Ok I am really fucked off.

I don't even want to meet women to fuck or get a life long girlfriend or some shit, i just want to meet single women my age, and i never do, where the fuck am I supposed to?

friends parties? no, all full of men, and you get like 2 chicks there who have boyfriends
town? they're drunk, and act different, and think you just want to fuck them
work? i work with a bunch of dumb men
hobbies? yeah sure, I'll meet them at the local linux users group

FOR FUCK SAKE. this is just annoying. and boring.

I've had this problem for a while, but before I had a problem with friends in general, ie I had none. but now I am catching up with a lot of old friends and making a few new ones, which is great, really it is, but none of them are women.

What the hell gives?

I concur. Perhaps it's the social clique that I hang around with but our routine involves going to the same bars, clubs, restaurants...nothing new. It's not like I'm expecting women who are single to be wearing a neon sign but it's frustrating as fuck when we go out night after night and despite my best efforts, stick to ourselves getting hammered without making an effort to meet anyone new. Female or otherwise.

I should probably be going to the campus bar on my own a bit more often.

town? they're drunk, and act different, and think you just want to fuck them

I'd put my money on this horse. They may be drunk, they may be dumb but thats better than cuddling your pillow in the middle of the night.

They just think you want to fuck them? Just approach them asking them a general question in passing (ie: Who lies more, guys or girls?), demonstrate higher value and when they discover you're not out to get your rocks off you'll be money.

Maybe you should turn homosexual?

This is a common problem - I know that moving in different circles of friends helps. You never know when that will happen but things are likely to remain stagnant until there is an injection of new blood, so to speak.

See a woman you like and talk to her. How else is she supposed to know a strong man is interested in her? You just don't seem that strong...

I concur. Perhaps it's the social clique that I hang around with but our routine involves going to the same bars, clubs, restaurants...nothing new. It's not like I'm expecting women who are single to be wearing a neon sign but it's frustrating as fuck when we go out night after night and despite my best efforts, stick to ourselves getting hammered without making an effort to meet anyone new. Female or otherwise.

I should probably be going to the campus bar on my own a bit more often.

You should try learning social skills without the liquid courage.

I'd put my money on this horse. They may be drunk, they may be dumb but thats better than cuddling your pillow in the middle of the night.

They just think you want to fuck them? Just approach them asking them a general question in passing (ie: Who lies more, guys or girls?), demonstrate higher value and when they discover you're not out to get your rocks off you'll be money.

Yeah, like this wasn't an oversimplification...

This is a common problem - I know that moving in different circles of friends helps. You never know when that will happen but things are likely to remain stagnant until there is an injection of new blood, so to speak.

Yup, which is why you talk to a lot of different groups, because girls in THOSE groups I am sure are looking for a "new" guy who isn't in their group of friends.

When was the last time you got laid, Carbon?

i suggest moving to a college town or big city, but you wouldn't

women on the town often want to meet a random guy and hook up with him. be that guy. just let it happen. these can be normal women. they all secretly think the random hookup will go somewhere, so just call her afterwards and ask her on a proper date, then see where things go.

tell me about it!


i have this annoying image of all the single girls out there hiding behind a clump of trees laughing at all us lads wondering where the fuck they are!

See a woman you like and talk to her. How else is she supposed to know a strong man is interested in her? You just don't seem that strong...

I small talk with chicks on the town all the time. A drunken, fragmeneted conversation is really nothing to go off.

What do you mean by strong? Assuming you're not just trolling. Reminds me of pokey...

I AM POKEY THE PENGUIN! A STRONG AND FEARSOME MAN!

i suggest moving to a college town or big city, but you wouldn't

women on the town often want to meet a random guy and hook up with him. be that guy. just let it happen. these can be normal women. they all secretly think the random hookup will go somewhere, so just call her afterwards and ask her on a proper date, then see where things go.

I do live in a college town.

I am not interested in casual sex. I just want single female acquaintances. IRL single female acquaintances.

I thought I might be gay, so I tried fucking your dad in the ass. he really enjoyed it but I wasn't really feeling it...until your mum cleaned my dick off with her mouth. So I must be straight:/

I small talk with chicks on the town all the time. A drunken, fragmeneted conversation is really nothing to go off.

What do you mean by strong? Assuming you're not just trolling. Reminds me of pokey...

I AM POKEY THE PENGUIN! A STRONG AND FEARSOME MAN!

i suggest moving to a college town or big city, but you wouldn't



I do live in a college town.

I am not interested in casual sex. I just want single female acquaintances. IRL single female acquaintances.

for what purposes do you want to be "acquainted" with them?

