well I was stoned and all of a sudden these girls I barely know start asking me if I'm a virgin. Fuck that, nothing worse then being interrogated in that state, especially about this. I felt like I couldn't talk my way out of it, if I was sober, I think I would have been able to. But instead I found myself saying yes. There was a bit of a silence and then I keep getting asked why. Obviously I couldn't tell them its because I'm a fucking weirdo loser fuck it was so awkward. I feel like I've made a horrible mistake, they will tell everyone won't they

Yo man, don´t worry - sometimes it´s a good thing when girls are asking if you´re a virgin, because it means that they don´t know - that there´s some element about you that makes them unsure, especially if they were suprised and curious when you told them that you were, it kindof points to them assuming that you weren´t.

It´s perfectly acceptable to tell them the truth, that you think you´re a weirdo loser - it´ll make them feel a little bad for you, or else they´ll try and convince you that you aren´t, which is always an ego booster, and quite possibly an introduction to sexy time.

Tell them that you´re a little bit nervous and always mess up with girls, Damn, I´m sure somebody would have given you an educational lesson.

Smarten up, boy.

Yo man, don´t worry - sometimes it´s a good thing when girls are asking if you´re a virgin, because it means that they don´t know - that there´s some element about you that makes them unsure, especially if they were suprised and curious when you told them that you were, it kindof points to them assuming that you weren´t.

It´s perfectly acceptable to tell them the truth, that you think you´re a weirdo loser - it´ll make them feel a little bad for you, or else they´ll try and convince you that you aren´t, which is always an ego booster, and quite possibly an introduction to sexy time.

Truth.

Tell them that you´re a little bit nervous and always mess up with girls, Damn, I´m sure somebody would have given you an educational lesson.

Dude you really should have, or whatever is the truth.
If you're going to be in contact with these girls you haven't ruined anything. They know you're clean, and even though you may be inexperienced some girls like the whole virgin thing, especially if you're cute and a little anti-social.

Think about this, if all of a sudden a bunch of girls surrounded you asking you this, they almost definitely were talking about it amongst themselves. Which means a bunch of girls were talking about you and sex in the same conversation. Probably voting on whether you had sex or not. Clearly you had gathered interest.

How were they acting when the were around you and how were they "around" (Positions) you?
What kind of social situation was this? How many other people were directly around you and was it a party or what? Most importantly do you know them or if you'll be seeing them again?

Yes I agree with the above posters. A conversation about sex amongst a bunch of girls, who bring your name up, can't be a bad thing. I'm a virgin (18) and it somehow came up at work before. The guy i was working with was like "Damn ____ we need to get you some pussy, get rid of that v-card!" I just said "yeah im still a virgin"

It's not really a big deal.

Oh and by the way it's perfectly normal and nothing to be ashamed of that you are a virgin, up until 22 really, by then it's a little weird but still not the end of the world or something. Still, I would think some girls would be interested JUST because you're a virgin even at that age. The attraction/interest towards virginity is pretty interesting.

Just fucking tell them, it's such a turn on to girls to know that they can be your first. If you tell them you're not, they'll assume you're experienced and let you do all the work. And you probably won't do shit. And you'll never get laid. etc etc

Depending on your age it can work like Kirk says, nothing like cashing in on the mercy/pity vote for a cheap shag.

But really so long as you don't put your virginity out on a stall and make a big deal out of it the vast majority of girls won't care, and chances are you could find yourself in bed with one before the subject comes up anyway.

Also, don't ever commit the faux pas or telling the girl it's your first time if she hasn't asked. Just slip it in and hope for the best and make your excuses afterwards if needs be.

Yeah don't just say it out of nowhere or something...
But seriously a girl who likes that you're a virgin will probably do to you things she would skip or not bother with a guy who's done it before. She'll want to make it awesome because she gets to be the first person you ever had sex with.

The above applies if she's not a virgin.
If she is, it might make her more comfortable with you.

The reason I lost my virginity was because I was a virgin.

Depends on the girl.

Same...
and for every other non-virgin.

However I take it you mean that because you were a virgin some events took place that otherwise would not have.

However I take it you mean that because you were a virgin some events took place that otherwise would not have.

lulz, yeah that's what I meant.

A female friend of mine told me she was going to find someone to take my virginity. I was skeptical at first, but she actually came through, and pretty quickly too. A few days later she brought some chick over to my place who was interested...

