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 #1 
Old 2008-06-07, 02:24
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I don't like my girlfriend of 5 months anymore. I'll probably break up with her soon, but I'm waiting a couple weeks or so. There's this girl whom I told her when I'm single I wanna chill with her. I have reasonable evidence that she's interested in me, so I figured I'd give it a go. I couldn't tell if she wants to or if she's bothered by the circumstances.

I've only talked to her a few times, but she asked for my number and whatnot. So how far should I go given the opportunity? I'd like not to cheat, but don't wanna wait too long and have that other girl be taken by the time I'm single.
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Old 2008-06-07, 02:35
mikehunt1 mikehunt1 is offline
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Why do you have to wait to break up? if you don't wanna be in that relationship then get out of it, you are wasting her time.
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Old 2008-06-07, 02:41
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Why do you have to wait to break up? if you don't wanna be in that relationship then get out of it, you are wasting her time.


I don't want to break up with her because I like hangin with her brothers and their friends. (we don't go to the same school) I don't love her, what's a good way to end it with the least amount of friction?
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Old 2008-06-07, 02:53
Minority Deport Minority Deport is offline
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Get in a fight over something stupid. escalate it until she is really mad at you and stops talking. Then call her in a day or two and tell her your just not happy being with her

That would probably work
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Old 2008-06-07, 02:54
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Get in a fight over something stupid. escalate it until she is really mad at you and stops talking. Then call her in a day or two and tell her your just not happy being with her

That would probably work


This is probably what I'll do.

You think that other girl is gonna get pissed at waiting for me?
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Old 2008-06-07, 03:21
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You guys are crazy

Getting in a fight with her will create A LOT of friction.

Just sit her down and have a man to woman talk to her and tell her the truth. Let her down easy.
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Old 2008-06-07, 03:22
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You guys are crazy

Getting in a fight with her will create A LOT of friction.

Just sit her down and have a man to woman talk to her and tell her the truth. Let her down easy.


She knows she's getting the boot soon. She calls me out to break up with her after arguments.
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Old 2008-06-07, 03:30
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She knows she's getting the boot soon. She calls me out to break up with her after arguments.

Then stop wasting her time, do her a favor and END it.
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Old 2008-06-07, 03:37
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Then stop wasting her time, do her a favor and END it.

Yea I'm gonna. What's should I say to her? I just want suggestions, I'll be able to do it myself.
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Old 2008-06-07, 04:12
kappelpie kappelpie is offline
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Try: I think we should break up.
How fucking hard is that?
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Old 2008-06-07, 06:36
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Then stop wasting her time, do her a favor and END it.

I agree with this slide.
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Old 2008-06-07, 13:12
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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It sounds like she's prepared to break up with you anyway.

You have to remember this whole "I don't love her" thing.

You're in school, you don't need to love anyone.

Just fuck around without fucking people about.
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Old 2008-06-07, 13:32
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Well we broke up last night. I took the advice that some of the people in this thread gave me and did it. We got in an argument, then she called me out on breaking up with me. She's like if you don't care about me then just do it. I said ok.

She later tells me that she was thinking about breaking up. She's still upset, but she wants to see me today. I'll probably see her for a little bit.
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Old 2008-06-07, 16:49
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Take it the anal didn't go too well?
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Old 2008-06-07, 23:32
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Take it the anal didn't go too well?

Fucking LOL, na I didn't do it cuz I knew we were gonna break up.
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Old 2008-06-08, 00:32
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Good. No one deserves to get cheated on. And really, it's not worth it. If you did cheat on her and her brothers and her friends found out, they'd probably pick a fight. I know I would if someone did that to my sister. Or one of my friend's sisters.

And now you can fuck around with a clean conscious and without the rep of a cheater. I know I wouldn't date a cheater (I'd fuck one though), and I bet most women would be hesitant at least.
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Old 2008-06-08, 05:14
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See OP, you're not all bad. You've done the right thing. Cheating is never the answer. So the new girl, can you see your self falling for her? Or is she just teh h4wtz?
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Old 2008-06-08, 10:49
Internet-Weed-Dude Internet-Weed-Dude is offline
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Good. No one deserves to get cheated on. And really, it's not worth it. If you did cheat on her and her brothers and her friends found out, they'd probably pick a fight. I know I would if someone did that to my sister. Or one of my friend's sisters.

And now you can fuck around with a clean conscious and without the rep of a cheater. I know I wouldn't date a cheater (I'd fuck one though), and I bet most women would be hesitant at least.


what about that guy that forced his daughter help cut off her dead moms head?
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Old 2008-06-08, 12:38
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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See OP, you're not all bad. You've done the right thing. Cheating is never the answer. So the new girl, can you see your self falling for her? Or is she just teh h4wtz?


Does it matter?

He's not of the age where a long term relationship really matters. Are any of us?
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Old 2008-06-08, 14:44
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See OP, you're not all bad. You've done the right thing. Cheating is never the answer. So the new girl, can you see your self falling for her? Or is she just teh h4wtz?


The one that I am talkin to already has a nice ass and a good face. She's the same age as me, but younger and in the grade below me.
I don't know much about her though, so she might not be the one I pursue.

I went up to my ex's town yesterday and hung out with my friends. I stopped by and talked things out with her. The conversation ended with her saying "are we still gonna have sex?"
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Old 2008-06-08, 15:14
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The one that I am talkin to already has a nice ass and a good face. She's the same age as me, but younger and in the grade below me.
I don't know much about her though, so she might not be the one I pursue.

I went up to my ex's town yesterday and hung out with my friends. I stopped by and talked things out with her. The conversation ended with her saying "are we still gonna have sex?"

Score.
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Old 2008-06-08, 16:00
JumpRopinJesus JumpRopinJesus is offline
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She's the same age as me, but younger and in the grade below me.

Lol at this statement.


I don't know much about her though, so she might not be the one I pursue.

And this as well.

Looks like somebody jumped the gun a little.

But good job on being a man about it.

+1.
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Old 2008-06-08, 18:02
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Lol at this statement.



It sounds like a funky statement, but it is logical and clear. She is 16, but a sophomore. I am 16, but a junior.



And this as well.

Looks like somebody jumped the gun a little.

But good job on being a man about it.

+1.

Na, she's not the only girl that I was goin for anyways. There's a lot of my ex's friends alone that want to fuck me.
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Old 2008-06-08, 18:06
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youre wasting her time and your own. also if someone finds out you get labeled a cheater and no girl wants your nuts
 #25 
Old 2008-06-09, 06:08
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convince her to dump you. Start a nasty rumor about yourself or something.
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Old 2008-06-09, 11:35
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convince her to dump you. Start a nasty rumor about yourself or something.


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