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 #1 
Old 2008-05-30, 14:05
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Default Will I be Ok?

I have just come back from thailand, first night there I fucked a girl, and the condom broke, five days ago i started having the symptoms such as discharge on a frequent basis, burns like hell when i piss and cum, and just general pain.

My question is i got back yesterday and the only time i can get an appointment is on monday, will i be ok till then? also do you think i'll have to go for the HIV test.

Im not trolling
 #2 
Old 2008-05-30, 14:26
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If you're going to make a troll thread, at least do it properly.

And till you master the skills, please practice them in single-player mode (notepad). Once your skills are brought to an acceptable level, you can try the multiplayer mode at totse.com.
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Old 2008-05-30, 14:29
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shit, i didnt realise i said that, im not trolling, i really need some advice.
 #4 
Old 2008-05-30, 15:19
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get tested across the board. Cost ya like $52 at Planned Parenthood, or you can get your doc to do it and just pay co-pay (if you have insurence)
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Old 2008-05-30, 17:58
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thailand susposely has a rampant std rate... and something commonly referred to as "the blak clap"... if you get it you're susposedly not allowed in the states anymore... *shrug* Hope you liked thailand.

... or it could be just another rumor floating around the Navy...

I dunno which and im to lazy to google.
 #6 
Old 2008-05-30, 23:30
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Might as well just get tested for everything.

I've had to do it twice... :o
 #7 
Old 2008-05-31, 01:04
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you have what is called chlamydia. AIDs has no symptoms like that.
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Old 2008-05-31, 02:34
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Originally Posted by Flannery
you have what is called chlamydia. AIDs has no symptoms like that.


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 #9 
Old 2008-05-31, 03:16
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i can almost garuntee you have an std, probably chlamydia
 #10 
Old 2008-05-31, 08:41
soro_one soro_one is offline
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Can we have a round of applause for the genious OP?
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Old 2008-05-31, 08:48
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You got a dose of the clap boy...Chlamydia and/or gonorea.
Goes away with antibiotics. Trust me! :p

Definitely get fully tested...Clap, siphyllis, HIV etc.

And if you're lucky enough to be in the clear from anything really serious, be extra careful next time mate.
 #12 
Old 2008-05-31, 16:14
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Oh sweet jesus....

GO TO A FUCKING DOCTOR.

and where are the pix?

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 #13 
Old 2008-05-31, 16:20
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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psycho_8b is right again :)

Sounds like you were lucky enough to show symptoms of what sounds like chlamydia. You'll probably have to pop a gram of antibiotics in one go. No big deal but hopefully the experience will slap some sense into you. STDS ARE NO JOKE! You can actually get them, you're not magical or special.

Get tested for everything, yes you'll get swabbed in the dick, yes it's uncomfortable, yes it sucks, oh well. You'll get at least 6 vials of blood taken and possibly some other tests. If you have any bumps or warts/pimples you'd like them to check out remember to mention them.

Lastly, don't worry, calm down, the world isn't over and neither is your life. Coming up positive is heart-stopping as well as waiting for results but it's only for a second (The heart-stopping, lol). No matter what, you don't need to worry non-stop about it, if something really bad shows up then you'll deal with it then, and it still wont be the end of the world.

REMEMBER! Do NOT take part in ANY sexual activity! Wait for the results, take the antibiotics and wait the full recommended amount of time before having sex again, oh, and USE A CONDOM.
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Old 2008-05-31, 18:51
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Originally Posted by jackketch
Oh sweet jesus....

GO TO A FUCKING DOCTOR.

and where are the pix?

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Obviously I'm going to go a doctor but the clap clinic is shut on weekends for some reason, so i'll have to sort it out on monday, I was just wondering if an extra couple of days is going to have a detrimental effect.

Whats the risk of contracting HIV in my situation?
 #15 
Old 2008-05-31, 18:55
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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Obviously I'm going to go a doctor but the clap clinic is shut on weekends for some reason, so i'll have to sort it out on monday, I was just wondering if an extra couple of days is going to have a detrimental effect.

Whats the risk of contracting HIV in my situation?

Couple days shouldn't do anything really. You are at 100% risk of having HIV, sorry but it's the harsh truth. Not saying you have it, but the possibility is entirely there and I'm guessing that it's too late to do that "morning after" type thing that's supposed to stop it. Anyone have a link to info about that this?

Like I said, try not to worry/think about it, get checked out asap. Chlamydia sucks but it's really no problem to fix. Hope that what you've got, seriously, 'cause almost 99.9% sure you have something.
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Old 2008-05-31, 19:04
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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If it hurts when you pee, then I'm willing to bet that it's chlamydia. I know this because I had it.

And I doubt that you also have HIV. Unless you have the worst luck in the world... :p

I wonder who holds the record for most STDs... :D
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Old 2008-05-31, 19:06
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Thats the thing I do tend to have really bad luck. If i get HIV I think suicide is the only option.
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Old 2008-05-31, 19:11
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Originally Posted by TheNihilisticRampage
Thats the thing I do tend to have really bad luck. If i get HIV I think suicide is the only option.


lol, the chances of you having HIV are pretty negligible.