And I'm so glad it happened, because that actually really helped get the ball rolling in my sex/love life.

That's actually pretty fucking cool! Plus fucking cool of your friend to do that and actually pull it off!

Worked out pretty sweet for you man.
If you've been having some trouble in relationships or getting into them for some reason having sex kinda jump starts you and makes everything just a little bit easier. Least that's how it was for me, and gadzooks apparently (if he was actually having trouble before, I don't think it was too clear).
It's weird, don''t know why it works.

Maybe it has to do with some kinda confidence boost or something.

Maybe it has to do with some kinda confidence boost or something.

I think that's exactly it.

I think so too. Here's my actual thinking on it.

You're a virgin so sex kinda feels like a big deal blah blah blah.

Somehow you lose your virginity and realize, while sex is fun and awesome and everything, it wasn't as big a deal as most people make it out to be, in fact, maybe even a little disappointing after the huge build up society causes us to create.

Then you now know this, you walk into a room and none of it seems as serious or as big of a deal, talking to girls seems easier, hitting on them does too. You feel almost like you're "In the loop" and now you're set and everything is fine.
Soon you lose that feeling because you realize that there is no "loop" and that every one in "the supposed loop of non-virgins" doesn't really care that they are in it. It wasn't a big deal. But that doesn't make the confidence go away.

Now, sex isn't as big a deal so you worry about it less and handle yourself and actions better leading to more sex.

That's how it seemed to work for me anyways, I'm sure some can relate.

Sounds about right. :)

Oh and OP, if the girls were asking why? They probably weren't looking for an answer like "I'm a loser" they quite possibly couldn't see a reason why someone like you would be a virgin, they maybe were thinking you kinda acted like one but had everything you needed not to be one.

Just throwing that out there, may or may not be true but who knows.

Definately shouldn't have told them, that's just creepy, and simply by answering a question like that let's them know that you are a weirdo loser, but hey what do I know I'm making straight Fs in my psychology course, but then again I think Trandel is an idiot

Um, being a virgin doesn't make you weird or a loser so... No.
How is it creepy that he answered a question they asked him?

No wonder your failing. Why are you even taking the course?

Um, being a virgin doesn't make you weird or a loser so... No.
How is it creepy that he answered a question they asked him?

No wonder your failing. Why are you even taking the course?

Well of course being a virgin doesn't make you a weirdo loser, but answering that question makes him a loser, if he says no he's not a virgin then it sounds he's being cocky or trying to show off about something unimportant and possibly not true, if he says yes he's a virgin then it sounds like he's got sex on the brain possibly even fantasizes about people in there sleep. But, if he doesn't answer and turns it back on them then it sounds like it doesn't matter, i'm not trying to be cool or anything I'm just being me.

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By your comeback you sound like a weirdo loser.

Similar, though I reckon I could have done it if we had both just been horny.

Also, don't ever commit the faux pas or telling the girl it's your first time if she hasn't asked. Just slip it in and hope for the best and make your excuses afterwards if needs be.

Pay attention to this. There's nothing worse than getting into bed with a guy and having him apologizing profusely for being inexperienced. It's just so damn awkward.

How were they acting when the were around you and how were they "around" (Positions) you?
What kind of social situation was this? How many other people were directly around you and was it a party or what? Most importantly do you know them or if you'll be seeing them again?

sitting around me (not like with me in the middle), but they were sitting around anyway. They were drunk or tipsy/getting drunk, and it was a small gathering. I'd only just met them that night and don't know if I'll be seeing them again.

sitting around me (not like with me in the middle), but they were sitting around anyway. They were drunk or tipsy/getting drunk, and it was a small gathering. I'd only just met them that night and don't know if I'll be seeing them again.

So how did they react to your "yes" and everything?


Well of course being a virgin doesn't make you a weirdo loser, but answering that question makes him a loser, if he says no he's not a virgin then it sounds he's being cocky or trying to show off about something unimportant and possibly not true, if he says yes he's a virgin then it sounds like he's got sex on the brain possibly even fantasizes about people in there sleep. But, if he doesn't answer and turns it back on them then it sounds like it doesn't matter, i'm not trying to be cool or anything I'm just being me.

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By your comeback you sound like a weirdo loser.

Saying your not a virgin does not make you sound cocky in the least. You could come off as cocky saying it but that would be because of how you said it. Like if some random guy came up in this situation and said "HA! I'm not a virgin." If you can't avoid acting cocky when you deny that you're a virgin then you should work on your communication skills.

