I was with my girlfriend last night, we were making out and I was on top of her feeling her breasts and putting my hand in her shirt and rubbing her body. I ended it for a little bit and laid next to her and then cuddled her for a bit, my hand still rubbing her stomach/hips. I look her dead in the eye and slowly move my hand down into her pants and start rubbing the top of her vagina (couldn't get the whole thing cause she was wearing tight pants and my hand wouldn't fit). She was obviously grooving on this, and I felt really good. I was planning on unzipping her pants and then tasting her a little, but we didn't have a enough time before we had to go back.

HERES THE PROBLEM
I really really really love her, and I couldn't care less about sex or anything like that. It would simply be a BONus. However, apparently her mom found out (theres no way she could know unless she told her, but she says she didn't), and she says that her mom forbids me from touching her lady parts. My girlfriend says that she is going to have to go with that.

Is there any way I can convince her that as long as her mom doesn't know, then theres no problem without seeming like a dick? I've made it clear that we aren't going to have sex for a long time, but I wouldn't mind feeling her down there once in a while. I just don't want to scare her away because she thinks the only reason I love her is because she has a vagina, so I need to find a way of telling her that I do really love her, but would enjoy her enjoyment.

I just don't want to scare her away because she thinks the only reason I love her is because she has a vagina, so I need to find a way of telling her that I do really love her, but would enjoy her enjoyment.

Tell her that.

How old are you both??

Lawl @ 6th grade drama.

Does her mom have a surveillance camera or something? Because that's the only way she would have found out other than your gf telling her.

She's obviously the one that's not comfortable with it, but was probably too pussy to tell you that face to face. So she either told her mom and is now hiding behind that excuse "Mommy says I can't do that anymore", or never told her mom at all but still wishes to hide behind that excuse.

The part that sucks for you here is that your gf is actually the one who gets to decide these things, and she's either being brainwashed by her mother or doesn't want to give you permission. Her mother shouldn't have anything to do with this since it's what you two do in your private time.

My advice, find a more mature gf and get on with it. But you're probably 12 anyway. Just don't try to press it on her lest you be labeled as a rapist or one that tries to force girls into doing sexual things.

Oh yeah, and don't expect to get to third base before tagging second. Take those titties out and suck on 'em first, then move on to petting and fingering.

lol ur a bitch shes a bitch yalls a bitches

Ermmm....RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!



I don't need to explain to you unless you're like 12 years old...RUN AWAY FROM HER!

Dude your getting fucking limited....Its obvious your probably like 14-17 yrs old or the girl is of a special case(religious* etc.), but shit man....im soo glad im out of those years of fucking around where shit is meaningless and retarded as a midget running track.

Just be somewhere you can pull it off without her mom knowing and Do work.....

Just keep working on her, explaining how there's nothing wrong with it etc. etc.

Eventually nature will take over. If it doesn't you're screwed. Or not screwed, rather.

Tell her you're going to sit her mom down and have a reasonable conversation about it, just to reassure her that everything is alright.

Then, do just that.

"Just so you know, ma'am, I'm going to be having sex with your daughter."

Yeah, I'm sure it'll go over just fine...

"Just so you know, ma'am, I'm going to be having sex with your daughter."

Yeah, I'm sure it'll go over just fine...

I tell you what, gaining the trust and respect of the mother can take you a looooooong way.

"Just so you know, ma'am, I'm going to be having sex with your daughter."

Yeah, I'm sure it'll go over just fine...

"I promise to use protection. In fact, I will gladly provide you with videographic evidence of said protection being used during intercourse with your daughter. Have a nice day."

I tell you what, gaining the trust and respect of the mother can take you a looooooong way.

Yeah, of course it would.

But most parents don't exactly want to hear that their young teenage daughter is having sex...

"I promise to use protection. In fact, I will gladly provide you with videographic evidence of said protection being used during intercourse with your daughter. Have a nice day."

lol...

I am 15 and she is 14

Her mom already does really like me and respect me, however, she is super protective of her daughter because of certain reasons.