I small talk with chicks on the town all the time. A drunken, fragmeneted conversation is really nothing to go off.

What do you mean by strong? Assuming you're not just trolling. Reminds me of pokey...

I AM POKEY THE PENGUIN! A STRONG AND FEARSOME MAN!

i suggest moving to a college town or big city, but you wouldn't



I do live in a college town.

I am not interested in casual sex. I just want single female acquaintances. IRL single female acquaintances.

Cafe's, libaries, the gym, random places?

i meet plenty of men (i ma woman) but none of them is the young Aryan type

for what purposes do you want to be "acquainted" with them?

I like to have options. And a vague possibility of romance. It's really hard to explain.

I'm not all OMFG I WANT A GF, I don't, I just want to hang out with more chicks.

I have no female friends in this town either. I like female friends.

Cafe's, libaries, the gym, random places?

Maybe I'm just socially retarded, but striking up a convo at a cafe or library seems...difficult. And antisocial. People go there to drink coffee and read....

My work is physically strenuous so I'm too lazy for the gym

Aryan?

Like Gingers?:D

Aryan?

Like Gingers?:D

hellz yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Maybe I'm just socially retarded, but striking up a convo at a cafe or library seems...difficult. And antisocial. People go there to drink coffee and read....

My work is physically strenuous so I'm too lazy for the gym

Striking up a conversation anywhere is easy, just find common ground don't make it seem like you're coming on to her. Chicks at cafe's love to discuss things their reading same with girls at the library.

If this fails, go to like a singles mixer/speedating/whatever.

Alright. Go somewhere that interests you. It will give you a better chance of finding someone to talk to that has at least one or two of the same interests as you.

First, you say hello. Then you talk about things. Then, you say that you don't really know that many people around town and that you'd like to find some things to do. From here, continue talking and end up going out to do things. Keep things aimed away from sex and you should have just made a new friend.

It's not a science.

so you want female FRIENDS.

have you ever considered that maybe your personality just isn't that compatible with most females for a friendship type of relationship? how do you feel about tomboy female friends?

i think the best thing for someone in your situation is to use your already existing social networks (assuming you have them) to find female "friends." at least some of your guy friends must have female acquaintances or gfs who can introduce you to girls.

ooooh couples, that's a good one i forgot about. couples (especially the female members of couples) like to help singles find love by setting them up in various ways. or just "friends." get on that shit. dinner parties, frou frou social events....yeah. ice skating. wholesome stuff

Lol, shallow question.

I small talk with chicks on the town all the time. A drunken, fragmeneted conversation is really nothing to go off.

What do you mean by strong? Assuming you're not just trolling. Reminds me of pokey...

I AM POKEY THE PENGUIN! A STRONG AND FEARSOME MAN!


Here you state that you have drunken and fragmented conversations with these women. Uh, yeah they don't have a lot to go off of, try being SOBER and going and talking to women during THE DAY. It's hard, but it's called getting over your fears. Becoming stronger, and leaving the weaker men behind.

Maybe I'm just socially retarded, but striking up a convo at a cafe or library seems...difficult. And antisocial. People go there to drink coffee and read....

My work is physically strenuous so I'm too lazy for the gym

Dude, you can meet a girl anywhere. It doesn't HAVE TO BE AT A PLACE YOU DRINK ALCOHOL!

so you want female FRIENDS.

have you ever considered that maybe your personality just isn't that compatible with most females for a friendship type of relationship? how do you feel about tomboy female friends?

i think the best thing for someone in your situation is to use your already existing social networks (assuming you have them) to find female "friends." at least some of your guy friends must have female acquaintances or gfs who can introduce you to girls.

ooooh couples, that's a good one i forgot about. couples (especially the female members of couples) like to help singles find love by setting them up in various ways. or just "friends." get on that shit. dinner parties, frou frou social events....yeah. ice skating. wholesome stuff

Dude you're an idiot. He says friend, but he is just trying to avoid the confusion with...."GO OUT AND FUCK RANDOM CHICKS DUDE YEAH!!!!!!!!!"

Compatible personality to be friends with a girl? God, shut up!

^^^^^wow, critical people are like, so smart. they like, point out all the flaws and shit. cuz no one else can do that. they are so valuable, those people who criticize every sentence written. i wish i had their brains.

I don't know, but someone's mother is dying right now from that atrocious grammar.

is carbon always a complete asshole?

Ever since leaving high school I don't meet any women ever. It was awesome for a while, since women are fucking stupid and annoying, but I'm horny as hell and can't afford a prostitute. Bars, cafe's, and libraries are either 95% men, filled with unapproachable women, or fat nerdy girls.

