[note from jackketch: I have been asked to post this anonymously]

I am a male, always been straight, but always tried to be open-minded as well. Love girls and all that, but a few times when I've been horny (and usually high on one thing or another) I've let a guy suck me off. Always the same guy. He is gay, he knows I am just horny. He doesn't care. Sometimes I have thought about returning the favor, just to see what it is like. Experimenting I suppose. Well tonight I did it. I only did it for maybe a minute or two, but I did it. And then he went back to me. I just got home, and don't know how to feel about this now.

I've never considered myself bi-sexual or even bi-curious. Like I said, I just want to keep an open mind and experience things. I am in my early 20's just in case anyone asks how old I am. But this is already kind of bothering me, I guess. I do already feel that I can confidently say that I am not gay. The times I've thought about returning the favor I've only thought about it simply for the experience, and just because I like to think that how the hell can you know you don't like something if you haven't even tried it.

Well I tried it. I can't say I hated it. But it didn't bring me any pleasure at all either. It was just that...sucking cock. I know I don't want to do it again. And I know I won't do it again, even if I am really reeeally messed up, haha. But I don't know what this means. I already feel like I have yet another secret I have to take to the grave. I don't ever want anyone to know about this, I am not exactly ashamed for trying something new, but I'd rather not listen to the ridicule of idiots. But I feel like it is going to bother me more than other things that I don't want to talk about, for some reason.

Did I do a stupid thing? Is my mind too open? Is that possible? Am I now labeled gay/bi-sexual regardless of what my thoughts and opinions of it all now that it's said and done, simply because I've done it? I guess I am feeling a little confused. I could never ever have a relationship with a guy. Hell, I could never ever bring myself to even kiss a guy on the lips, or anywhere else for that matter. To me a kiss in intimate, and I do not have any desire at all to be that way with another male. I just simply wanted to see what all this cock-sucking business is all about. I've done it, it didn't excite me, and now I just want to move on. But can I? Will this haunt me, do you think?

I just don't know what to feel right now. Honestly, the more I'm thinking about it and the more I am writing, the more I am grossed out by the whole thing. I don't know what else I should type, because now that I've typed all this and a handful of minutes have passed by, I am finding myself more lost in thought, yet I don't see to be actually thinking anything specific. I just feel a little confused. But again, I did not enjoy it, although didn't hate it, I just don't feel like doing it again. But how many times have I said that? Who am I trying to convince? Aaaaahhh!

What do you all think? Or should I say "discuss". Oh, and the "murder/suicide" replies are welcome, I'm sure that's what I'd post too. But I really hope to get some real thoughts on this.

Thanks, I'm going to go throw up and go to bed now.

Homosexual? No. BIsexual? No.

Fucked in the head? Maybe but no more than anyone else.

Seriously , despite what the 12 year old Americans here might say , no you are not gay. Remember that for them (the teeny yanks) that even admiting as to having been in the same room as a naked penis means you have caught t3h g4y0rz!

You say your preference is for women therefore you are hetro. Its that simple.

You're now a hetro who has sucked cock, thats all.

ps. 'meh' experiences are part of maturing sexually as a human being. I've done plenty of things that didn't really 'hit the spot' but were interesting.

Just don't tell anybody, and hope the kid doesn't tell anyone.

I also wouldn't let some guy suck me off...

Whatever floats your boat though man.

Seriously , despite what the 12 year old Americans here might say , no you are not gay. Remember that for them (the teeny yanks) that even admiting as to having been in the same room as a naked penis means you have caught t3h g4y0rz!

It's not necessarily immaturity, just to most hetero men the thought of sucking a cock is a disgusting one.

Letting men suck your dick.......because you're horny. Did we just find the source for half of the gay men in America?

I've given head twice to guys. But I swing both ways.

Don't be ashamed, just mental block it :)

Also you're not homosexual nor bi, your just interested and decided to explore and experiment.

If I was a mod, i'd include everyones name when posting anonymous threads like these. Just so they can never make eye contact with the rest of totse again.

I wouldn't say you were gay. if you enjoyed it, yea then you'd be a flaming queer, but since you say you didn't your not gay.