Lying would be the stupid thing to do in this situation and admitting that he was a virgin does not make him sound like he's fantasizing about everyone or that he's creepy. Wtf man? How do you come up with this shit?

Not answering would be a lot easier to sound creepy, you could do it and come off sounding collected and cool but it's not likely he could have done this while high since he sounds like he was a little nervous and anyways since he didn't think of it anyways I doubt he could have played it out well. Anyways by not answering he has a lot more of a chance at sounding creepy or cocky.

He did the right thing. He told the truth, nothing bad happened.

Anyways how do I sound like a "weirdo loser" for saying what I said earlier? You're calling people weird, creepy and a loser for telling the truth when asked a question. Then you said yourself that you were failing and pretty much blame it on (I assume this is who you're talking about) your professor, Dr. David V. Trandel Ph.D, and call him an idiot while you're the one failing and he's got a job teaching (whether he's an idiot or not). If you're talking about someone else then sorry, you weren't very clear.

So how did they react to your "yes" and everything?


they went quite. And then I was getting asked why, but not straight away.

they went quite. And then I was getting asked why, but not straight away.

Eh, a little awkward, what did you say?

Eh, a little awkward, what did you say?

I think I managed to be more ambiguous about that, I think I said 'I don't know' and they asked me if I was frigid I said no, asked me if I've never been in a serious relationship I just said not to that extent.

Listen to Cap Kirk over here, hes a clever one

Viper

Listen to Cap Kirk over here, hes a clever one

Viper

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Calm the fuck down. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, and it is not wrong being open with women. Give them a slightly altered version of "why". It is simply because you haven't found the right girl.

Yo man, don´t worry - sometimes it´s a good thing when girls are asking if you´re a virgin, because it means that they don´t know - that there´s some element about you that makes them unsure, especially if they were suprised and curious when you told them that you were, it kindof points to them assuming that you weren´t.

It´s perfectly acceptable to tell them the truth, that you think you´re a weirdo loser - it´ll make them feel a little bad for you, or else they´ll try and convince you that you aren´t, which is always an ego booster, and quite possibly an introduction to sexy time.

Tell them that you´re a little bit nervous and always mess up with girls, Damn, I´m sure somebody would have given you an educational lesson.

Smarten up, boy.

Gems right here, pure gold!

Oh and by the way it's perfectly normal and nothing to be ashamed of that you are a virgin, up until 22 really, by then it's a little weird but still not the end of the world or something. Still, I would think some girls would be interested JUST because you're a virgin even at that age. The attraction/interest towards virginity is pretty interesting.

Yes, this right here. Girls will be amazed if you are in your early twenties and you haven't fucked more than 10 girls.

I think so too. Here's my actual thinking on it.

You're a virgin so sex kinda feels like a big deal blah blah blah.

Somehow you lose your virginity and realize, while sex is fun and awesome and everything, it wasn't as big a deal as most people make it out to be, in fact, maybe even a little disappointing after the huge build up society causes us to create.

Then you now know this, you walk into a room and none of it seems as serious or as big of a deal, talking to girls seems easier, hitting on them does too. You feel almost like you're "In the loop" and now you're set and everything is fine.
Soon you lose that feeling because you realize that there is no "loop" and that every one in "the supposed loop of non-virgins" doesn't really care that they are in it. It wasn't a big deal. But that doesn't make the confidence go away.

Now, sex isn't as big a deal so you worry about it less and handle yourself and actions better leading to more sex.

That's how it seemed to work for me anyways, I'm sure some can relate.

Practice....improves....proficiency? You don't say!

Well of course being a virgin doesn't make you a weirdo loser, but answering that question makes him a loser, if he says no he's not a virgin then it sounds he's being cocky or trying to show off about something unimportant and possibly not true, if he says yes he's a virgin then it sounds like he's got sex on the brain possibly even fantasizes about people in there sleep. But, if he doesn't answer and turns it back on them then it sounds like it doesn't matter, i'm not trying to be cool or anything I'm just being me.

4 psychology credits are required to obtain an AABA in Business Administration

By your comeback you sound like a weirdo loser.

You sound like you don't know SHIT about women.

Pay attention to this. There's nothing worse than getting into bed with a guy and having him apologizing profusely for being inexperienced. It's just so damn awkward.

This is the part where you comfort him and DON'T make him feel inept.