It's not that difficult to meet women, everywhere you go there are women, whether it be the gas station you fill up at, or where you buy your food, its all about the approach, if you don't know to approach a woman you're fucked, just standing in line at a register is a great place to strike up a convo. about whatever your heart desires...

It's the opposite for me... all my friends are female. I have 3 guy friends I talk to regularly. Everyone else is a bloody female. Even my co-workers. No complaints though, most guys annoy me/are not worthy of my company.

you would love me....20 year old italian/irish with blonde hair and blue eyes...

you would love me....20 year old italian/irish with blonde hair and blue eyes...

thats not aryan at all. plus WAN is a troll.

I'm sorry, but striking up a conversation with random people just seems really fucking weird to me. Maybe it's a cultural difference, maybe I'm just fucked in the head, but people that do that to me freak me out.

(depending on the place...if it's at work, a place of education, out on the town, a party, a social gathering...yeah, that makes sense. Anything outside of that is just creepy IMO)

Also this thread has made me realise I have some huge issue: I am constantly preoccupied with not seeming like a creep. Probably because i think I am some kind of hideous monster on some level, so I assume if I talk to any girl, they think I'll like them, then in their minds be all "ewww that weirdo who looks like a paedophile likes me", and I hate it when women think that.

Woah, I am figuring this stuff out as I type. Hmm....

Lol, shallow question.


That's what I thought.

Shallow answer too.

My point is that all too often every post of yours is a ton of quotes from posters being ripped to shred in the most sanctimonious way. Despite this post being hypocritical.

My advice to the OP however: Get -new- hobbies. Find classes for those. Fuck, learn salsa dancing or some shit. Something like that should help.

That's what I thought.

Shallow answer too.

My point is that all too often every post of yours is a ton of quotes from posters being ripped to shred in the most sanctimonious way. Despite this post being hypocritical.

My advice to the OP however: Get -new- hobbies. Find classes for those. Fuck, learn salsa dancing or some shit. Something like that should help.

That is because carbonb is a troll. He is just trying to get a rise out of people. Stop feeding him.

CarbonB is usually right, maybe you guys should read his critiques once in a while.
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So you've never had a conversation with anyone in a line at the supermarket or wherever?

rabbitweed, post a pic. We might help you get over your confidence issues.

You should be thinking of yourself as totally cool and awesome first if you want other people to think that about you.

thats not aryan at all.

I win! 20 year old German. Blonde, blue eyes, very white. .. On paper, sounds attractive.

Any way, all that needs to be said in this thread has been said. Meet people through friends. Save up some money then buy some supplies (or organize the night and have each friend bring a certain supply):

*some booze $40
*maybe some pot $30 ( if they're into it, and not enough to get FUCKED, but enough to loosen the mood)
*some junk food $20,
*hire like 2 DVDs $10.
*order some pizzas $20

Then tell your mates that you're close to that you're looking to meet some chicks. Then ask them to bring some female friends that they think could be potential, that they wouldn't mind you getting close to. Then just have a good time.

Also...man got something need to talk to you about, message me next time you're on msn.

He's not ugly. Not hot. But would be considered hot before ever considered ugly. I'd say, with out sounding like a queer, a 7/10. So looks aren't his issue. I think the problem is his burning hatred for humanity.

hey man listen
fuck girls
pedophilia is the way to go
kids never say no

Are you always a complete idiot?

Ever since leaving high school I don't meet any women ever. It was awesome for a while, since women are fucking stupid and annoying, but I'm horny as hell and can't afford a prostitute. Bars, cafe's, and libraries are either 95% men, filled with unapproachable women, or fat nerdy girls.

Yeah, I can see why you don't get laid...

It's the opposite for me... all my friends are female. I have 3 guy friends I talk to regularly. Everyone else is a bloody female. Even my co-workers. No complaints though, most guys annoy me/are not worthy of my company.

Lol, you sound weak! As a man, leading other men is the epitome of power. Please remove the Texas location from your profile.

I'm sorry, but striking up a conversation with random people just seems really fucking weird to me. Maybe it's a cultural difference, maybe I'm just fucked in the head, but people that do that to me freak me out.

(depending on the place...if it's at work, a place of education, out on the town, a party, a social gathering...yeah, that makes sense. Anything outside of that is just creepy IMO)

Also this thread has made me realise I have some huge issue: I am constantly preoccupied with not seeming like a creep. Probably because i think I am some kind of hideous monster on some level, so I assume if I talk to any girl, they think I'll like them, then in their minds be all "ewww that weirdo who looks like a paedophile likes me", and I hate it when women think that.

Woah, I am figuring this stuff out as I type. Hmm....