Just don't mention this to anyone else

You're not a Moderator, you're an idiot, and eye contact on totse explains the latter of the two descriptions.

its coup d'etat!

I'm thinking that if he came on your face while you were sucking him then you would've felt really bad.

Is sucking/getting sucked the furtherest you've gone?
Will you still let your gay friend suck you? Did he say anything to get you to do it in the first place?

Besides being male and gay? I think that was all the initiative this young queer needed.

You're not a Moderator, you're an idiot, and eye contact on totse explains the latter of the two descriptions.

I'm not a moderator? Holy shit. It's a good thing we have people like you to impart such great wisdom. I think the rest of us were a little confused on that matter. Thank you, truly.


Unfortunately, you're superior intelligence doesn't seem to apply to reading comprehension, so i'll break it down for you. See, not being able to make eye contact is generally known as a sign of shame. Apparently, I was using a very tricky play on words that some of our more simple members weren't quite able to pick up. So when I said no eye contact, I know I know...you're first instinct is to take it at is literal meaning. That way you don't have to start the 20 minute process of firing up the old thought machine. In actuality, I meant that the poster would be shamed and always remembered as the guy who let another guy suck him off.

Society is pretty stupid, what with never looking outside of itself.

Naw, you're not gay or confused. And even if you were, what would it matter?

Are you happy with yourself? What's it matter what everyone else thinks? If sex feels good then just enjoy it.

I'm not a moderator? Holy shit. It's a good thing we have people like you to impart such great wisdom. I think the rest of us were a little confused on that matter. Thank you, truly.


Unfortunately, you're superior intelligence doesn't seem to apply to reading comprehension, so i'll break it down for you. See, not being able to make eye contact is generally known as a sign of shame. Apparently, I was using a very tricky play on words that some of our more simple members weren't quite able to pick up. So when I said no eye contact, I know I know...you're first instinct is to take it at is literal meaning. That way you don't have to start the 20 minute process of firing up the old thought machine. In actuality, I meant that the poster would be shamed and always remembered as the guy who let another guy suck him off.

It was obvious it wasn't literal you fucking moron. I was poking fun at the fact you are trying to make someone feel shameful for being a virgin past their teenage years. Please, the condescension in your voice is enough to make me gag! Oh, and I know that you're not ACTUALLY SPEAKING, lol.

Wow...
Not the responses I expected.

I guess totse's growing up now that there are no fresh 12 year-olds registering.


There's no more meaning to doing anything you want than what you want to assign to it yourself. Maybe you're stressing out a bit about it now because you think you should be... or maybe you just don't want anyone to find out... but either way, sucking a guy's dick has no more inherent meaning in itself than shaking his hand or anything else.

There's no reason not to try something out if you're curious.

You're you, get used to it. Seriously, stop thinking so much and just be you. Whether others think it is shameful or not, why does it really matter? I've had thoughts about such things, but never had any real impulse to act upon them. I have a close friend who went from god fearing Christian virgin boy to openly bisexual living with his boyfriend and cross dressing within 2 years. Be you and be true to that. Your sexual orientation and your experiences isn't anyone else's business besides your own.

whats that old saying? you can build bridges your whole life, and no-one will remember you as so and so the bridge builder,
but suck one dick and you are known as a cocksucker forever

Telford, Brunell. to name two.

Homosexuality is a lifetime statement "I am gay, I am cool with that, this is what I am"

Gobbleing on the occasional cock for fun/experimentation is hardly a life defining experience.

sucking dick= fag

go to back to aidz land pls

I think there is a huge difference in having homosexual sex and being a homosexual. To me, a homosexual is someone who has a romantic relationship with someone of the same sex, which also includes homosexual sex. Homosexual sex, is just sex between two people of the same gender. Honestly, in this day and age, it pretty much doesn't matter anymore. Sure, you might not want to subject yourself to the bigotry of the masses by telling everyone, but you shouldn't be ashamed that you were willing to test your own boundaries. In my opinion, labels are stupid.

Who cares?

It's all in the attitude you take if you ever tell people, and even in your own mind. If you go "Oh, what the fuck, what was I thinking?" then if you ever actually tell someone it'll probably be awkward. But if you go "Hahaha, ahh, cock... What a scamp I was" then you'll be fine.