It´s perfectly acceptable to tell them the truth, that you think you´re a weirdo loser - it´ll make them feel a little bad for you, or else they´ll try and convince you that you aren´t, which is always an ego booster, and quite possibly an introduction to sexy time.


Go somewhere else with your pink-hippy-room-for-everyone shit you ignorant moron.

Go somewhere else with your pink-hippy-room-for-everyone shit you ignorant moron.

I think out of everyone here, you are the moron, Poop.

I think out of everyone here, you are the moron, Poop.

I know I am a moron. I'm fucking retarded. But I don't live in ignorance and denial as pretty much everyone in this thread seems to.

Dude those girls were pickin' on you bad.

It´s perfectly acceptable to tell them the truth, that you think you´re a weirdo loser - it´ll make them feel a little bad for you, or else they´ll try and convince you that you aren´t, which is always an ego booster, and quite possibly an introduction to sexy time.

Tell them that you´re a little bit nervous and always mess up with girls, Damn, I´m sure somebody would have given you an educational lesson.

Smarten up, boy.

I'd rather not trade my dignity for sex.

Plead the 5th, respond politician style. Answer back with a question....if your avoiding it. Be like Am I a virgin?....What are you looking for a inexperienced guy to hook up with, one you can take advantage of easily? Then again some bitches love the fact they can blab, oh i took such and such's V card. Bitches do it all the time, you ask them a question where your looking for a specific answer(to figure out a bit about them) and theyll talk some beat around the bush shit that you know is fake...fuck em.

I've been asked why ive been single for so long(what was like 3 months), and ive said I havent come across any descent girls, the fucking truth these parts suck....especially if you travel east your fucked, 75% of girls are pregnant by age 18 lmao. Half the girls i would not want to be seen out in public with lets put it that way....not being a liar, not being picky...truth!

Jesus, you guys can certainly over complicate and over analyze even the most trivial of daily matters. WOW These responses are just ridiculous lulz.

It´s perfectly acceptable to tell them the truth, that you think you´re a weirdo loser
Yea....dont say the weirdo part...they will think you are some sick ...guy or somthing...:p

Tell them that you´re a little bit nervous and always mess up with girls

Do that...thats a very good idea..

Do that...thats a very good idea..

I thought chicks dig guys that are badass and overconfident?

To me, it just seems like you don't get it when you look for it.

You only get it once you quit trying. At least I always did.

Don't put any pressure on yourself, relax, and be yourself. That extra bit on the end, being yourself, increases your chances of findin someone real. I suppose this is just about losing your virginity, but sex is much easier for me when I really know the person n how we connect n shit.

It's always unfortunate when you find that person, but their sex drive is much lower/different.

It´s perfectly acceptable to tell them the truth, that you think you´re a weirdo loser - it´ll make them feel a little bad for you, or else they´ll try and convince you that you aren´t, which is always an ego booster, and quite possibly an introduction to sexy time.



Absolutely terrible idea. Unless on the off chance that there happens to be a freak in the group that likes virginal, unexperienced men, you've now identified yourself to this group of women (who you've only just met) as the weirdo loser who doesn't get any sex. And that is a Bad Thing™. Self-fulfilling prophecies and all that jazz.

Better Idea: Do what NitrousMafia said, or claim you don't know if you're a virign or not. One night a long time ago you got hammered drunk, blacked out, and woke up naked in a bed next to a chick. She doesn't remember either (and she doesn't like to talk about it leastwise so keep it on the DL)

Now instead of the virgin loser, you're the kid who gets drunk and wakes up next to random girls. So even if they know there's a high probability of you being a virgin, its okay because you're not a loser. You get drunk and at least have enough game to get a drunk girl into bed with you. Bonus points if you say it like you're embarrassed about the whole thing or you regret it. This will show: 1) your sensitive side. 2) You're not a dirtbag who makes it his regular thing to (attempt) to sleep with drunk chicks.

Absolutely terrible idea. Unless on the off chance that there happens to be a freak in the group that likes virginal, unexperienced men, you've now identified yourself to this group of women (who you've only just met) as the weirdo loser who doesn't get any sex. And that is a Bad Thing™. Self-fulfilling prophecies and all that jazz.

