For the past week or two, i have thot my relationship was sliding down. i felt like i needed to be better w/e and i guess i have ending up acting, im not being myself and i feel ike im being weird and pusing her aways anyway.

i asked hertoday on the phone if i was cting weid lately and she said yes but couldnt put afinger on it.

i have a few ways i can tell her its not going to be like his and we'll have the ves relationship.

i can tel her he truth, that i was worried of loosing her love so i was trying to be someting i wasnt. dnt no what else to say, i dont want her to think i was weak and insecure about her liking me..

i ca tell her that we havebeen using too many drugs lately and my brain has been out of wack so ivebeen cting strange.

any of those good, ireally want to catch this before it falls.

also: she told me she as worried about being with her becaue she is brow eyes and brown hair ( becausei toldhwryeas ag that bondblue is the only thing i would want. i told her tht i was open minded and i wasnt picky anymoar. yesterday she told me that what i said was insulting because itsmakes it look ike im lowering my sandardsby not being picky..wtf?

wen i say sit i do a badjob putting my whole message across i guess..

im in an emotona wrec. sorry for gramerim on cell

I would help you if I could understand what the hell you were saying.

im in an emotona wrec. sorry for gramerim on cell

No, you're just a dumb nigger. Learn coping skills and maybe one day you can make a decent carpenter out of your self.

Well, in all honesty, the thing you said to her about only liking blonde/blue eyes is easily misinterpreted the way she did, which is that you were lowering your standards and making an exception for her. This implies she's not perfect, or good looking.

Crazy, I know, but women hear and interpret things differently than they are intended... just be careful..

Other than that, I really don't know what advice to offer because I don't know what you're asking for... but I'll just say in general stop worrying so much about losing her...

if she can't accept you for who you are presently and wants you to change, then fuck that. Do what I've done and BE OUT...

Your problem is with yourself, not between you and your girl. Figure out what is bothering you, then you'll be equipped to remedy the situation or at least explain whats going on and know where to go to from there.

she'll have a lot of respect for you if you proactively try and look inside yourself and figure it out, then if you just let your relationship go to hell and then blame it on this unknown.

def. last night she came over after my work and something jus clicked for me. i was myself, i was happy. i was excited, witty and everything. i dont kno how tha happened but its legit.

ithink i get out of wack when there is drama in the relationship. she tells me she has these dreams of me cheating on her, that what i say makes her feel unnatractive blah blah.

how am i supposed to dea with petty drama? i really dont ask much of her, other then to not cheat on me and get high with other guys when im not there. i did suggest lightly that she could loose some weight around her stomache, which sheof course took to thw extream.

Kids, don't do drugs...

def. last night she came over after my work and something jus clicked for me. i was myself, i was happy. i was excited, witty and everything. i dont kno how tha happened but its legit.

ithink i get out of wack when there is drama in the relationship. she tells me she has these dreams of me cheating on her, that what i say makes her feel unnatractive blah blah.

how am i supposed to dea with petty drama? i really dont ask much of her, other then to not cheat on me and get high with other guys when im not there. i did suggest lightly that she could loose some weight around her stomache, which sheof course took to thw extream.

Never, ever, ever, ever, ever suggest a woman is overweight in any way. This tends to upset them.

def. last night she came over after my work and something jus clicked for me. i was myself, i was happy. i was excited, witty and everything. i dont kno how tha happened but its legit.

ithink i get out of wack when there is drama in the relationship. she tells me she has these dreams of me cheating on her, that what i say makes her feel unnatractive blah blah.

how am i supposed to dea with petty drama? i really dont ask much of her, other then to not cheat on me and get high with other guys when im not there. i did suggest lightly that she could loose some weight around her stomache, which sheof course took to thw extream.

Just tell her straight up you're not cheating on her and will never cheat on her in the future. Tell her that in order for your relationship to work she needs to trust you, else you should not be together. Leave her with the decision and make sure she knows you arent the cheating type.

Kids, don't do drugs...

Yeah..well, weed is an exception.

Anyway, go back to pumping gas, you high school drop out.

Yeah..well, weed is an exception.

Anyway, go back to pumping gas, you high school drop out.

I'm back in highschool, and I make smoothies now.

English, motherfucker! Do- You- Speak- It?