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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-05-25, 09:36
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Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
Lol. I am very tactless when it comes to this. Think Johnny Bravo blended with Narcissus plus John Stewart. Not pretty.
In a matter of two days after learning about the cocky comedy routine all I had was mixed success. I know its the nature of the game. I made very very minor progress and boy did my ego take a fucking beating these two days. I was cancelled on, cursed at, slapped and disrespected. Only hooked up with one girl and that wasn't even planned.
Whats the perfect balance of cocky comedy? Is there such a thing as too much of it? When do you know you've said too much?
Thanks.
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#2
 2008-05-25, 10:10
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
cock comedy
I lol'd.
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#3
 2008-05-25, 23:02
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
Practice make perfect mate.
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#4
 2008-05-25, 23:03
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
Cock Tease
Yes please.
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#5
 2008-05-25, 23:07
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/5a/Rooster_1_AB.jpg/
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#6
 2008-05-25, 23:09
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
It depends alot on the girl. When you meet a new chick you kinda have to test the waters first.
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#7
 2008-05-25, 23:12
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/5/5a/Rooster_1_AB.jpg/
Can you get matt davis to do that awesome cool kermit the frog impression?
We all just can't get enough of it.
*^ trys to egg them on to do something stupid/ dirty work*
Ps, its already done.
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#8
 2008-05-25, 23:16
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gadzooks 
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
Can you get matt davis to do that awesome cool kermit the frog impression?
We all just can't get enough of it.
*^ trys to egg them on to do something stupid/ dirty work*
Ps, its already done.
lolwut?
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#9
 2008-05-26, 01:43
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
It's just one of those things you have to feel out from girl to girl, some might not like it at all some might eat that shit up, you just gotta learn how to play your cards right
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#10
 2008-05-26, 01:52
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
All these styles of communicating
everyone seems to forget the communication part. They just focus on what mask they are putting on. It's not about the words coming out of your mouth, its about the meaning, the intention, and what it conveys.
Cocky and funny..yea it works but if its not your personality then don't do it. Just tease her every once and a while..Communication is all about having fun and doing what's natural. Being confident in yourself and having fun sharing yourself with others. It is NOT about using little gimmicks and tricks that mimic confidence.
I'll tell you now, if you show that all you're capable of are funny one liners and snappy comebacks, you'll still look pathetic.
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#11
 2008-05-26, 03:36
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
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Originally Posted by Mufasa09
All these styles of communicating
everyone seems to forget the communication part. They just focus on what mask they are putting on. It's not about the words coming out of your mouth, its about the meaning, the intention, and what it conveys.
Cocky and funny..yea it works but if its not your personality then don't do it. Just tease her every once and a while..Communication is all about having fun and doing what's natural. Being confident in yourself and having fun sharing yourself with others. It is NOT about using little gimmicks and tricks that mimic confidence.
I'll tell you now, if you show that all you're capable of are funny one liners and snappy comebacks, you'll still look pathetic.
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Mufasa you are a great source of wisdom. If only your brother Scar wasn't always around getting me to run, run away and never return.
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#12
 2008-05-26, 03:45
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
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Originally Posted by Terror Alert
Lol. I am very tactless when it comes to this. Think Johnny Bravo blended with Narcissus plus John Stewart. Not pretty.
In a matter of two days after learning about the cocky comedy routine all I had was mixed success. I know its the nature of the game. I made very very minor progress and boy did my ego take a fucking beating these two days. I was cancelled on, cursed at, slapped and disrespected. Only hooked up with one girl and that wasn't even planned.
Whats the perfect balance of cocky comedy? Is there such a thing as too much of it? When do you know you've said too much?
Thanks.
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In my experience, while your dating the woman it NEVER gets old. Making fun of them constantly is the motherfucking way to go.
As soon as it because serious at all, you need to literally shut it the fuck off, they hate that and find it annoying for some reason. Still tease them, just dont go overboard.
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#13
 2008-05-26, 03:46
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
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Originally Posted by Mufasa09
All these styles of communicating
everyone seems to forget the communication part. They just focus on what mask they are putting on. It's not about the words coming out of your mouth, its about the meaning, the intention, and what it conveys.
Cocky and funny..yea it works but if its not your personality then don't do it. Just tease her every once and a while..Communication is all about having fun and doing what's natural. Being confident in yourself and having fun sharing yourself with others. It is NOT about using little gimmicks and tricks that mimic confidence.
I'll tell you now, if you show that all you're capable of are funny one liners and snappy comebacks, you'll still look pathetic.
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This pretty much.
Why would you start doing something that isn't you?
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#14
 2008-05-26, 10:56
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
I'm naturally cocky and most people say i'm funny as fuck. If a girl doesn't like it she can fuck off.
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#15
 2008-05-27, 22:00
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
Don't be cocky. Be confident. Don't think you're better than everyone else, just think you're better than her. Don't think you're smart, just smarter than her. Don't think you're funny, just funnier than her.
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#16
 2008-06-03, 17:40
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
Practice make perfect mate.
This. Simply this. You just gotta practice on new and other people
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#17
 2008-06-03, 18:02
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
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Originally Posted by redjoker
Don't be cocky. Be confident. Don't think you're better than everyone else, just think you're better than her. Don't think you're smart, just smarter than her. Don't think you're funny, just funnier than her.
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Silently think your better than everyone else, not better than but, more of a man than fellow possible competition. Just to keep her focus on you, that way she doesnt lose interest.. Other than that focus on you to her relationship as said, better than her.
Practice makes perfect yea buddy, learn from exerience, hear some tips/advice from others, go try it out. You can fuck up once or twice and say a few BS lines but make sure to even it out or figure out what works with said girl.
The basically go hand in hand, and if you find that balance your pretty much set across the fucking board.....
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#18
 2008-06-03, 18:17
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
This. Simply this. You just gotta practice on new and other people
Also, mental visualisation, when done properly, is almost as effective as doing it in real life.
In practice, it's best when combined with actual real-life experiences.
E.g. you go out and practice it on people during the day; in the evening, you visualise the situations when you fucked up, and do them correctly.
This way you learn faster.
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#19
 2008-06-03, 19:35
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
I don't know.. go ask David DeAngelo already.
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#20
 2008-06-03, 23:57
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Caoltan 
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Re: Perfect balance of cocky and funny?
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Originally Posted by ZeroMalarki
I don't know.. go ask David DeAngelo already.
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This too. Download some of his stuff.
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