Um, probably because you're a social retard.

That's what I thought.

Shallow answer too.

My point is that all too often every post of yours is a ton of quotes from posters being ripped to shred in the most sanctimonious way. Despite this post being hypocritical.

My advice to the OP however: Get -new- hobbies. Find classes for those. Fuck, learn salsa dancing or some shit. Something like that should help.

Lol, that's what you thought? No answer could ever be validated on here. The question was ignorant and loaded. Please, step aside faggot, you're from Ireland.

That is because carbonb is a troll. He is just trying to get a rise out of people. Stop feeding him.

This is so far from the truth, but I'll let you live in bliss.

CarbonB is usually right, maybe you guys should read his critiques once in a while.
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Flattery will get you no where! Now where am I sending this trip to Hawaii? :P

Lol, you sound weak! As a man, leading other men is the epitome of power. Please remove the Texas location from your profile.


Right... you sorry sack of shit. This why I hate other guys. They have this kind of mentality. I've always been the leader in my group and always will. I have that personality and dominance aura. It's why I have so many female friends. I don't need to explain myself to some fat-fuck virgin.

So you've never had a conversation with anyone in a line at the supermarket or wherever?

About once before, and that was because they were hideously understaffed and the lines were gargantuan.

It just strikes me as odd.

Would you like 'snapped up while drunk' or 'pulling faces infront of the webcam'?

I think I am pretty cool. I don't know where my fear of being seen as a weirdo comes from.

I suppose I do look like one, as we shall see.

Would you like 'snapped up while drunk' or 'pulling faces infront of the webcam'?

I think I am pretty cool. I don't know where my fear of being seen as a weirdo comes from.

I suppose I do look like one, as we shall see.

Just something casual, preferably not taken by yourself.

On the left (http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=ouwhup&s=3)

Pulling a face, I swear! (http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=15gyrf9&s=3)

Shorter hair and beard (http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=169qjio&s=3)

The beard might put off some girls, but apart from that you look surprisingly normal.

You would look more approachable without the facial hair. Unless you're trying to pull a specific kind of a girl in a specific social surrounding, which a shopping queue isn't.

No offense, but you look kind of unkempt. I'd lose the chin hair and just try to straighten yourself up a bit more.

Obviously, that's just me, and as I'm not exactly a Don Juan, feel free to keep your own style. I'm just offering suggestions on how to hang out with more girls. I've got a lot of close girl friends who hang out regularly and I personally am a very clean cut guy (from the outside...). Doesn't have to be you but thats my experience.

And your problem is clearly about more than just looks; I was simply commenting on your physical appearance because I didn't read the rest of the thread.

Good luck

Right... you sorry sack of shit. This why I hate other guys. They have this kind of mentality. I've always been the leader in my group and always will. I have that personality and dominance aura. It's why I have so many female friends. I don't need to explain myself to some fat-fuck virgin.

Buddy, I'm sorry, it is easy to get women to rally around a man. That is a simple process, because most women enjoy the pleasure they get from serving men. I know they might deny this, but it is true. Men get the same gratification from women, it just occurs in a different way. I'm sorry that you don't see the value in having an ability to empower men. It just isn't in all of us....so go back to your solitude of emotional support.

Lol, that's what you thought? No answer could ever be validated on here. The question was ignorant and loaded. Please, step aside faggot, you're from Ireland.


Ahahahaha. You're playing the Irish card.

Picking on probably the most loved of nationalities in the world. What are you? Jealous? Wish you had a sexy accent like mine?

How was the question ignorant and loaded?

You, who critique everybody else's posts should do so on some grounds of experience. Hence why I asked about the last time you got laid. I'll freely admit I'm having a dry spell, but I don't go around tearing into everybody else without good reason.

Seriously, I've seen you post well before. Stop wasting people's time with crap critiques.

Lol, shallow question.

As a child, carbonb's father forced him to suck his cock, and masturbate his penis. His father also penatrated his ass hole at the age off 13, carbonb would pretend to laugh, not wanting his father to know he's in discomfort.

So he has built up that laugh as a defense mechanism every time someone insults or attacks him. He pretends our words don't hurt but deep down they cut him to the soul.

Nothing cuts like a father's penis :(

Anyways, going to town on weekends is a fine way of meeting women, just try not to approach the fat drunk bitches.

Ahahahaha. You're playing the Irish card.

Picking on probably the most loved of nationalities in the world. What are you? Jealous? Wish you had a sexy accent like mine?

How was the question ignorant and loaded?

You, who critique everybody else's posts should do so on some grounds of experience. Hence why I asked about the last time you got laid. I'll freely admit I'm having a dry spell, but I don't go around tearing into everybody else without good reason.