Sounds like you're just figuring shit out man. It may be the opinion of most hetero men that sucking a guy off is non-pleasurable. Understandably. But whatever...only you can label yourself. Don't feel like "ZOMG I'm gay!" now, youre experimenting. But...ugh...just please don't change yourself because of this. You are who you are and whoever that is is ok.

lol....
i did this shit when i was younger.... until i realized bieng gay is BAD.
Not gay, but definatley bi-curios just cause u did it. Forget about it, dont tell no one, and ur good.

My buddy has a subletter renting a room in his place for the summer. Last night, after a party and most everyone had left, we both drunkenly passed out on his bed after getting high off of a Volcano vaporizer.

It was funny in the morning when I came out of the room to leave this morning and could swear I saw his subletter burning a hole in my back with his eyes, thinking I'm a queer. No biggie though... kinda funny nonetheless

Why do I have the feeling that you are the anonymous poster?

Why do I have the feeling that you are the anonymous poster?

I can see where you're getting that but, no, I don't think so.

To the Anon. OP -> Answer my questions on page 1 please! ;)

I don't see what the big deal is. You were curious about the experience, tried it, and decided it wasn't for you. What's there to be disgusted about? At least now you know where you stand on the issue... so what is there to regret? If you hadn't done it, you wouldn't know for sure. I mean, really, it's just skin. Society places these fucked up expectations on males and their gender role within society, but life experience has probably shown you that the judgments of society aren't always right, or just, or even very realistic... Who cares what other people might think about it? Most "other people" are idiots, anyways.

I can see where you're getting that but, no, I don't think so.

To the Anon. OP -> Answer my questions on page 1 please! ;)

Change your board settings nigga.

Change your board settings nigga.

Nah, this way it doesn't take too long to get through a page. If a page is too long I'd probably skip a few more responses.

Looks like carbonb wrote it... Thought he killed himself though... And I do not think it would make the person gay. Too much insecurity/ego would be an indication of gayness, though.

Love girls and all that, but a few times when I've been horny (and usually high on one thing or another) I've let a guy suck me off. Always the same guy. He is gay, he knows I am just horny. He doesn't care. Sometimes I have thought about returning the favor, just to see what it is like. Experimenting I suppose. Well tonight I did it. I only did it for maybe a minute or two, but I did it. And then he went back to me.
Regardless of whatever anyone here says or what you may think, the guy that sucks you off now totally thinks you're bi/gay. There is a big chance that when you're around him again, he's going to come onto you alot because you've nibbled his knob once, he'll think he can get you to do it again.

How do I know? My brother is gay. If a straight guy even jokes around with him he takes it as a tease, and always seems to be on the look out for a straight guy that's "wavering". And most of the gay men I've talked to are like that. That guy thinks you like the cock, and even if you tell him you don't, he'll think you're just in denial. Sucks to be you, in that regards. :)

I also find it odd you'd rather let a man gobble your genitals before kissing him on the lips. Most straight men choose 1st base over 3rd if they had to do one or the other. Triggers the gaydar a bit there. It honestly sounds to me like you're gay/bi and you're just "grossed out" by the thought of it now. My gay brother dated girls all through highschool (beautiful, nice girls, too) and watched straight porn and all that. And he fooled around a little bit and thought it was gross and strange and confusing at first, and now he's full-blown homo. You could end up the same, or you could end up a middle-aged, sadistic, respectably chill moderator on totse with a penchant for fags and flesh wounds. Only time will tell. ;)

I wouldn't do it, I just don't like the idea of man's mouth on my penis, I suppose it wouldn't feel too different than a woman though, but just not my thing.

My opinion: who cares? Really, who gives a fuck if you've blown some dude. We have all done things weird and outright embarrassing, being curious isn't something that should be a problem.

I say if anyone has a problem with it they aren't worth your time anyway.

Most straight men choose 1st base over 3rd if they had to do one or the other.
I didn't realize you'd seen a research study indicating that most straight men would choose kissing a guy over having their dick sucked. Surely you don't think you've met most straight men, to know that...Maybe the guys you've met would rather kiss a guy than let him suck their dick, and I bet they're all clean cut and thin too.