Better Idea: Do what NitrousMafia said, or claim you don't know if you're a virign or not. One night a long time ago you got hammered drunk, blacked out, and woke up naked in a bed next to a chick. She doesn't remember either (and she doesn't like to talk about it leastwise so keep it on the DL)

Now instead of the virgin loser, you're the kid who gets drunk and wakes up next to random girls. So even if they know there's a high probability of you being a virgin, its okay because you're not a loser. You get drunk and at least have enough game to get a drunk girl into bed with you. Bonus points if you say it like you're embarrassed about the whole thing or you regret it. This will show: 1) your sensitive side. 2) You're not a dirtbag who makes it his regular thing to (attempt) to sleep with drunk chicks.

Am I the only person to whom getting hammered, ending up in bed with a random slut, and not remembering a thing the definition of a loser?

Am I the only person to whom getting hammered, ending up in bed with a random slut, and not remembering a thing the definition of a loser?

No, but high school is a different story.

You sound like you don't know SHIT about women.

I don't need to know anything about women to know the proper answer to the question, because this isn't a question about women it is a question about social interaction, I now in this day an age we are bombarded with sex through television, books and radio, and their is such a need to make sexuality sound as positive as possible, but it is still a taboo, and it will never stop being a taboo, mostly because lust is classifid as one of the seven deadly sins, and partially because all of the negative results of sex e.g. HIV, AIDS, Pregnancy, abortion.

I find this odd, every time I give up looking for a girlfriend, one practically shines bright colors and is dropped in front of me. I've never looked for a girlfriend and I've never "chased" a girl to date her. It just happens or it doesn't.

how old are you?

I find this odd, every time I give up looking for a girlfriend, one practically shines bright colors and is dropped in front of me. I've never looked for a girlfriend and I've never "chased" a girl to date her. It just happens or it doesn't.

That's what I mean. For the longest time I chased, n didn't get much of anywhere.

Shortly after saying fuck it, I started to.

Absolutely terrible idea. Unless on the off chance that there happens to be a freak in the group that likes virginal, unexperienced men, you've now identified yourself to this group of women (who you've only just met) as the weirdo loser who doesn't get any sex. And that is a Bad Thing™. Self-fulfilling prophecies and all that jazz.

Better Idea: Do what NitrousMafia said, or claim you don't know if you're a virign or not. One night a long time ago you got hammered drunk, blacked out, and woke up naked in a bed next to a chick. She doesn't remember either (and she doesn't like to talk about it leastwise so keep it on the DL)

Now instead of the virgin loser, you're the kid who gets drunk and wakes up next to random girls. So even if they know there's a high probability of you being a virgin, its okay because you're not a loser. You get drunk and at least have enough game to get a drunk girl into bed with you. Bonus points if you say it like you're embarrassed about the whole thing or you regret it. This will show: 1) your sensitive side. 2) You're not a dirtbag who makes it his regular thing to (attempt) to sleep with drunk chicks.

This is and nitrousmafia's ideas are the best. After age 17 it's better not to directly admit to being a virgin; if you want a hot chick and not some fat loser girl who "feels sorry for you."

elaborate please. what do you mean?

I know I am a moron. I'm fucking retarded. But I don't live in ignorance and denial as pretty much everyone in this thread seems to.

Moron.

Plead the 5th, respond politician style. Answer back with a question....if your avoiding it. Be like Am I a virgin?....What are you looking for a inexperienced guy to hook up with, one you can take advantage of easily? Then again some bitches love the fact they can blab, oh i took such and such's V card. Bitches do it all the time, you ask them a question where your looking for a specific answer(to figure out a bit about them) and theyll talk some beat around the bush shit that you know is fake...fuck em.

I've been asked why ive been single for so long(what was like 3 months), and ive said I havent come across any descent girls, the fucking truth these parts suck....especially if you travel east your fucked, 75% of girls are pregnant by age 18 lmao. Half the girls i would not want to be seen out in public with lets put it that way....not being a liar, not being picky...truth!

Your numbers are way off.

I don't need to know anything about women to know the proper answer to the question, because this isn't a question about women it is a question about social interaction, I now in this day an age we are bombarded with sex through television, books and radio, and their is such a need to make sexuality sound as positive as possible, but it is still a taboo, and it will never stop being a taboo, mostly because lust is classifid as one of the seven deadly sins, and partially because all of the negative results of sex e.g. HIV, AIDS, Pregnancy, abortion.

Pregnancy is a negative of sex? Idiot. You don' t need to know about women, because you know about "social interaction"? Lol, who the fuck are you interacting with socially asshole!?

