it was almost charity to date them, but yet they are dumping you.

there's no point ever dating anyone unless you think they are amazingly attractive. then, at least, your ego is intact when they dump you...you saw it coming.

i never want to date another asshole. if i ever date, it's only going to be someone with an enormous heart. being dumped is sucky.

worst thing ever..... they simply stop calling. no text message, no email. you just stop hearing from them.

end of whiny rant

i wasn't even in his league!!

Dont date them in the first place...?
Idiot.

Sounds like you had a superiority complex over this guy, and then you moan because he dumped you?

sigh. i'm ill suited for dating. too many issues.

you believe in leagues?

As in, leagues based on perceived social standing and attractiveness?

I think that may be your problem right thar...

Now you know; don't do charity.
<3

well they exist, even if we don't acknowledge them...

well they exist, even if we don't acknowledge them...

WTF is this shit, saved by the bell?

They don't exist in my mind.

well they exist, even if we don't acknowledge them...

Grow up. They only exist in your mind.

Now that's something I didn't expect from a totsean.

I'd dump you if you as well. I'm sorry, but I wouldn't want to be with a girl who doesn't use capital letters.

words
Maybe if you hadn't thought oh so much of yourself and oh so little of him, it wouldn't have hurt so much when he dumped you.

Maybe if you hadn't thought oh so much of yourself and oh so little of him, it wouldn't have hurt so much when he dumped you.

THIS.

You have waaaay to high an opinion of yourself. You're a whore and you should probably kill yourself. No wonder the poor guy dumped you. Doesn't matter how hot you are, I don't think I could stand to be in the same room as someone who's as much of a shallow conceited whore as you are.

it was almost charity to date them

Unfortunate but true this is how females are hardwired. They are programming to align with males in which she thinks have strong survival and replication value. If he doesn't have money or is lacking in the beauty department, then that core value is compromised and she moves on.

I'll say to you what I say to every other plastic westerner girl whos dad couldn't by them a Ferrari so they got a Lexus:

This isn't the dark ages, grow the fuck up.

murder/suicide
Probably without the murder part

1 for the PUA's/Gamers - 0 for the shallow whores.

I 3rd or 4th the murder/suicide suggestion

Maybe you were out of his league, but the question is... was he out of your caste?

If he's indian he could have learned you were an untouchable and must have felt embarrassed at being with you.

there you have it you fuckin skag, the thread is unanimous. btw, you aren't attractive, i've seen your pic.

You should probably get over yourself. Your arrogance puts any sensible person far superior to you.

Don't be a dick.

Say would you roll! Another spliff sir won't you pass it right over to me?

I would just like to say I am in agreement with the negative sentiment expressed towards the OP in this thread.

Fucking cunt.

You'll find someone eventually.

There are plenty of different people out there and someone will mesh with you in a way that can satisfy the both of you.

There's no reason to give up. Enjoy it, it's all part of life.

it was almost charity to date them

jesus fucking christ, you goofy bitch. yeah most relationships are based on varying levels of physical attraction, but jesus fucking christ. I can't even fathom the amount of arrogance it would take to make that comment.

totse can be pretty accepting. but shit, you're probably going to want to lie low for a while after this gem.

wow, if a guy comes in and says how he was dumped, totseans are all 'what a whore/bitch/lower species'

but when a woman comes in and is feeling down because she was dumped by a guy, it's all 'grow the fuck up'.

have some compassion.

lauren - any idea why he ended it?

Yeah, arrogance generally isn't helpful. It over-nourishes the ego on a somewhat flimsy or dubious basis, and it creates self-imposed walls that make it very difficult to view one's self in a more humble or "human"/flawed way, which is very humanizing and genuine (and genuineness tends to be a very attractive quality in others) It also makes it incredibly difficult to actually relate to other human begins on a deeper level (which is pretty important, as a person devoid of the whole social acceptance thing tends to become somewhat of a weirdo or malcontent.)

I also wonder why you would have dated him in the first place. I'm aware of the fact that desirable people, or those in high-demand, have the ability to be very selective with who they're seeing (ie: the "leagues" thing you mentioned.) Why would you willingly date someone you see as below yourself? I just can't wrap my head around what would motivate this. Did you feel like you just needed someone, or was it to make you feel in power/in control? I mean, a logical person probably would have seen the relationship as doomed from the start, so what motivated you to pursue it? I'd look into your motives a bit so as to understand yourself and your superiority-thing better.

I understand the napoleon complex shit quite well, as I've been there for much of my life, and still often am. Honestly, do some LSD or ecstasy and you'll likely end up a much humbler/more genuine person. Every human being is weak and pitiful in some moments, and every person needs and seeks love/acceptance.