Kissing is more on the romantic side, which is why I do not believe most straight men would rather kiss a guy than let a guy suck their dick. Having your dick sucked is sexual gratification, never has been anything romantic about it, that's common sense.

Kissing a guy in my opinion, is more on the homosexual side than sucking a guys dick and letting a guy suck your dick. There's even sexual gratification in letting a guy fuck your ass. There isn't any in kissing a guy. Two guys kissing is just disgusting to most straight men. That's just my opinion though, which obviously makes more sense than your opinion. You are an idiot, your imaginary brother being gay does not make you an authority on the subject.

Kissing is more on the romantic side, which is why I do not believe most straight men would rather kiss a guy than let a guy suck their dick.
Bullshit. People kiss all the time with neither romance nor sexuality being involved. Kissing a close relative? Neither sexual nor romantic. Two actors kissing on stage or in a film? Neither sexual nor romantic. Kissing is only "romantic" if romance is intended by the parties involved, otherwise its just two people putting their mouths together.

Having your dick sucked is sexual gratification, never has been anything romantic about it, that's common sense.
Wrong again. Oral sex can be and often is romantic between the two people involved. Also, you admit it is sexual gratification. Receiving sexual gratification from another man...versus putting your mouth against another man's mouth.

Kissing a guy in my opinion, is more on the homosexual side than sucking a guys dick and letting a guy suck your dick. There's even sexual gratification in letting a guy fuck your ass. There isn't any in kissing a guy. Two guys kissing is just disgusting to most straight men. That's just my opinion though, which obviously makes more sense than your opinion. You are an idiot, your imaginary brother being gay does not make you an authority on the subject.
You think this: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/a287/Insomnigirl/ashscot.jpg
Is more homosexual that this: http://www.manstation.co.uk/blowjob.jpg
And I'm the idiot?
Plus, you reacted rather aggressively to my opinion on the matter. Did I strike a nerve? :p

what the hell is wrong with all of you? this guy sucked a dick! thats like the gayest thing you can do.. you should have thought how you might feel after before you did it you dumb shit. i'd be pretty stressed out too. sure you might not be gay but you did a very gay thing.

Wrong again. Oral sex can be and often is romantic between the two people involved. Also, you admit it is sexual gratification. Receiving sexual gratification from another man...versus putting your mouth against another man's mouth.
Two guys kissing grosses me out more then some guy sucking another guy off. I don't know why, its a little weird, but I'm just like "meh, its just a cock in that guys mouth."

It doesn't make you gay until you like doing it. Then you're a full blown gawdamn queer-boy.

*Avoids clicking any links*

LOLI was waiting for someone more representative of totse's population to insightfully contribute to this thread...

Exactly this. I was thinking about this the other day, and I thought to myself, "man it wouldn't be so bad to fuck a guy/get fucked in the ass, but the thought of having a relationship with one just scares me shitless."

Heterosexual men don't suck other men's dicks, faggot.

Exactly this. I was thinking about this the other day, and I thought to myself, "man it wouldn't be so bad to fuck a guy/get fucked in the ass, but the thought of having a relationship with one just scares me shitless."

Try Gumtree or Craigslist then

if you want to be gay then you are gay but if you dont want to be gay then you aren't.

and if anyone says anything, get them drunk and suck/make them suck their/your penis, the theyll be like "that dude is gay, i know because i sucked his dick"

the thought of having a relationship with one just scares me shitless

Who would pay for dinner???!!!

This thread is hilarious.

Thumbs up!

Who would pay for dinner???!!!

LOL

Oh the hilarity...

You're gay....

Unless it was in prison

My Shounen-ai sense is tingling...

Pics plz.

I really wouldn't consider it gay. You tried something new. Big fuckin' deal. You even admit that you didn't like it and will not be doing it again.

Now, I wouldn't let another guy blow me, regardless of how horny I was. Guess what, though? The fact that you do doesn't make you gay, either. You like the feeling of a warm mucus membrane against your knob. Gender isn't something you necessarily have to take into consideration for that.

Don't worry about it. Be assertive if your friend asks you to do it again. If he decides he doesn't want to give you blow jobs anymore, so be it. If he can't respect your decisions, fuck him.