Just smile and tell her theirs only one way to find out :)

This.

Your numbers are way off.



Well come out here in the cut, shit changes.....especially in the 3rd world cities where white trash and miniorities thrive....im nearby those areas so im accounting that into my main assessment.

But if your going to lie you got to have some type of credentials to back that up, or have a untraceable root. Whatever you did or if you choose the "One" style drunk lie, make sure its got far enough grounds so she cannot ask around then get your ass caught up in a lie. Then you can say goodbye to your pussy if she finds out. Shit is too easy to find out now a days especially with the facebook/myspace, cover any loose ends up.

Well come out here in the cut, shit changes.....especially in the 3rd world cities where white trash and miniorities thrive....im nearby those areas so im accounting that into my main assessment.

But if your going to lie you got to have some type of credentials to back that up, or have a untraceable root. Whatever you did or if you choose the "One" style drunk lie, make sure its got far enough grounds so she cannot ask around then get your ass caught up in a lie. Then you can say goodbye to your pussy if she finds out. Shit is too easy to find out now a days especially with the facebook/myspace, cover any loose ends up.

He won't get caught up in a lie. Now that your going against the lie idea it only fouls your plan of basically avoiding the question with another question. What if she reverts back to "So, you didn't really answer the question, are you a virgin?" Then what do you do?

"Make the lie big, make it simple, keep saying it, and eventually they will believe it." - Adolf Hitler

fuck around with them... ask them if they want to be ur first lol. Atleast u got an excuse... u weRe BLAZED!

Pregnancy is a negative of sex? Idiot.

Unwanted pregnancy is a negative of sex, you know the kind where the mother tries to kill it with a clothes hanger while it's still in the womb.

You don' t need to know about women, because you know about "social interaction"? Lol, who the fuck are you interacting with socially asshole!?

I don't interact; I don't interfere; I observe. It's not my role to interact, if I interact my objectivity becomes compromised. The only reason I can interact here is because I stay disconnected, I don't try to change the flow of the interaction, I just make the observation.

how old are you?And someone asks the magic question.

It should be fine, just try not to sound creepy. (I'm a weirdo loser is not a good answer as to why.)

Yeah, it sucks that you were backed into a corner like that you just gotta play it cool.

He won't get caught up in a lie. Now that your going against the lie idea it only fouls your plan of basically avoiding the question with another question. What if she reverts back to "So, you didn't really answer the question, are you a virgin?" Then what do you do?

"Make the lie big, make it simple, keep saying it, and eventually they will believe it." - Adolf Hitler

How do you answer the question if they re-ask? Fucking same way u did the 1st time, toss em some shit.... but just get a bit hinting this time...be like "What do you want to see some signed papers or some certification as proof(if your lying)?"

Ive been caught up in a situation similar to this whole ordeal of lying when asked of my intent(with this girl)..they never 2nd guessed, never knew..and i was getting the fucking "light" put on me by 2 not just 1....with follow up questions. No problems there...did what I did above and used the 5th(do not self incriminate with details).

As long as you dont avoid the question completely.... and hint/follow through with your attitude(yes or no) you should be able to turn the tables and then give them the inquisition asking them questions.

Unwanted pregnancy is a negative of sex, you know the kind where the mother tries to kill it with a clothes hanger while it's still in the womb.

This is like saying cum in your eye is a negative of sex. It's trivial, there are ample amounts of information, and contraceptives to prevent any "unwanted pregnancies". A negative of sex that YOU should of listed, is the idiots who partake in it.

I don't interact; I don't interfere; I observe. It's not my role to interact, if I interact my objectivity becomes compromised. The only reason I can interact here is because I stay disconnected, I don't try to change the flow of the interaction, I just make the observation.

"The only reason I can interact here is because I stay disconnected." Dude, that is the exact opposite of interacting, interacting in the sense that you are observing other people interacting? You're an idiot. Since you can't observe conversations, and you can't observe subtleties.These are things you would only pick up on if you were in the conversation. Knowing more about women and their perspective is how you LEARN to communicate better with them. All you do is watch? Fucking pervert...

This is like saying cum in your eye is a negative of sex. It's trivial, there are ample amounts of information, and contraceptives to prevent any "unwanted pregnancies". A negative of sex that YOU should of listed, is the idiots who partake in it.



