Ok guys and gals, some of you might remember i dumped my gf a couple months back b/c she was lazy and didnt want to go out and get a job to help with the bills or go to school while i supported her... she hardly did anything around the house either...

Then i moved my female roomate in. shes awesome to hang out and chill with, pays her half of the bills, etc etc. Shorty after her moving in we start having sex. good, rough, tie-her-up-and-slap-her-around sex. And my ex is more used to the whole sensual hugs n kisses slow and steady sex so this wa a change for me.

i love both at different times, only problem is my ex is trying to get back together with me, and now my roomie is strting to have feelings for me... She even mentioned it to me but before she did, i could tell. but because we are roomies (sub lease an all the legal rigamaroll) our dating would be inappropriate. and i wouldnt date her anyways, she annoys me unless shes naked and bent over with a gag on.

i have feelings for my ex, and would date her in a second if she got her act together again... but cant move her in b/c of my roomie... now like most females my roomie doesnt like to associate at all with my ex, i guess she sees her as competition or something..

now my problem is that if i defend my ex to my roomie or vice versa they get all weird... so &T, my question to you guys is how do i get both of them to stop worrying about the other? ive tried explaining it logically... you can guess how THAT went...

--bad b0y
-Typed from a MotoQ, damn my thumbs are sore!!!

YOU put yourself in this situation because you couldn't control your sausage. Of course your roomie is going to get attached to you after having sex with you... it's HUMAN NATURE!

You just sound like a complete dick, I don't even want to advise you.

I hope one of these women snap psycho on you and chop your uncontrollable dick into many pieces.

Don't have sex unless you're in an understood relationship or shitty problems like this are going to arise.

ignore the sex must be with love crap from the poster above me.

Here's the situation laid out very plainly.


Ex-gf, terrible with money, and you can't live with her as you're locked into the lease.

Roomate: She fucks, pays her bills, however is attached to you

Stick with the roomate, give the gf the time to get her act together, when the lease is over see how things are, don't have a relationship with the rommate keep it purely physical.

Do you HONESTLY think its a good idea to have a fuck-buddy relationship with a girl you live with, who is also starting to have feelings for you? Sounds like an emotional train wreck waiting to happen. I agree with isoape, have some fucking self control. If you wanna get back with your ex, why not, doesn't mean you have to live with her, does it? But you can't have them both, especially if they're starting to "get all weird" about it.

Fuck off mr. high and mighty.

ignore the sex must be with love crap from the poster above me.

Here's the situation laid out very plainly.


Ex-gf, terrible with money, and you can't live with her as you're locked into the lease.

Roomate: She fucks, pays her bills, however is attached to you

Stick with the roomate, give the gf the time to get her act together, when the lease is over see how things are, don't have a relationship with the rommate keep it purely physical.

Lol, watch in two months he is going to be back asking why his roommate has gone psycho....

Fuck off mr. high and mighty.

I love how you call him "HIGH AND MIGHTY" because he treats himself and others with respect. Pffff, no one here is on a horse mother fucker, you're just that low to the dirt.

Explain to her that it's PURELY PHYSICAL and nothing more.

Explain to her that it's PURELY PHYSICAL and nothing more.

This.

And stop living with people you're fucking until you're really ready to go steady.

Pffff, no one here is on a horse mother fucker, you're just that low to the dirt.

Nice turn of phrase, gonna remember that one.

Quit wasting time with the old one.

AM i really a dick? ... ... ... yep! and damn proud of it.

i explained to my roomie that is purely physical, and if she doesnt want to get hurt emotionally, then call off our fuck buddy relationship.

as for the x.. shes getting her shit together... slowly. In 5 months when the lease is up, imma see about getting back with her. and i explained this to her...

So for now everythings hunky dorie... i get to have my cake and eat it to... pun not intended.