I didn't realize you'd seen a research study indicating that most straight men would choose kissing a guy over having their dick sucked. Surely you don't think you've met most straight men, to know that...Maybe the guys you've met would rather kiss a guy than let him suck their dick, and I bet they're all clean cut and thin too.

Kissing is more on the romantic side, which is why I do not believe most straight men would rather kiss a guy than let a guy suck their dick. Having your dick sucked is sexual gratification, never has been anything romantic about it, that's common sense.

Kissing a guy in my opinion, is more on the homosexual side than sucking a guys dick and letting a guy suck your dick. There's even sexual gratification in letting a guy fuck your ass. There isn't any in kissing a guy. Two guys kissing is just disgusting to most straight men. That's just my opinion though, which obviously makes more sense than your opinion. You are an idiot, your imaginary brother being gay does not make you an authority on the subject.


youre the cocksucker!

Interesting !

Be sure to update if you......, I mean "your anonymous friend" decides to take it to the next level.

this guys gay.

this guys gay.

Yup, I'm a regular chocolate dipper.

/sarcasm.

It is possible to be straight and accepting of other people's choices.

jack man, youre one cool, enlightened dude.

You sucked cock... big deal. Nothing makes you gay or bi except being born that way.

I got hard reading this thread.

Don't label what you are everyone is a little curious most people aren't completely straight (if they act like they are they are probably insecure about feelings toward the other sex.) Just do what pleases you and avoid what doesn't. Tell other people you are straight though, unless you want to explain the story and they would understand.

Same here. I'd totally do gay porn as long as they took the proper safety precautions, it seems hot.

Well I tried it. I can't say I hated it. But it didn't bring me any pleasure at all either.

str8

/thread.

Sucking dick is the gayest thing anyone can ever do.

Same here. I'd totally do gay porn as long as they took the proper safety precautions, it seems hot.

Faggot

well, i think (i know there have been plenty of thoughts in in this thread), that you already know you're not gay,k you're just ashamed of what you did? maybe i'm wrong. But if you didn't like doing, then we've found our answer, this thread is over: you're not gay.

And you people fucking joking? Getting your dick sucked by a guy is gay. The only people who see it different are prison rapists. The whole argument that it's not gay cause he's horny is fucking dumb, he was horny for men. That's one of the gayest things gay people do. This guy is gay, he's just in deep denial about it. Actually, he's probably bi.

Faggot

True, it looks like he is.

I don't see any huge deal with it. I would think twice about blowing a guy but I wouldn't object to him blowing me, a mouth is a mouth.

I simply would never allow myself to be penetrated though

If you think getting a hardon just by looking/touching a naked child=pedo,

then getting a hardon from "stimulation" by other man=gay !!!

Lableling yourself as straight, gay or bi indicates your orientation or preference, not your experience. Also, remember that there are varying degrees of bisexuality. It's rare that a person is equally attracted to both males and females. Most have some preference. So, label yourself. This isn't something &T can do for you.

Oh, and stop letting this guy blow you if you don't intend on returning the favour. It's rude.

You like the feeling of a warm mucus membrane against your knob.

Wow. You have officially made blowjobs less sexy. Good job.

If he can't respect your decisions, fuck him.

HELLO IRONY.

No.....your not gay.

pretty mucch this. people can have sexual experiences and it not affect their sexuality, only you can decide whether you get your rocks off to whatever.

Okay, how come no one has asked the obvious question.. Why is it ok for chicks to do this sort of thing, but frowned upon if it is guys?? You all are quite open-minded, I expected a whole lot more mean things. I read through all seven pages of this just to see if anyone asked the above question.

Honestly, to answer my own question, it does not bother me to see two chicks together, but I do get uncomfortable when it comes to men. I do not judge, I have had plenty of gay bi/friends. Had some interesting lunches in high school, though. I am cool with it, as long as you do not come at me with it.

Personally, I think your curious..

The more you think about it the worse it gets. Fuck the gay out of you, because what you did was gay. Get a chick and just fuck. Problem solved, no psyho oh technically ur not gay. No you are gay, until you stop thinking about this shit and fuck girls.

Then again whats the waiting period on getting straight after sucking dick? In this society you sucked dick once you're gay, or christians call it confused. Its a phase, get over it.