Also, I recommend looking into nondualism (philosophy). Associating the "self" with the ego can be a very serious misunderstanding, that can lock people into a perspective lacking in genuine/true joy. Accept things as they are, without forming judgments? Living this way eliminates nearly all of one's "problems". Also, people have different strengths and perspectives, and everyone has something to offer. Granted what they may offer may not be suitable for an LTR or whatever, but then why date them?


Also, I'm not trying to come across as insulting or condescending. I just think arrogance ultimately hurts one's self more than anything. I've been there, so I feel confident discussing the issue.

theres always some fucking post about, "omg totse is so sexist against girlz!!!1"

the girls an arrogant bitch. if you honestly think that guys don't get called on this shit browse the current fucking forum list.

if she called the guy an asshole, she might get a condesending reply or two, but that definitely isnt all she said is it? go browse the forum before you assume the role of the one dumb fuck who believes hes the voice of reason.

I generally don't hand out compassion to people that thinks the world owes them and dating genuine guys where he may not have much money and she calls going out with him as charity.

Totse doesn't treat guys that way because they aren't "It was charity to be with her". If they did, it would be a similar effect to this thread.

I cannot think for the life of me why you would defend her actions, apart from now totse will isolate her and you think you can have a female ally on totse.

I'm sure if he was a millionaire he'd be in her "league". The OP needs to pull her head out of her arse and treat people as people and not be attracted to bank accounts, cars and houses.

If she cleans up her act, only then I would give her the time of day.

buster_hyman, very insightful post. Thanks man.

You're not reading it right..

She's pissed off because she was dumped by someone she deemed to be a lesser mortal. It's not like she was in love with the guy and had her heart broken.

You're not reading it right..

She's pissed off because she was dumped by someone she deemed to be a lesser mortal. It's not like she was in love with the guy and had her heart broken.

Word, that's what I was thinking, too. But lauren will eventually realize that being a better or good person so often involves an elimination of arrogance/ an attainment of humility.

there's no point ever dating anyone unless you think they are amazingly attractive.

I'd dump your ass too. No one wants to make out with someone after seeing shit coming out of their mouth.

Picture of OP or I can't comment.

Word, that's what I was thinking, too. But lauren will eventually realize that being a better or good person so often involves an elimination of arrogance/ an attainment of humility.

You actually said it better, I just had a minor TL/DR moment.

No fucking comparison.

A semi-attractive woman whose looking to date will find what she wants within a week of getting dumped.

A guy in the same position could be single for months or years, on the other hand.

EDIT: I love the internet for this very reason, its the only place where people are honest. If this dumb whore was with her "girl friends" they would all be patting her on the back supporting her.

Either successful troll is successful or dumb sket is dumb.

i hate it when someone dumps you, who wasn't even in your league to begin with
Then why date him/her? Obviously wasn't for the personality OR the looks.

Just a waste of his and your own time.

i wasn't even in his league!!
You're right you aren't...you're at the bottom of "the league".

Deserved everything that came to you...now go get gang banged.

I think she abandoned this thread.

I'd just like to point out she is a.) not attractive and b.) has lots of issues, apparently. The question is, what kind of subhuman would be "below" her?

I do agree that she is an arrogant bitch but how do you know what she looks like?

And to lauren. Grow the fuck up plzthx

how do you know what she looks like?

Long time member. Has shown her picture. Not attractive, not ugly. I remember she dated someone from totse, I think it was Euda? But yeah. Definitely expected more from her.

Lauren, you're a shit bitch. Beggars can't be choosers. Getting really bad guys? Maybe that's as good as you can do? A bit deluded in what league you think you're in? Meh..

Ha, she hasn't been back since. Shes probably appalled that totse isn't like her support network in real life where they masturbate about how they are all out of everybody's league.

Haha way to punch her in the ego.

Yeah, honestly, your fucking selfish and need to take a look at yourself.

Agreed. I have a feeling there's insecurity hidden beneath her superiority complex veneer.

a.k.a. by acting stuck up she's hiding that she isn't particularly confident (on the inside)

Hahaha ugly, conceited bitch pwnt.
GTFO my totse.
Oh wait you already did huh? lol.
Coward.

Wait, ew
old thread

wtf guys?

Isn't it great when a terrible thread rears its ugly head? You've got no reason to assume that she doesn't read the forum daily. Hell, she might be four of your favourite posters. lauren helped disillusion S&A for me. She has a lot of good qualities, hopefully they're shining through and she's enjoying her summer.

This was an unfortunate one to bring back.

Isn't it great when a great thread rears its great head?
I fixed it for you. It's not often that you see pwnage of this level. :o

Hahahahaha. Destroyed.

well they exist, even if we don't acknowledge them...

well..they exist, for that reason he saw you were...too much for him and he didn't want to suffer?

sticking people into "leagues" pisses me right off. Everyone has something that someone else doesnt.