Thanks for the advice even though this is probably such a ridiculous topic for you to be discussing.

u must truly luv this gurl n like 4 u 2 b this carring about her u must be a very god person. i sugest u explane 2 her u relly relly love her dooghter and u shuldnt be like u no there like that n like its a thing like that

Lemme tell you something. Lots of chicks at that age have discression problems. If something happens, her mom's going to find out. Maybe not right away, but it won't take long.

And really, how long have you been together? This greatly effects any further advice I would have for you.

Give her one cruiser and then you can have your way with her. Record it so she cant cry wolf.

But seriously you're kidding yourself at that age.

dude? pussy for the most part tastes disgusting. You just have to get into her moms head and get her to like you, and tell your girlfriend to stop telling her mom what you two do. 14 is kind of young but if you two are ready...

^^^ Exactly....


RUN!

dude? pussy for the most part tastes disgusting.

I think it varies totally from girl to girl. I've had some women who it was a pleasure to go down on - they taste good, if anything. Others were just awful. I figure it has to do with what they eat.

Also, I've had girls tell me roughly the same thing about sperm. Apparently pineapple helps.

har har har har! you have been banish'd from your girlfriends lady parts by her mom!


lulz

I already feel better about myself. Thanks for the booster!

RAPE!

You're kids; you are not about to convince her mum, especially at the age you are.

Kids don't discuss shit with their parents, they just do shit behind their backs. What her mum doesn't know won't hurt her; she knows you'll still try it anyway so you may as well just fucking DO IT FAGGOT!.

We've been dating since April 4th

But we were seeing each other for a few weeks before that

The way I see it, there is no REAL problem if we aren't having sex = no risk of her getting pregnant.

Yeah now that I am re reading this, this is kinda stupid.
I sometimes confuse routine and reality and think that because we do love each other, it makes us ready. I know I am ready, but I am not too sure if she is. She said she loved my hands in her pants and rubbing her, but she doesn't want to take the risk of her mom finding out... which she only would if she tells her.

BTW

Pussy tastes GREAT you fucking faggot

Treat the bitch like a paedo would a loli (tell her that if she lets mummy know about yours and her little secret then you can never see each other again).

Basically tell the bitch to keep her big mouth to the cock sucking only and to keep shut the fuck up about it.

Otherwise there really isn't much point to you dating if you ain't getting your needs.

If she seriously can't keep her mouth shut to her mum then get rid of her, because trust me it will get tedious and you will end up splitting eventually anyway; better sooner than later.

Yeah but thats just it.

I couldn't really care less if we had sexual contact, it would just be really awesome.

And shes dutch too, so eventually her horniness will take over and she will be begging me to do shit to her.

She's 14. Fuck off.

but u dnt undastand he lyk ttly luvs her!!!

Lawl @ 6th grade drama.



We r in 7th graede N00B

Yeah but thats just it.

I couldn't really care less if we had sexual contact, it would just be really awesome.

And shes dutch too, so eventually her horniness will take over and she will be begging me to do shit to her.
You have no problems then, just carry on with the foreplay for now to help speed things up into the mood.

You have no problems then, just carry on with the foreplay for now to help speed things up into the mood.

Yeah thats sort of the whole theme I've gathered from this thread, and is what I am intending to do.

Yep, yep. That seems like something a sane person would do.
"Mum, it's none of your buisness, but I was making out with my boyfriend last night and he touched me *down there* and it was nice"


WHO THE FUCK WOULD TELL THEIR PARENTS THAT!?!?


Her mum needs to stfu and mind her own fucking buisness. Your girlfriend needs to grow some (please metaphorical) balls and accept the fact that her mum does not have a goddamn surveilance system in your room and that as a couple you are allowed to do whatever you want to do.

and accept the fact that her mum does not have a goddamn surveilance system in your room

How do you know?

How do you know?



That would be so hot.

your signature goes so well with this post :)

One of the pleasures of life is having the right to say "Man, I fucked bitches before I even got a job!". If she's being all "No, you can't touch me" don't pressure it. It'll come naturally like the rest said.

Rather than that, just invite her to do a line of coke or some other drugs that may spark her up and start touching her slowly.

Hope this helps.