And isnt this thread like a couple months old already anyways?

The gayest thing I ever did was making out with a guy, as a dare, while totally shitfaced. It was like 2 seconds and lame. And that's a lot less gay than having my cock sucked by some dude, whoever said that.

Um yeah, sounds like you were just curious. If you're not attracted to men and you don't hunger for cock, then you're not gay. Just stop using your friend when you can't get laid though, I know gay guys must be a hell of a lot easier to pull than straight women but that's a shitty thing to do.

I knew a guy who was bi for about 2 years, he slept with like 7 guys, and he still remembers the exact moment he went straight again: he was watching some fatass bending over and suddenly realized that men were repulsive, and he's been straight ever since. If mere penile contact is anything to go by he should be a full-blown homo but he considers himself straight, so you got nothing to worry about.

I knew a guy who was bi for about 2 years, he slept with like 7 guys, and he still remembers the exact moment he went straight again: he was watching some fatass bending over and suddenly realized that men were repulsive, and he's been straight ever since. If mere penile contact is anything to go by he should be a full-blown homo but he considers himself straight, so you got nothing to worry about.

SWIM went fully straight once he realized how wrong it is to be gay. Find Jesus, or muhamed or whatever the fuck you follow. Or just realize guy on guy is not only retarted, its wrong, and repulsive. Same goes for girls, just that its not repulsive.
But think about it, if you're still in k-12 grade and you told someone, you are GAY no matter what you say and nothing will convince them otherwise.

but then again, chicks dig gay guys.

Did you say "no homo" as you suck his dick or when he sucked you off (lulz to the third power). I want to experiment to. I think a lot about cutting someone up and watch them bleed to death as they scream for "God" and begging for their pitiful life, but I don't . If your not gay, these moments will haunt you to your grave. Than again suicide is always an option. Or drugs. Than again............

Wut did it taste like?

gay/bi = no
confused = maybe a tad.
don't stress tho...do what u do and fuck what everyone else says...
and the thing with women as opposed to men...its a double standard...simple as the player/whore argument...
my 2¢...

I wouldn't say you are bisexual or completely homosexual, but I would say you seem to be a little bit selfish. Having your own friend suck you off, first of all, is pretty bad. In addition to that, having your own friend suck you off more than once and you just paying back the favors with a quick half assed unfinished job that you regret having placed in that life span memory bank of yours. Not so much of a question as, "Damn, I wonder if my very own friend feels like a used whore because I sure do?" Just a "Am I fucked up for doing shit like that?" and not a "Am I fucked up for letting my friend do shit like that to me?"

Taking drugs alone, as I remember, is a selfish thing as it is. I mean we all think our lives are somehow fucked up when we have it better than most, but still think its fucked up enough that we actually have to escape our realities with some mind altering thing. So besides the fact that we have all this shit we can entertain ourselves with today, you still feel the need to entertain yourself by altering your perception of reality. Fair enough, its been like that since the beginning of man. Except there wasn't a whole bunch of fun shit to do back then except sex which lead to a whole lifetime of figuring out what to do with that little bastard that came out 9 months after having fun.

Adding to that you say you aren't gay, but you let your very own friend do some pretty gay stuff to you because its something else you can benefit from. Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't, but from what you were saying it seemed like you let him do it because you were on drugs and you just wanted to feel good. From your post, you say you let him do it more than once. I guess it felt good the first time, it will the second... right? So you finally realize that maybe you should give something back. And when you do all you can say is ... "That doesn't make me gay, right?" The whole theme to this post is basically, you seem to be only interested in you. No questions like "Is this somehow going to fuck up the relationship between me and my friend?" or "I wonder if my friend may somehow think I am using him and how do I explain it to him that I am just a selfish prick?"

In short, you aren't bi or gay, you are just a selfish asshole. Seriously... if you just think about it logically, sucking cock does not make a person gay. Crackheads suck cock all the time for just crack. Crack heads can give a shit about sex at all, they just want their fix. They are asexual, in a way.

you sounded like someone with friends that refused to suck your dick...speaking from painful experience ?

