does anyone have any tips on how to eat a girl out? i have gone down on my girlfriend twice, and she claims she dont like it, but i know i must be missing something because i know that almost everygirl loves to be eaten out, i just am not sure how to

go for the clit. use your fingers to find her g-spot.

But then again, some chicks just don't like it.

Lick her clit alot. Use your hands to spread her pussy so you can really get at it.

Don't stick your tongue in her pussy; that won't feel as good as a finger or your dick.

theres a couple vids out that are tutorials...
clit = best

Tell her to lick her own pussy if she doesn't like it. Ungrateful bitch.

tease, don't just get right into the vag with your mouth, work your way there slowly, touch other parts of the body, three steps backward two forward, you know the deal. build up arousal and vary it up where you focus your efforts. use more than just your tongue, use your nose to prod and rub as well, use hands, and get good, she'll be attached.

Yea've i been told by some bitch, I dont like getting ate out, then i ask if any of the guys knew what they were doing...did they lick your clit ...NO! Every girl is different but theres alot of equals across the board.

Before id say its almost a must lead up to it just like crazy hazy said. Build the boost. Use ur fingers, spread it, hit the clit....

three steps backward two forward

Pretty sure you'll get no where doing that...

And in regards to the OP, get it really wet. Heaps of spit helps. Push hard with your tongue, circular motions, and up down flicking motions. Then ease off a bit.

never do circular motions unless you can keep it steady, most chicks i tease and just slow it the fuck down to get them to build up the presure and have a multiple orgasm, that shit rocks seeing them shake lol.

ok well this is gonna make me seem like im unexperienced but w/e
im not sure where to find the clit
i think its somewhere by the top of her pussy right?

You're joking, right ?

You're joking, right ?Maybe you should snap a pic and label it for the chap :o

http://content.ytmnd.com/content/4/c/f/4cfdca155269732b634f9de66a7afe15.jpg

http://content.ytmnd.com/content/4/c/f/4cfdca155269732b634f9de66a7afe15.jpg

Just give up on sex now...

Alright the clit is towards the top of the vagina, when stimulated it becomes a little nub of flesh. I don't know how you could miss it.

And that right there is why she didn't like (your) oral sex.

I take it he's never watched porn...

this is a retared question but im feeling nice

http://practicalsexadvice.files.wordpress.com/2008/01/dijagram-vagine1.jpg

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/8/85/Vulva_labeled.jpg

Theres a pretty good labeled diagram there.

At the end of the day - you can look at as many pictures and diagrams as you want; but it's actually finding it in real life that counts.

The first time I went down on my girl [first girl] I knew to take it slow, kissed her thighs etc.. Yet I will admit I couldn't find the clit. Needless to say I didn't do very well that day!

Most of the advice in this thread has been top notch - take it slowly, tease her a bit, build up the anticipation - Make her want it NOW!

But after that you have to remember that every girl is different - to the person who said "Don't put your tongue inside her, it wont feel as good as a finger or a dick"; thats not true! My girl favors that - in fact in the first 1/3 of the vagina there is *alot* of nerve endings; so its a very sensitive area.

At the end of the day communication is the key - ask her what she likes, *read* her! Look out for any flinches, or her hips moving or her breathing changes - Learn to read those signs.

Heres a few links I found useful;
* http://www.cunnilingustutor.com/top50.shtml
* http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/ht/cunnilingus.htm
* http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_cunnilingus.shtml

And lastly - HAVE FUN! Enjoy it! Experiment! If you go into it anxious, scared or worried - it will probably show. So what if you make a little mistake or two? You just look at her make a joke of it and laugh it off, then go back to your job at hand - or you just ignore it!

Best of luck [Or lick? :P] dude!

hahahaha

lick the clit fuck her with finger

You're in the money, man. Nothing better than just fucking and falling asleep. The least amount of effort you have to put in the better. Get yours, roll over and sleep. Fuck her.

No, it wont, but if you're going to put your dick in in the same session of activity, it is a great way to leave her begging for it. Maybe that's just my experience, though.

And fuck licking the clit. Get that fucker in your mouth and suck on it. Don't hurt her, but give it some pressure. Press it between your tongue and the roof of your mouth.

As much as I seem to be taking to a hands-off approach, don't be afraid to let your hands take over so you can talk to her or focus your mouth somewhere else (lips, tits, whatever).