I cannot stop thinking about sex. It has gotten to the point where i need it 24/7. If I don't have sex then I have to masturbate. I masturbate 10 times a day on average.

I feel anxious when the enviornment I'm in is not sexual enough or when people are uptight about sex. I get angry about those matters quite easily. When I am in states of depression all I can think about is sex. I lose interest in everything else but never ever lose interest in sex.

It gets in the way of getting actual sex too. It's hard now a days because I wreak of sexual energy and that scares the shit out of a lot people, and then I get angry, which scares them even more. I want my sex when I want it.

I am very horny, and it's a shame that a lot of people are turned off by someone like me. It's not like I go around like Quagmire but it's extremely obvious theres only one thing on my mind. Every girl I look at is there for my pleasure. I don't wanna be freinds, "interact", "communicate" and all of that bullshit. Just give me my pussy.

It's gotten to the point where i'll pay whores to sleep with me if i have no other choice. They usually walk away a little different then they came. I leave them fucking wrecked. I can't even talk to girls anymore or chat them up because I figure I'll just pay. I'd rather pay a hot ass chick than wait, kiss ass, play games and shit for some average shit. It's better anyway because half of these bitches out there SUCK at sex.

If I am thinking about sex, it's hard to concentrate on anything else. Right now I am watching porn and planning on how I'm gonna get $$$ for my next fuck. I can hardly write this shit. I steal for this money a lot of the time but hey...I gotta do what I gotta do.

Now here is the point.

0. Is this like a disease?

1. What the fuck should I do to have better control?

2. Where can I get free sex without the whole courting thing? Swingers clubs require a partner and the people I know are fuckin wusses. Any sites for U.S with info?

Thanks.

Learn to control yourself.

In all seriousness, maybe you should see a psychologist. This is definitely excessive.

I was always skeptical about sex addictions until I read this...

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Psychologist/Cognitive Behavioral Therapist/Group Sessions

Though I doubt the latter will help much, but that's only because I have this resentment to group sessions for addictions but anyways heres a link:
http://www.sexaa.org/

Maybe I'm just really biased and they do work in spite of what I think.

The first two though, get on it stat. You're putting your life at risk and every other person you sleep with, you need to get this under control. Yes it will cost money, no it wont be a waste. In all likely hood they should be able to help at least a bit.

Finally, GET THE FUCK TO A DOCTOR AND GET TESTED!
I don't care if you don't care, you're being extremely risky and could be hurting others. So go. Now.

In all seriousness, maybe you should see a psychologist. This is definitely excessive.

I was always skeptical about sex addictions until I read this...

Yeah, a lot of people don't believe this shit's for real. It ruins lives and kills people.
It sounds like something fun to have or something that someone is just bragging about ("Imma sex machine")
but it can seriously derail an otherwise perfectly healthy person from a successful path in life (yes, that definition can differ but I'm being pretty general, I myself would argue wtf that means).

EDIT:That test on the site isn't very accurate is it? If it is I should be seeking out literature and going to meetings according to them as I answered yes to a fuck load of those. I answered yes 7 times, no 3 times, sorta 1 time and one possibly/not sure. I'd be interested to hear other's results because I doubt this actually means much as I didn't even see a problem but looking back it's making me wonder. Probably one of those "You read it then think you have it" things.

Psychologist/Cognitive Behavioral Therapist/Group Sessions

Though I doubt the latter will help much, but that's only because I have this resentment to group sessions for addictions but anyways heres a link:
http://www.sexaa.org/

Maybe I'm just really biased and they do work in spite of what I think.

The first two though, get on it stat. You're putting your life at risk and every other person you sleep with, you need to get this under control. Yes it will cost money, no it wont be a waste. In all likely hood they should be able to help at least a bit.

Finally, GET THE FUCK TO A DOCTOR AND GET TESTED!
I don't care if you don't care, you're being extremely risky and could be hurting others. So go. Now.



Yeah, a lot of people don't believe this shit's for real. It ruins lives and kills people.
It sounds like something fun to have or something that someone is just bragging about ("Imma sex machine")
but it can seriously derail an otherwise perfectly healthy person from a successful path in life (yes, that definition can differ but I'm being pretty general, I myself would argue wtf that means).