Anyone can get money and now with money you can buy good looks.

If you label people by things that a relatively easy to attain than you need to redefine the boundaries.

Aesphetics and Afluence are the devils here.


moving on.


Serious post is serious.

lulz.

You have waaaay to high an opinion of yourself. You're a whore and you should probably kill yourself.

I lol'd so hard

Wow, you are an awful person.

That's pretty shallow to think like that OP.
By league you mean appearance.
Still I know what your on about, I recently ended a relationship as well, long story short I like girls more then girls now makes ya think :).

i wasn't even in his league!!

arrogant girls are in everybody's league ;)

Anyone remember when the OP attempted suicide and posted about it on Spurious Generalities? What was that, 2 years ago?

Was also disappointed when I finally saw her pic.

Still got that picture? I am curious now.

arrogance. a shield. guys - we have to have shields.

i wasn't "out of his league." and he didn't even "dump" me.

arquin - wtf. one stupid comment and suddenly i suck?

CUT PEOPLE SOME SLACK HERE.

Fuck off you necrobumping cunt. You're just asking to be ripped to shreds. More proof that all women are just attention loving whores.

And congrats on failing you kill yourself.

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2154471

^^^arrogance.

I can't believe I missed this thread and the fact that LAUREN IS BACK!

Put it down to my having to use dial up speed proxies and increasing senility.

For those that don't know Lauren was one of the top posters here, whose frequent disagreements with me were always conducted with intelligence and charm.

S&A was the poorer for your going girl.

thank you jackketch. at the same time, i have changed. i am no longer the calculatingly charming and self-effacing person who could never lower herself low enough for totse to like her. i am a hardened bitch now. and i have no qualms about making people hate me.

hi.

i have changed. i am no longer the calculatingly charming and self-effacing person who could never lower herself low enough for totse to like her. i am a hardened bitch now. and i have no qualms about making people hate me.

hi.

You're going to want to halt that neurochemical cascade before the hardware damage is permanent, btw.

Maybe if you hadn't thought oh so much of yourself and oh so little of him, it wouldn't have hurt so much when he dumped you.

This.

NEVER let this die.

NEVER let this die.

k

Would someone mind locking this or sending it to the trash pile?

Why?

I'll lock it for now until i hear from you.

still want pictures of the OP

This is the best thread ever.

Just want to bump this ignorance to the top.

i wasn't "out of his league." and he didn't even "dump" me.


CUT PEOPLE SOME SLACK HERE.

Uhm, thread title?

Not to point out the obvious or anything?

it was almost charity to date them, but yet they are dumping you.

There's no point ever dating anyone unless you think they are amazingly attractive. Then, at least, your ego is intact when they dump you...you saw it coming.

I never want to date another asshole. If i ever date, it's only going to be someone with an enormous heart. Being dumped is sucky.

Worst thing ever..... They simply stop calling. No text message, no email. You just stop hearing from them.

End of whiny rant

i wasn't even in his league!!

qfmft

This.

OP is a duhn dada duhn duhn BIG CUNT!


just get over it. ITS OVER. BUILD A FUCKING BRIDGE, AND GET OVER IT!

arrogance. a shield. guys - we have to have shields.

Wtf?! Now your just spewing nonsense.

i wasn't "out of his league." and he didn't even "dump" me.

There's no point for you to contradict yourself now. Everyone already knows that your an arrogant bitch.

It's long over and gotten over, I'm sure. This was almost three months ago.

With all do respect good sir, if it is still on totse I would bet that she hasn't gotten over it just yet.

it was almost charity to date them, but yet they are dumping you.


He fucked you, told his friends, then moved on.

/notreadingthrough

WTF is this shit, saved by the bell?

They don't exist in my mind.

lol rabbit always saying funny shit

jackketch, lauren was indeed a fine poster, and probably still is (if she still posts) BUT, that's doesn't take away the fact that this was rather...sad

And i agree with euda, close it, it's just followin the flamin road to nowhere...

I imagine the OP as one of those loud, fat black girls who is too stupid to know she is ugly.

*BUZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ*
WRONG!

emo white girl with a sand nigger fetish

*BUZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ*
WRONG!

emo white girl with a sand nigger fetish

Not really. She posted here for years. This post of hers is actually really out of character; it's also the only time she ever mentioned sand niggers. I think it was a one time deal.

Not really. She posted here for years. This post of hers is actually really out of character; it's also the only time she ever mentioned sand niggers. I think it was a one time deal.
two time deal i believe

sand nigger fetish
That's even worse.