"The only reason I can interact here is because I stay disconnected." Dude, that is the exact opposite of interacting, interacting in the sense that you are observing other people interacting? You're an idiot. Since you can't observe conversations, and you can't observe subtleties.These are things you would only pick up on if you were in the conversation. Knowing more about women and their perspective is how you LEARN to communicate better with them. All you do is watch? Fucking pervert...

More then 25% of people don't use contraceptives.

What I am doing is fake interaction, I never put a personal standpoint to any of my arguments.

Being in the conversation only gives the observer a personal prespective on social interaction, unfortunatly this personal prespective also takes away objectivity, because then the observer will have a personal stake in the interaction.

Knowing more about humanity and everyones personal prespective is how you learn more about people.

Don't feed the carbonb.

More then 25% of people don't use contraceptives.

What I am doing is fake interaction, I never put a personal standpoint to any of my arguments.

Being in the conversation only gives the observer a personal prespective on social interaction, unfortunatly this personal prespective also takes away objectivity, because then the observer will have a personal stake in the interaction.

Knowing more about humanity and everyones personal prespective is how you learn more about people.

Yeah, read that statement again you twat. That perspective includes women's you stupid bitch!

Don't feed the carbonb.

Get a life buddy, other people on this board are trying to have meaningful discussions.

Calm the fuck down. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, and it is not wrong being open with women. Give them a slightly altered version of "why". It is simply because you haven't found the right girl.



Gems right here, pure gold!



Yes, this right here. Girls will be amazed if you are in your early twenties and you haven't fucked more than 10 girls.



Practice....improves....proficiency? You don't say!



You sound like you don't know SHIT about women.



This is the part where you comfort him and DON'T make him feel inept.

Who invited the fat ass? You should really fucking run away, i mean lulz there are pictures of your man tits all over the internets! hahaha

Yeah, read that statement again you twat. That perspective includes women's you stupid bitch!.

Women are no different from you and me psychologically, they go through the same thought process and everything. Women probably always tell you that you know nothing about women, it's not that you know nothing about women it's that you don't know anything about people.

Women are different from you and me you stupid fuck they have those cool humps that I'm not allowed to touch, till I fill them full of GHB. They have dolls that I take the clothes off of and imagine they are real.

Yes women do have those cool humps that you are not allowed to touch, the rest of that is too much information.

Women are no different from you and me psychologically, they go through the same thought process and everything. Women probably always tell you that you know nothing about women, it's not that you know nothing about women it's that you don't know anything about people.


Some shit women tell you is some nice proppy....propaganda shit.

Who invited the fat ass? You should really fucking run away, i mean lulz there are pictures of your man tits all over the internets! hahaha

When you grow a dick, you can try and impose your will on mine. Until then, shut the fuck up before I have JoePedo molest your lolita ass.

Women are no different from you and me psychologically, they go through the same thought process and everything. Women probably always tell you that you know nothing about women, it's not that you know nothing about women it's that you don't know anything about people.

BWUAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHA! Mother fucker please, men and women DO NOT THINK THE SAME. That is fact. They might share the same insecurities, the same dreams, the same aspirations, the same fears, the same hopes. Too bad the reasons, and their functions for handling these ideas and feelings are completely different. How the fuck can you study people, but can't even differentiate between men and women? Ass!

Yes women do have those cool humps that you are not allowed to touch, the rest of that is too much information.

Learn to quote someone you ass.

Learn to quote someone you ass.

I don't quote people, that is plagurism.

I don't quote people, that is plagurism.

Learn what plagiarism is.

Some of these responses are just ridiculous. It's a trivial daily matter, and shouldn't be contemplated for days. If she asks, don't lie. Lies are bad. /thread.


PS carbon you're not a pimp, quit trying to act like one mmmkay?

David DeAngelo says you should avoid giving a direct answer.

When did I call myself a pimp? Stop feeling threatened....mmmmmkay?

David DeAngelo says you should avoid giving a direct answer.

I think it depends on your goal.

Well, I'm inclined to agree with carbon about women thinking differently. I mean, there are structural differences in certain parts of the brain when comparing male/female so it would make sense.

I've been asked why ive been single for so long(what was like 3 months), and ive said I havent come across any descent girls, the fucking truth these parts suck....especially if you travel east your fucked, 75% of girls are pregnant by age 18 lmao.
I think that the percentage is higher as you go south.

No.

Well, it would be silly to come out and tell one for no reason, but if one asks why not tell them?