EDIT:That test on the site isn't very accurate is it? If it is I should be seeking out literature and going to meetings according to them as I answered yes to a fuck load of those. I answered yes 7 times, no 3 times, sorta 1 time and one possibly/not sure. I'd be interested to hear other's results because I doubt this actually means much as I didn't even see a problem but looking back it's making me wonder.

The test is pretty bad.

A rapist is born.

Holy fuck, (lol) I just realized how fucking religious that site is.
I have come to the conclusion that while I may have some sexual issues I am aware of them and they seem to be under my control (in my sober state which will hopefully last like I plan for it to). I've also decided the test is pretty useless.

Anyone know of a good one that is more accurate and better for self-awareness of possible problems with sexuality? I'm really serious here, I'm not worried but more interested.

The only reason I'm even thinking of this is not because of urges so to speak but rather things I have done that have ruined relationships and landed myself in some trouble. No I didn't answer yes to #9.

P.S. I'm not trying to hijack your thread, Terror Alert, but maybe having a better test or site could help you and other's alike. Possibly me as well, who knows.

Here's what you should do:

1. Grab a set of large hedge trimmers.

2. Sterlize them.

3. Get drunk like you've never done before, or smoke a shit load of opium.

4. Castrate yourself

5. No more sex drive

6. PROFIT!!!

Even though your just joking I'm pretty sure the answer he's looking for involves having a sex drive, just a healthy one.

Unless he has a time machine to travel back to before he hit puberty in order to do this, then I'm pretty sure this won't work.

You have to stop cold turkey, yes you will go through withdraw the same way a crackhead does when he gives up crack, it will take about 2 weeks to stablize, and there is always a possibility of relapse.

Umm... quit what cold turkey?

You can't just 'switch off' your sex drive...

Umm... quit what cold turkey?

You can't just 'switch off' your sex drive...

lol

I don't think that's what he meant but he still didn't make much sense.

You can stop having sex now but uh... who said he has it everyday or something? He can stop jacking off but uh... can't say how much that will help.
In two weeks nothing will have changed.
He'll just be really, really horny and might have a few wet dreams.
There's a natural, normal and healthy amount of sex and masturbation and he should probably stick to that.

It might help to know your age but...
My best advice is to cut back wanking to 2 times tops a day for at least now. Try not to get above 4 because you're going to be spending to much time thinking about it which may make things worse again (if they've improved any).

Don't have sex with hookers or anyone for money/drugs/whatever. If you want find a fuck buddy AFTER YOU GET TESTED AND ONLY IF YOUR CLEAN, but you might gain something from a meaningful relationship.

Who the fuck knows though, you should see a professional and be brutally honest. They'll know better strategies to help then me.

I know benzos hinder your sex drive pretty well and would help with your anxiety, but lol, didn't work so great in my experience since I started to abuse them and lost any inhibitions I had.
You might get put on an SSRI or something, who knows.

Umm... quit what cold turkey?

You can't just 'switch off' your sex drive...

Quit sex cold turkey, what we got here is a self induced high sex drive, so much so that it has become a chemical inbalance that can only be balanced by more sex, but the more sex the higher the imbalance becomes.

Quit sex cold turkey, what we got here is a self induced high sex drive, so much so that it has become a chemical inbalance that can only be balanced by more sex, but the more sex the higher the imbalance becomes.

The problem isn't that he's having too much sex.

The problem is that he has too strong of a desire/yearning to have sex.

There is quite a difference between the two.

The problem isn't that he's having too much sex.

The problem is that he has too strong of a desire/yearning to have sex.

There is quite a difference between the two.

He's jacking off 10 times a day, and stealing money to get hookers, he's definately having to much sex, the only reason the desire/yearning for sex is so strong is because he fucked around too much, and induced the chemical imbalance.

He's jacking off 10 times a day, and stealing money to get hookers, he's definately having to much sex, the only reason the desire/yearning for sex is so strong is because he fucked around too much, and induced the chemical imbalance.

So you think that if he quits, he'll suddenly lose the drive?

I'm pretty sure that's not how it works...

So you think that if he quits, he'll suddenly lose the drive?

I'm pretty sure that's not how it works...

Yes that is how it works when associated with a chemical imbalance, he's like a crackhead trying to get the same high he got the 1st time, but now it's starting to take more and more to get the same high, the only way to get that high back is to desensitize himself from the high that way his senses wil start anew with the high.