Gay. /thread

So let me guess, that means a guy who knobs a kiddy is not a filthy dirty peadophile. Get real, you are a serious batty boy. As in, you are what makes male communal showers a scary event. Come near my ass and I will fucking kill you.

You are so manly.

simple curiousity, most people just don't have the balls to act on it

Why do I have the feeling that you are the anonymous poster?

Ha, statistically I am as much as any of you guys I guess...
But I don't think I'd ever make an anonymous thread.
No secrets here.

from a psychology perspective, you technically aren't gay unless u designate yourself as so ...

From a psychologist point of view, yo'ur in a state of involuntary self-denial.

"Am I fucked up for letting my friend do shit like that to me?"


nice

also did you close your eyes and think of a lass when you were doing it or not that would show if youre intrested or not

use the ball test. think of balls, think of a dude and if youd fuck him then think of a girl and ask yourself if youd fuck her. yes/no ration means either one or the other. if both, then bi.

theres too much stigma surrounding being gay still i guess if the thought makes you uncomfortable.

Thats just sick, i'd understand if you were gay, but your just a hetro whos a fag.

let me make a totally public confession to comfort this anonymous user

i sucked cock before when i was stoned...i will add that i was not sober but i 69ed with one of my guy friends when we were drunk and stoned...

im not attracted to guys, i dont find them good looking at all, shit happens dude, that doesnt make you gay, you are only gay if you are attracted to just guys...

i lost my virginity, ive been inside girls, an i am COMFORTABLE with my sexuality, and i dont care what anyone else thinks...at the time when i did suck the cock and got mine sucked i thought it felt pretty good. i felt awkward confused and embarrassed afterward, but me and my friend (who is also straight) agreed that it was nothing more than mutual masturbation

anyone who thinks that makes you less manly or macho is totally off, in fact its probably more manly that you were able to have a cock in your mouth and not whine about it like a pussy bitch

I kissed a bloke the other week. He took me by surprise and as it felt exactly like kissing a girl, I thought, fuck it I'll do this for a short while.

Experimenting sexually with the same sex is fine. I don't know why it's such a taboo for guys.

im not attracted to guys, i dont find them good looking at all, shit happens dude, that doesnt make you gay, you are only gay if you are attracted to just guys...


if you'r not attracted to guys, you certainly won;t be having a hardon around guys,..right ?

if you'r not attracted to guys, you certainly won;t be having a hardon around guys,..right ?

damn, you caught me, im a full blown flaming faggot...

I stopped taking time to check what I was fucking in '73

What you sir just had is a "meh" experience these experiences are what make you more sexually mature, although I have never orally pleased someone, I have, on a dare, kissed another male on the lips, the experience for me was not disgusting in anyway at all, because I see people as people and not their gender(I have many, many A- Bi- Confused- Curious- Homo- sexual friends to see two girls or even two guys make out and not be disgusted by it), so thus it was a "meh" experience for me.

You are not gay, you are a good friend.:D

You are not gay, you are open minded. (Good for you!:D)

You will probably have a closer relationship with your friend now, because of this experience.:D

I am myself heterosexual, but very opened minded, and sometimes act very, very, very gay (Wearing girls clothes with no objections, dry humping by close guy friends,(who are probably more open minded because of me:D) having mock relationships and pretending to cheat/brag about how good last night's sex was/etc.), I can do that because I am secure with my sexuality, and I hope this experience will secure your sexuality further, you expressed disgust about this subject so, this will make you shy away from such activities and ironically, this actually will make you straighter/more sexually mature.


A well thought out post by;
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people with dilated asshole are not qualified to post in this thread !!

if you kill someone arent you a killer?

if you rape some one aren't you a rapist?

if you suck a cock aren't you gay?

if you cheat on your wife aren't you a cheater?

if you beat up your wife aren't you a wife beater?

even if you do it once. it ads on to the labels that describe you.

Yea, but labels are just fucking useless, especially when they're in Hokkien

nice

also did you close your eyes and think of a lass when you were doing it or not that would show if youre intrested or not

Yeah getting your dick sucked by a guy is pretty gay let alone being the guy doing it.
When your getting you dick sucked you can say 'no homo' and think about chicks but im pretty sure you were thinking about sucking dick while you were sucking dick.