So I told my girl i didn't want to do the normal relationship thing (we had an open relationship for a while), and told her I don't think we should see each other anymore.I went to her place to tell her and told her. So she started crying, and I made mistake number one, I held her. After a while she stopped then kissed me, I tried to push her away but I guess I didn't have the will power. I ended up spending the night with her , I left in the morning telling her it's over, but she just laughed.

She keeps on calling me and inviting me over to fuck or asking if she can come over, I'm trying to explain to her that it's over, and she says if it's over come over and tell it to my face that it's over.


However I probably do think I would fuck her if I saw her in person, which is what i'm trying to avoid, ( I want to have a real relationship with somebody I actually like emotionally).

Ideas about how I could tell her in person without ending up sleeping with her?

Get her to do something really sexual disgusting to you.
Then blame her for pushing you into it and act as an emotional wreck because of it. Then tell her you just cant handle it.

Cut her off like genital warts.

You already have told her to her face. No more time for games. Man up.

Im afraid breaking up doesn't work.

There exists this thing called willpower; many of us use it so that we do not cave to our every whim and lead lives full of self-indulgence that tends to be unhealthy in great excess.

Man up the fuck up.

Willpower is the ultimate cockblock.

This is true, especially when the OP wants to stop sticking his dick in his ex-girlfriend.

Hey buddy I'm in the same boat...

I broke up with her like 2 months ago, but kept having sex with her....

This morning, she comes to my house at like 7:30am, just after the rest of my family left. Then she tells me she just had an abortion, and that she lied when she told me she got her period.

Then she asks me if I like this other girl ( I was flirting with her pretty heavy at prom, and i DO like her). I say no, just to avoid some crying, and she doesn't believe me.

Then an hour later I'm laying on the floor and shes sucking my cock...

DAMN THAT FOUL LITTLE TEMPTRESS! (they always want sex more after a breakup...how do they always know thats one of my buttons)

(they always want sex more after a breakup...how do they always know thats one of my buttons)

I think they want to feel needed, or validated. You want sex, and they know you can't turn it down, so they use sex so that they can feel like they're worth something.

Which is funny, because that's the very thing that makes them worthless...

how do they always know thats one of my buttons)

because they desperately hope that if they fuck you, you'll get back with them. Happening to me, but I have the balls to make sure it doesn't happen. Think with your head, not your dick. It's not that fucking hard.

Just keep fucking them and accept that you don't have to give them any emotional attachment. Eventually, she'll realize that she's not getting what she wants out of the relationship, start fucking other guys, and leave you.

tell her you are going to france or some shit and have 2 tickets, then when you guys are going to the airport shove her into the luggage machine and run the fuck away. by that time the next day, she shhould be in new zeland... when she gets back, trust me.... she'll never talk to you again.

I'm in the same situation as of 4 days ago I think. She still wants to fuck me...and I'm all for it. I also am going to fuck other people as well.

How old are you OP?

19 about to be 20

I've been doing that for a while but she doesn't want that anymore. Which is why i'm trying to tell her i'm done with her.

I've been doing that for a while but she doesn't want that anymore. Which is why i'm trying to tell her i'm done with her.

If you don't you'll just end up having to deal with her making you jealous.