Yes that is how it works when associated with a chemical imbalance, he's like a crackhead trying to get the same high he got the 1st time, but now it's starting to take more and more to get the same high, the only way to get that high back is to desensitize himself from the high that way his senses wil start anew with the high.

But sex isn't the same as crack.

People seek out crack for the high. People seek out sex because they're hardwired to do so, not necessarily for the 'high' of the experience.

For example, how do you explain someone who never has sex or masturbates but has an insatiable sex drive? Then what the hell are they supposed to do?

Thanks guys for your help. No luck yet but trying.

Is it really possible that I gave myself a high sex drive? Damn! thats kinda cool yet fucked up. :D:(

Lets say I do this. No jacking off at ALL. No sex at ALL. For 2 weeks....

Then 2 weeks ends and then how am I supposed to muster up the self control to speak to a female to give me sex with all this saved up testosterone? Can it help at all with getting sex again?

For example, how do you explain someone who never has sex or masturbates but has an insatiable sex drive? Then what the hell are they supposed to do?

Boston Stangler.

Lets say I do this. No jacking off at ALL. No sex at ALL. For 2 weeks....

Then 2 weeks ends and then how am I supposed to muster up the self control to speak to a female to give me sex with all this saved up testosterone? Can it help at all with getting sex again?

After 2 weeks your testosterone output should balance out, if it doesn't you need to see a doctor, at that point your hypothalamas is oversetting your testosterone levels, at that point only drugs can reset it.

I'm not sure if Howard's explanations make sense, but I think the basic idea might work. It worked for me, except it was more long-term. Here's my recipe for no sex drive:

1.) Lose all self-esteem and become very bitter.
2.) Get depressed.
3.) Isolate yourself.
4.) Spend all day in your room taking drugs and watching cartoons/laying on the ground/reading escapist books.

Soon you won't care about anything! :) I'm not even depressed any more, just vaguely content all the time.

Back to Aqua Teen Hunger Force...

After 2 weeks your testosterone output should balance out, if it doesn't you need to see a doctor, at that point your hypothalamas is oversetting your testosterone levels, at that point only drugs can reset it.

I don't really think you know what you're talking about. Do you have any reputable sources for this "stuff" you are spewing out as fact? You honestly sound like some crack pot in an adventure game telling him he has to wait a while before he can go through the gate.

Get a job working with children 24/7.

You'll end up stopping.

At worst, you're going to jail.

Better idea get addicted to anything else including:
Crack, Meth, any opiates, benzo's, alochol,
Once in the bowels of drug addiction sex drive becomes literally nonexistent

but srsly just fap responsibly for a month or so and you should be fine
btw 10 times a day...not responsible

Take ritalin.

Better idea get addicted to anything else including:
Crack, Meth, any opiates, benzo's, alochol,
Once in the bowels of drug addiction sex drive becomes literally nonexistent

but srsly just fap responsibly for a month or so and you should be fine
btw 10 times a day...not responsible

Man, like I said above, careful with the benzos and alcohol, sure it might reduce your ability sometimes but it can also induce periods of black outs while you're still actually doing things... like fucking people you didn't mean too...

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LONDON!!

To the OP: There are support groups for that sort of thing - like a nymphomaniacs anonymous.

It might help you, or it might put you in a position to meet nymphos.

LONDON!!

To the OP: There are support groups for that sort of thing - like a nymphomaniacs anonymous.

It might help you, or it might put you in a position to meet nymphos.

mwahahahahahahaha ;)

There are prescription drugs that'll have the "unwanted side effect" of decreased sexual drive. Definitely see a shrink and see if you can get some of that. In the meantime, try to figure out why you're feeling this way. You sound pretty extreme, so you really should seek professional help.

I don't really think you know what you're talking about. Do you have any reputable sources for this "stuff" you are spewing out as fact? You honestly sound like some crack pot in an adventure game telling him he has to wait a while before he can go through the gate.

This is common knowledge in psychology, it's bottom level knowledge that you have to have just to attend a psychology course.

Learn to control yourself.

i 2nd that man , take it eazyy , relaX

Viper

LONDON!!

To the OP: There are support groups for that sort of thing - like a nymphomaniacs anonymous.

It might help you, or it might put you in a position to meet nymphos.

Holy shit, that sounds awesome.

Holy shit, that sounds awesome.

To be honest though, my source is the second season of Nip/tuck but Christian meets this fine ass blonde who he taps because he can.