Seriously, I've seen you post well before. Stop wasting people's time with crap critiques.

First of all where did you get the impression that you get to tell ME what the FUCK to do? LOL! Google "loaded", and asking people how often they get laid on the internet...should be obvious the value of that information.

As a child, carbonb's father forced him to suck his cock, and masturbate his penis. His father also penatrated his ass hole at the age off 13, carbonb would pretend to laugh, not wanting his father to know he's in discomfort.

So he has built up that laugh as a defense mechanism every time someone insults or attacks him. He pretends our words don't hurt but deep down they cut him to the soul.

First of all it wasn't 13, and laughing at you isn't a defense mechanism. Even though it does help stop the crying incurred from reading the thoughts of people like you.

Concerts, music festivals, art festivals, any kind of festival or convention. You have the power of the internet, shouldn't be too hard to find out where a bunch of people are going to meet on any given day.

I've noticed that the majority of people who go to museums, art festivals, etc tend to be old or tourists and rarely local women. The few women who aren't tourists almost ALWAYS have boyfriends.


Socializing is too hard. Fuck that bullshit.

Buddy, I'm sorry, it is easy to get women to rally around a man. That is a simple process, because most women enjoy the pleasure they get from serving men. I know they might deny this, but it is true. Men get the same gratification from women, it just occurs in a different way. I'm sorry that you don't see the value in having an ability to empower men. It just isn't in all of us....so go back to your solitude of emotional support.

Very well, I don't you so I don't have the right to judge you particularly. You don't know me, you have NOOOO idea of what kind of person I am. I'm just going to leave it that and be the BIGGER man.

For the majority of the time, I do agree with you. But I really don't think you understand where I'm coming from with this.

To the OP

I highly suggest signing up to a salsa dancing club. I joined the club at my university, and I have to say I met quite a few girls. Unfortunately I only went to one class, but I did make a couple friends. Assuming you're not a complete nubbin at talking to girls, this is the place to meet them.

The thing about salsa clubs is that there's lots of really creepy old Spanish guys, so the girls are always clamouring to dance with a normal looking, younger guy.

Try CL. I've met dozens of insecure high school girls looking for a quick fuck. Some nice girls too.

This.

Latin dancing = win.

Very well, I don't you so I don't have the right to judge you particularly. You don't know me, you have NOOOO idea of what kind of person I am. I'm just going to leave it that and be the BIGGER man.

For the majority of the time, I do agree with you. But I really don't think you understand where I'm coming from with this.

Well then why don't you explain it to me?

To the OP

I highly suggest signing up to a salsa dancing club. I joined the club at my university, and I have to say I met quite a few girls. Unfortunately I only went to one class, but I did make a couple friends. Assuming you're not a complete nubbin at talking to girls, this is the place to meet them.

The thing about salsa clubs is that there's lots of really creepy old Spanish guys, so the girls are always clamouring to dance with a normal looking, younger guy.

This right here is good advice. Dance classes are FILLED with lots of women.

Dance class? No offense all who suggested this to the OP, seriously, but that's a pretty god damn gay way to meet chicks.

Literally, they will think you are a homosexual if you show up to their dance class and start chatting them up in a friendly, outgoing manner.

Do it the way all men do: through friends, events where alcohol is served, and craigslist hookers.

I've made most of my female friends at sci-fi conventions. Sounds lame? You bet. But if you're not looking to take it beyond the friend thing, that really opens things up since the types of women that go to cons aren't often single.

Less lame suggestion. If you already live in a college town, take a class or something. Classes in the arts tend to have a lot of women. Ceramics is especially good (or so I've found), since there is lots of time for chatter.

Edit: Ever seen Ghost? Well, you're a guy, so probably not if you haven't been forced to. But you can bet that's what the chicks are thinking when they see you get up on that potter's wheel.

Shut up you pussy.

I've made most of my female friends at sci-fi conventions. Sounds lame? You bet. But if you're not looking to take it beyond the friend thing, that really opens things up since the types of women that go to cons aren't often single.

Less lame suggestion. If you already live in a college town, take a class or something. Classes in the arts tend to have a lot of women. Ceramics is especially good (or so I've found), since there is lots of time for chatter.

Edit: Ever seen Ghost? Well, you're a guy, so probably not if you haven't been forced to. But you can bet that's what the chicks are thinking when they see you get up on that potter's wheel.

Ghost is a good movie. Why would anyone feel ashamed for seeing it? You should be ashamed for promoting the fucking of girls with boyfriends.

Never said ashamed. Just implied that it's a chick flick.