But anyway, just get checked ASAP.

When I was informed that I had slept with a woman with HIV, I was pretty scared too, but as it turns out, the chances of contracting it from just one time are actually quite slim.
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Old 2008-05-31, 19:15
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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Nah man, suicide is pointless, just like this life, which is exactly why suicide is pointless, or rather, a point. An end, a stop or a period.

It's like finishing a book halfway through writing it, now there's no ending and no story to speak of, just a beginning. Who cares that no one will read the book, again, that's kinda the point. What is the point of ending that which is without a point?
Anyways I'm ranting and making metaphors again but even if you did have aids, it could be you're climax, and if you carried on it would lead to a full book, with an end like all others. But you get to experience it! You don't if you close and toss the book. No possibilities for fun or happiness that way...

Anyways I doubt you have aids. You should note that even if you have chlamydia you might not notice any symptoms, which is why I said you were lucky that you did.
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Old 2008-05-31, 19:20
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Groovy.
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Originally Posted by TheNihilisticRampage
Thats the thing I do tend to have really bad luck. If i get HIV I think suicide is the only option.


Wut? Why would you want to top yourself when your HIV will do it for you eventually?

And if you are willing to top yourself before HIV does, then why bother about HIV at all?
 #21 
Old 2008-05-31, 19:28
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lol, the chances of you having HIV are pretty negligible.

But anyway, just get checked ASAP.

When I was informed that I had slept with a woman with HIV, I was pretty scared too, but as it turns out, the chances of contracting it from just one time are actually quite slim.

The thing is I kept shagging the same girl throughout the holiday, only that one girl. But after that incident I always made sure I wore a British condom, because on the first night it was an asian which are too small. Then five days ago is when i noticed the symptoms.
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Old 2008-05-31, 19:31
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Wut? Why would you want to top yourself when your HIV will do it for you eventually?

And if you are willing to top yourself before HIV does, then why bother about HIV at all?

If i had it why would I want to live where there is such a stigma attached to being infected, where I cant have children and where i'll probably be dead by the time im 35. And obivously I dont want HIV in the first place.
 #23 
Old 2008-05-31, 19:31
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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Wut? Why would you want to top yourself when your HIV will do it for you eventually?

And if you are willing to top yourself before HIV does, then why bother about HIV at all?

See!? Everything comes down to the fact that there is no point to any of this so there's no point ending it!
When you have NOTHING you are free, that's why to me suicide is so illogical. If you're ready to die by choice, then why not go crazy and do everything you ever wanted to? Go skydiving cause you don't care if you fuck up, anything really, if you get arrested you can either go insane in jail and make everyone your bitch or off yourself.

If you got away with robbing a bank you would have EVERYTHING and probably want to live again, so I don't suggest doing that, kinda ruins the whole experience. Gain nothing but knowledge, experience and great times.

Honestly one of my biggest wishes is to just have nothing left, no identity, no possessions and just live. It's also been a reoccurring dream I've had since I was 11, happens about once a month.

EDIT: Wow, I'm a pretty fucked up guy.
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Old 2008-05-31, 19:33
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See!? Everything comes down to the fact that there is no point to any of this so there's no point ending it!
When you have NOTHING you are free, that's why to me suicide is so illogical. If you're ready to die by choice, then why not go crazy and do everything you ever wanted to? Go skydiving cause you don't care if you fuck up, anything really, if you get arrested you can either go insane in jail and make everyone your bitch or off yourself.

If you got away with robbing a bank you would have EVERYTHING and probably want to live again, so I don't suggest doing that, kinda ruins the whole experience. Gain nothing but knowledge, experience and great times.

Honestly one of my biggest wishes is to just have nothing left, no identity, no possessions and just live. It's also been a reoccurring dream I've had since I was 11, happens about once a month.

You may want to check out Into The Wild, directed by Sean Penn, based on a true story, an excellent film. Its about a kid fresh out of college who gives all his possessions, his life and identity to rough it in alaska.

I suppose your right, we'll see when I go for the test.
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Old 2008-05-31, 19:33
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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The thing is I kept shagging the same girl throughout the holiday, only that one girl. But after that incident I always made sure I wore a British condom, because on the first night it was an asian which are too small. Then five days ago is when i noticed the symptoms.

The chances are still pretty low.

Check this out:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/HIV#Transmission
 #26 
Old 2008-05-31, 19:38
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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You may want to check out Into The Wild, directed by Sean Penn, based on a true story, an excellent film. Its about a kid fresh out of college who gives all his possessions, his life and identity to rough it in alaska.

I suppose your right, we'll see when I go for the test.

That's fucking weird man, yesterday I watched a trailer for it on my brother's 360 and said "I Have To See This" I'm probably going to rent it tonight. Everyone around me thinks I might actually run away one day after taking some crazy ass drugs so I lose "myself" and get to start over. I don't know if I will but I like the idea. Even if I survived only for a short while I wouldn't care, I'd feel like i experienced "life" if only for so long and up until the end. This thought makes me happy.

EDIT: @ gadzooks: Those statistics blew my mind, I thought it would be waaay higher then that.
 #27 
Old 2008-05-31, 19:44
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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EDIT: @ gadzooks: Those statistics blew my mind, I thought it would be waaay higher then that.

