nicotine. I was recently dating a girl who smoked. She smoked maybe half a pack a day. For some reason, I didn't hate it as much as I thought I would. I think it's because her juicy pussy made up for it.

Anyway, if it bothers you that much, my advice is to break up with her. You'll be doing her a favor too, because she might have more mental incentive to quit if she thinks it's coming between her and others.

Today I was at the coffee shop, and when I got there, there were something like twenty customers but all of them were outside in the 100 degree Farenheit heat, because they were all smokers. I walked in to the nice, cool, air-conditioned, and completely empty coffee shop as I said to myself, "Ha! Sucking on cigarettes is for suckas!"
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Old 2008-06-13, 03:57
doooshbaggy doooshbaggy is offline
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Originally Posted by Starsword
All you haters suck. Smoking is freaking nasty for those of us who are lucky enough not to be addicted to nicotine. I was recently dating a girl who smoked. She smoked maybe half a pack a day. For some reason, I didn't hate it as much as I thought I would. I think it's because her juicy pussy made up for it.

Anyway, if it bothers you that much, my advice is to break up with her. You'll be doing her a favor too, because she might have more mental incentive to quit if she thinks it's coming between her and others.

Today I was at the coffee shop, and when I got there, there were something like twenty customers but all of them were outside in the 100 degree Farenheit heat, because they were all smokers. I walked in to the nice, cool, air-conditioned, and completely empty coffee shop as I said to myself, "Ha! Sucking on cigarettes is for suckas!"


maybe you should go to the op's house in suck im off instead of his girl cause you are a faggot just like him. also this is not your blog so no one cares about your fucking experiences at starbucks faggot.
 #24 
Old 2008-06-13, 04:04
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Replace her cigarettes with sticks of gunpowder.
 #25 
Old 2008-06-13, 04:19
Affect Affect is offline
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Default Re: I hate my girlfriend's cig smoking

If she doesn't want to quit, there is no use in trying. If she does, try to help her. You getting pissed off because of her personal choices is not right. Overstepping your bounds.
 #26 
Old 2008-06-13, 06:26
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You really don't have any right to tell her how to live her life. That's the thing that you non-smokers don't get: we don't give two and a half shits if you "love us", we're not going to kick our habit until we're nice and ready.
 #27 
Old 2008-06-13, 16:06
HTS-Noob HTS-Noob is offline
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All you haters suck. Smoking is freaking nasty for those of us who are lucky enough not to be addicted to nicotine.

Fucking bullshit. I don't smoke, but I don't find anything about it nasty. Faggot.

There's a huge difference between non-smokers like myself and anti-smokers like you, and I'd prefer not to be associated with your faggotry.
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Old 2008-06-13, 16:39
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Originally Posted by Gojeero
Hey.

I am going home on leave next week to visit my girlfriend. It is her 21st birthday. Here is the big problem for me... She smokes cigarettes, and I fucking hate it. I wish I could accept it sometimes. Maybe not accept it, but not let it piss me off. And when she drinks, she smokes even more. We are going out for her 21st. I am talking to her online right now and I said I am going to get upset if she smokes, she just said that I don't have to watch. Right, but I still know you did it... duh. I don't want to fight on my one weekend of leave. Any advice? It's really not worth fighting over but I just know right now I am going to get pissed off.

Thanks.


If you can't ignore it for one weekend to make YOUR LEAVE better, then dump the bitch.
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Old 2008-06-14, 00:31
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dump bitch / get a new one, it's the best choice.
 
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