so theres this chick... im head over heals in love with her and she's already really emotionally attached to me. we aren't bullshitting each other acting like its something its not, ive told her that i don't see her as a friend and she has admitted to having feelings for me. we are slowly just turning into a couple without any kind of significant first step process (i haven't asked her out kissed her or anything) last weekend she kept trying to set us up in a position for a first kiss but i kept freaking out thinking i was going to fuck up a good thing by jumping the gun (which pissed her off). her cousin told me last night that i need to decide weither or not i want to be with her because she (her cousin) is tired of watching us and waiting. she is convinced she's down right crazy about me and i just need to give her a sign but i keep worrying about just coming out and kissing her and having her freak out or something.

i know in the back of my head that if i were to just come out and do something she would love it but i cant get over this irrational fear that im going to mess everything up.

besides alcohol how the hell can i get over this shit?

stop being a pussy or you'll never get any.

ive played this game before and know what i should do, but for some reason with this chick its like im 14 years old again and my mind goes blank every time i want to just kiss her

take her to a movie, gently move her face towards yours and kiss her. That has always worked for me.

best of luck to ya

Just do it, pal.

If you're that nervous about it, don't jump right into it; test the waters a bit. Play with her hair or something. As a rule of thumb, if she'll let you touch her hair she'll probably let you kiss her. Or just kiss her on the cheek like a dork and gauge her reaction.

If you don't she'll think you don't like her. True fact.

i think you should say exactly that. Start by saying I wanna talk to you about something and say with you its like im 14 years old again and my mind goes blank every time i want to just kiss her she'll probably eat that up and it will lead to her asking for a kiss or something, just make sure you kiss her soon after you say that.

You can do this. You know she wants it. You have everything to gain.

Just remember you're going to die someday soon. You'll be infinitely happy if you do this and it does work, and you'll only be down a little if it doesn't work.

Don't even preoccupy yourself with the act of kissing. Just focus yourself on moving your face in, man, move in and you're set. Once you cross that little barrier there's no coming back and nature will take care of the rest.

You can do this, die happy.

Just man up and kiss her.

Get mad/pissed inside, just think what the fuck am I doing, why am i being a pussy why..then just go over there hyped up and do work. Get your testoreone flowing and just do it.

Just think of it like this, shes wanting it, and shes picked you, its obvious, what can you do? Pass her on and leave her hanging, or do your duty and give to her what she wants? Are you going to have any loss from the situation? If the answer is no, fucking play ball.

Just chill with her close and get your heads near and lay it on her when you see the glare in her eyes. Finish Her!

And how old are you really?

19 going on 20

19 going on 20

Fuckin kiss her ya pussy. god damnit.

Kiss her or I'll come round and kiss her for you.

The title of the thread is all you needed to type.

oh my god.
I was in this exact situation.

dude, just go or it.
don't worry about messing up.
cause it doesnt matter.

man if you dont man up and do something fast
some body else gonna take yo place

do what you gotta do

If you don't she'll think you don't like her. True fact.

This.

Girls don't like pussies, so don't be one.

You have nuts don't you?



Use them.

This is stupid... I mean, you KNOW she wants to kiss you, still you have doubts about going for it?

You, sir, have failed at life.

he cant even kiss her and youre asking him to teabag her?

man if i could even get to that point with a woman being able to kiss her would be nothin.

Just do it, if she doesnt like you like that it's better that you know now rather than once you begin to like her even more. Pussy.

he cant even kiss her and youre asking him to teabag her?

man if i could even get to that point with a woman being able to kiss her would be nothin.

Lol.The teabag is always easier to pull off then the first kiss in my expeirence.