Same here... Or at least I used to think they were...

That's why I ended up making this thread:

http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=1507480

lol, I was so paranoid, even though it was one time, and I used a condom.
 #28 
Old 2008-05-31, 20:22
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If i had it why would I want to live where there is such a stigma attached to being infected, where I cant have children and where i'll probably be dead by the time im 35. And obivously I dont want HIV in the first place.

If you get HIV, you get to walk around saying "I'm not just sure.. I'm HIV positive." at every opportunity. People won't know how to react.

Also, you would be able to play Russian Roullete. Not many people can, but you will, since you're saying you wouldn't value your life any more. If you win, and you handle it right, you can get stupidly rich, and live a better life than anyone without HIV lives. If you lose, well, you wanted to commit suicide anyway, so it's not a big deal. It's a win/win.

I mean, man, obviously best of luck to you with the results of the tests, but whatever the outcome is, never despair. Always look to the bright side of life. There's much more to it than what you think.
 #29 
Old 2008-05-31, 21:26
Suicide_Mouse Suicide_Mouse is offline
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If you get HIV, you get to walk around saying "I'm not just sure.. I'm HIV positive." at every opportunity. People won't know how to react.

Also, you would be able to play Russian Roullete. Not many people can, but you will, since you're saying you wouldn't value your life any more. If you win, and you handle it right, you can get stupidly rich, and live a better life than anyone without HIV lives. If you lose, well, you wanted to commit suicide anyway, so it's not a big deal. It's a win/win.

I mean, man, obviously best of luck to you with the results of the tests, but whatever the outcome is, never despair. Always look to the bright side of life. There's much more to it than what you think.

This guy gets my opinion on the matter and I highly agree with his.
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Old 2008-05-31, 22:13
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Quote:
Originally Posted by gadzooks
If it hurts when you pee, then I'm willing to bet that it's chlamydia. I know this because I had it.

And I doubt that you also have HIV. Unless you have the worst luck in the world... :p

I wonder who holds the record for most STDs... :D


well...i think a true holder of that record, would be a 'dead' holder of that record.

and while im here... did aids REALLY come from monkeys?... i also heard the whole conspiracy that its man made.
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Old 2008-05-31, 22:14
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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well...i think a true holder of that record, would be a 'dead' holder of that record

Not necessarily.. there are lots of STD's that aren't deadly.
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Old 2008-05-31, 22:17
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fair enough, and lmao i just imagined flicking through a guinness world records book and seeing "most std's" with a picture of a prostetute or some sort of thai lady boy
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Old 2008-05-31, 22:18
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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fair enough, and lmao i just imagined flicking through a guinness world records book and seeing "most std's" with a picture of a prostetute or some sort of thai lady boy


lol :D
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Old 2008-05-31, 22:20
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well...i think a true holder of that record, would be a 'dead' holder of that record.

and while im here... did aids REALLY come from monkeys?... i also heard the whole conspiracy that its man made.

Some scientists believe that AIDS is not actually caused by HIV.

The whole deal is messed up, if you ask me.
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Old 2008-06-01, 12:03
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Some scientists believe that AIDS is not actually caused by HIV.

The whole deal is messed up, if you ask me.

After researching, I found that whole theory has been discredited, im going to the clinic tomorrow, so wish me luck :(
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Old 2008-06-02, 17:11
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I have just come back from the clinic, Ive definately got gonorrhea, so ive just had a huge dose of penicilin up my arse and a course of antibiotics, also a baseline HIV test, but they can only really test in 3 months :(
 #37 
Old 2008-06-02, 17:39
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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Ive definately got gonorrhea

That ones curable though, right?

At least you caught it early...
 #38 
Old 2008-06-02, 17:39
gadzooks gadzooks is offline
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I had a dream last night where I somehow became infected with hepatitis A from a sexual encounter... lulz.
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Old 2008-06-02, 18:16
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Yeah is curable, luckily i had early symptoms, ive been in contact with the girl, and im trying to find out if she has HIV, if so im fucked, but she seemed genuine when she said she has only slept with three guys. Only Time Will Tell. :(
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Old 2008-06-02, 20:59
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you probably have like HivBacterial VaginosisChlamydiaGenital wartsGonorrheaHerpesMolluscum contagiosum Scabies SyphilisThrushTrichomoniasis O' Tidus...
This deadly Virus comes from women in third world countries...
I feel sory for you...
next time stick with women that American, Ect women...
Wait there wont be a next time...hahahahaha!!
But realy just get tested...
 #41 
Old 2008-06-02, 21:00
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Groovy.
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acolyte...hahahahaha!!
acolyte...

Acolyte.
 #42 
Old 2008-06-03, 17:16
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South Wales
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I can only get a proper test after 3 months for HIV, Im sure i said that. hmmm........
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Old 2008-06-11, 19:54
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Well the good news is I only had Gonorrhea, negative for everything else, but im still in the window period, so Ive got to go for another test in 3months. :(

After contact with the girl, she says she is HIV negative, but i dont know if i should beleive her.
 
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