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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-05-31, 22:26
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Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
Basically, every guy knows that the longer you "ride the wave", the more pleasure you get out of the whole deal - more powerful orgasm, shooting through the ceiling and what not.
The question is, why did we evolve like that? Surely, from the evolution's point of view, it would make sense to make shorter acts the most pleasurable and powerful, so that you can reproduce without the danger of a pterodactyl attacking while you're in the midst of passion?
Discuss.
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#2
 2008-05-31, 22:53
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
I don't think we're wired to have sex longer. I'm sure most guys can blow their load in about 30 seconds once they're inside a woman. We just have the intelligence now to realize that we're not in any danger while we're doing it and we can somewhat control it so of course we're going to want to prolong a positive feeling.
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#3
 2008-05-31, 22:59
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
I usually have to finish as quickly as possible so that I can be done and out before she wakes up or the cops get there...
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#4
 2008-06-01, 01:33
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
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Originally Posted by gadzooks
I usually have to finish as quickly as possible so that I can be done and out before she wakes up or the cops get there...
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*high fives*
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#5
 2008-06-01, 01:37
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I'm that man ->
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
I think most guys can blow preety quick if they want to, it's just that we don't.
- ♫.i.b.y.v.n.t.h.♫
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#6
 2008-06-01, 01:51
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redjoker 
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
It's not hard to rebuild stamina. All that fapping has gotten you used to squeezing one ASAP instead of enjoying the evening with another person.
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#7
 2008-06-01, 09:42
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
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Originally Posted by ibetyouvotenexttimehippy
I think most guys can blow preety quick if they want to, it's just that we don't.
- ♫.i.b.y.v.n.t.h.♫
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Yeah, but my point is that it feels better if you don't blow your load right away. So it's as is nature wants you to try and last longer, but it doesn't seem to make any evolutionary sense.
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#8
 2008-06-01, 15:15
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
I like thinking through illogical things to find evolutionary reasons for doing so.
Maybe it's an evolutionary advantage to have a long mating session which helps the two bond together, meaning stronger family bonds (which humans definitely have) and therefore higher survival rate as a rather weak, slow primate
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#9
 2008-06-01, 15:29
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
It's also possible that a longer period of sex creates a more relaxed and lubricated area for which our little legends are to swim through.
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#10
 2008-06-01, 15:52
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surprise buttsecks 
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
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Originally Posted by gadzooks
I usually have to finish as quickly as possible so that I can be done and out before she wakes up or the cops get there...
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Plus, it takes a while to hide a corpse.
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#11
 2008-06-01, 16:02
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
I'm a speed fucker, trying to hit my best time... like the olympics....
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#12
 2008-06-01, 16:24
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
Well if you look at it from an evolutionary angle, you could say that men like longer sex because they came to realize a happy woman is a loyal woman, giving him a higher chance that she will raise his off spring? That was just a blind, stupid stab in the dark. Much more realistically it's because the longer you build up, the more you'll blow, the more sperm, the higher chance you'll have of impregnating her.
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#13
 2008-06-01, 17:20
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
Much more realistically it's because the longer you build up, the more you'll blow, the more sperm, the higher chance you'll have of impregnating her.
Yeah, obviously - but that's more of a result I think than the reason. I mean, what stops your body from charging up to full power instantaneously?
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#14
 2008-06-01, 19:45
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
Who cares? It's your dick do what ya want with it. Obviously when humans were first around doesn't apply to us at all nowadays really.
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#15
 2008-06-01, 20:13
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stab 
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
stupid stab
OI!
But seriously, good theory.
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#16
 2008-06-01, 23:16
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
We're genetically wired to finish quickly so there can be more sex acts and thus higher chances of impregnating a woman. As a species we've developed to the point where we can control ourselves enough to make it last longer. Fucking for longer periods of time uses up more energy and doesn't really provide any benefits. I read some study in the NY Times about how men are hard-wired to finish quickly for these reasons.
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#17
 2008-06-01, 23:28
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
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Originally Posted by Fanglekai
We're genetically wired to finish quickly so there can be more sex acts and thus higher chances of impregnating a woman. As a species we've developed to the point where we can control ourselves enough to make it last longer. Fucking for longer periods of time uses up more energy and doesn't really provide any benefits. I read some study in the NY Times about how men are hard-wired to finish quickly for these reasons.
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So the fact that the load is bigger and flies out with more power if you go for longer is just a coincidence?
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#18
 2008-06-02, 00:11
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
So the fact that the load is bigger and flies out with more power if you go for longer is just a coincidence?
I dont think thats true, try not wackin it or fucking for a few days and see how quickly and how much you bust, then post.
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#19
 2008-06-02, 04:10
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Syphon 
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
Yeah, obviously - but that's more of a result I think than the reason. I mean, what stops your body from charging up to full power instantaneously?
Why did testicles evolve to be external rather than sperm evolving to work at higher temperatures.
Some shit just happens.
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#20
 2008-06-02, 21:05
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Re: Genetically wired to prefer longer sex?
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Originally Posted by gadzooks
I usually have to finish as quickly as possible so that I can be done and out before she wakes up or the cops get there...
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 rapist!!! (lol)
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