Ok so recently I have been "flirting" (kissing, hugging, cuddling) with this guy at work however he got in trouble for it during work. Now he doesn't touch me or flirt with me as often, but I still want him to. I think he is afraid of the boss, because our boss said "I know her mom." However, I am 19 and that shouldn't even matter. It's just weird because he will go all work day without being near me and then he asks me to take out the trash or whatever and kiss and hug me there. Should I try to initate anything? Should I tell him that my mom doesn't have a problem with it (because she doesn't)? I just want it to go back to normal. Should I tell him I like him like that, just to finalize it? I don't know what to do.

Umm, don't you think they just want to keep it out of the workplace. That shit is annoying.

Just rape him already.

Honey, yeah, it´s just not very professional to do stuff like that at work.

He probably doesn't do it too often now because if he continues he will be the one in trouble not you. I'm assuming he wants to keep his job because like most people he likes to eat.



Why don't you just hang out with him after work instead of trying to force him to risk his job?

You call that 'flirting'?

Fucking slut.

*ObZ

I totally agree. The guy doesn't wanna touch you, so leave him the fuck alone! He wants to work, and doesn't want you! Get over it!

He probably doesn't do it too often now because if he continues he will be the one in trouble not you. I'm assuming he wants to keep his job because like most people he likes to eat.

Exactly.

You girls need to realize that with all the frivolous sexual harassment lawsuits in the recent past, we guys now have to be extremely careful in order to avoid any unnecessary drama or getting fired or even sued/arrested.

Like everyone else said:

Save if for when you're not at work. You're not getting paid to be dry humping all around your workplace. If you want to 'kiss, cuddle and hug,' find another time and place.

And harassing him to be affectionate to you at work is a stupid idea; you'll come off as needy and likely a little bit slutty.

You can touch my penis if you like? Just to warn you though, if it spits on you, it just means it likes you. Just try to open your mouth as much as possible so you don't get too much on your face.
Seriously though, why not just ask if he wants to hang out after work so you don't have a bad incident of putting your foot in the toilet while he fucks you from behind.
Man my mind is dirty.

It's called professionalism. You dirty fuckin slut

randomly pull off his pants when the boss isnt looking and give him a BJ



problem solved

I know what professionalism is, I'm not a dumbass and it's not like we were doing anything infront of the patrons. While we were on break we would sit and talk, occasionally cuddle, kiss, or hug. It's not like we were full out making out. Whatever, if you want to call me a slut to make yourself feel better then fine. I'm not really in the mood for any shit right now. I don't know it doesn't matter anymore any how. I just got home from work and I'm not feeling too happy.

Sirlicksalot, welcome to Totse. A good 50% of the populace here are pre-pubescent little boys that love to call girls sluts/whores/skanks if they even dare to mention the fact they may enjoy a little physical affection. It's sad, but you enrage them when you talk about hugging or kissing a real man because it's not the angry pre-pubescent little boy getting the affection from you. Thus, in their little CounterStrike addled minds, you are a 'slut'.

Ignore them. There's enough good on Totse to counter out the idiots.



Some companies are super strict about ANY form of physical contact, and such. At my company it can result in instant dismissal of both parties, because simply, a big company (or even a little one) does not like the idea of two of it's staff getting off on duty. Even if you dont and wouldnt, a company will do it's best to make sure they're not paying their staff to fuck in odd little corners of the premises.


So the guy still likes you, for sure. But as mentioned, he's scared shitless about losing his job. I can understand that.
It sounds as though you've got the luck and talent to be able to land almost any job you might want, but others dont have that luck and need to hang onto any job they can get hold of as quickly as possible, even if it means not getting as much physical contact from a hot neat girl like yourself.

It sucks, but it's not personal.

Also, you mentioned he was foreingh? I forget where you said he was from, but if his immigration stuff is questionable, getting into trouble may mean more than just losing his job.


Take it easy.

Thanks yoyo. Yeah, I've had some time to think it over and him being Hispanic puts him in a hard place work wise with all of the ignorance and racism towards the culture. Also, I am prone to overthinking/overanalyzing and worrying too much. I just need to learn to chill.

Oh, and that one serious post out of ten immature posts means so much. :)

Oh, and that one serious post out of ten immature posts means so much. :)

Oh yeah, just go and discredit every other post in this thread...

You're not only gonna get his ass fired, but deported too if you keep this crap up.

Keep it out of the workplace!