Don't know how, but she's around a week late for her period and the test came back positive.

It REALLY pisses me off because I don't know HOW(inb4blackmancock,etc).
The condom came off somehow, but she took the morning after(48hs later, it's supposed to have a 72hs window) so I thought we were good.

Now here comes the real bad part... abortion is illegal here. I have a friend who took some pills and had no complications... but.. it's frightening.. I think the name is Cytotec, but I'm going to find out more...

*sigh*

Keeping it is not an option.

So... how bad did we fuck up? Are these pills harmful? I've read around on line and they seem to be somewhat safe...

inb4stairs.

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It's not uncommon for women to lie about shit like this for the attention. Just take her ass to another state where abortion is legal if she is pregnant. Make her suck dicks at a truck stop to pay for the expenses too.

Edit: or the blankooie method.

1) I saw the result, I'll probably tell her to take another just in case.

2) Look at my location.

3) lol, I wish life was &T. :(

Look at my location.

Oh fuck, best be finding a good hanger then.

Yea, just lots and lots of alcohol will flush the baby right out the system, especially in the early stages of pregnancy.

Or give it fetal alcohol syndrome. http://www.faqs.org/nutrition/images/nwaz_01_img0099.jpg

lol. I'm a mac.

bah... Mod, delete this thread.

no seriously man, give her a miscarriage. It isnt that hard.

no seriously man, give her a miscarriage. It isnt that hard.

I'm just looking for some insight on the pill...

Will it hurt her? How will she feel? Is it safe? Anyone do it?


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I'm going to give you some of the best advice you'll get here. I don't know anything about your country but I do know that if abortion is illegal that there'll be some fem nazi group fighting it and providing illegal access to advice and drugs. They'll also be able to put you in touch with an underground clinic if needs must.

Of course you could just man up and become a dad. In my experience I have found that the 'keeping it isn't an option' excuse is just that, an excuse. There are really few couples who really could not keep a baby.

I know, this is the pussy way out, but her words were: "I can't cope with my own life, let alone someone else's. I have nothing to offer him... etc etc..", keeping it really isn't an option...

And I'll look into those underground sort of clinics, some sort of health knowledge is better than none..

Thanks.

If it actually does make it through this gauntlet of murder plots, just give it up for adoption. It doesn't need shitty parents like you guys.

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This shit is just fucked up...

Can a mod delete this...?

Don't worry man. I'm saving this shit. Oh I'm saving this.

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This shit is just fucked up...

Can a mod delete this...?

Sorry no. I'll only delete soapboxing comments. Whether redjoker was right or not his opinion is valid.

Mate, you'll find good advice scattered in-between layers of twisties so leave the thread up. I know you must be confused, but if you only read the good posts you'll find some good ideas and whatnot.

First thing's first, don't feel too besieged by this. It's something that happens a lot, to a lot of people. It's happened to me. Unfortunately, I didn't have a choice in the matter as I found out after we had split. She aborted by pill, and I'm not sure as to how that affected her (not well, I think.)

Fact is, I would have liked to have had a say there. You're in the fortunate position of being able to. First things first, look at all of your options and consider them carefully with your partner. This is not a time for rushed decisions. As jackketch wisely advised you, there are likely to be options for abortion if you search in the right places, but there's also the options of adoption and keeping it.

I think you need to calm down, and rationally evaluate the situation with your girl. She doesn't seem to be emotionally stable, so you're going to have to be the man that you are and take the lead, calm her down, let her know everything's going to be okay.

And that's what it will be, whatever you choose to do. This is not the end of the world, nor your life or hers. It will change the way you look at life, but it won't destroy it. Trust yourself to come up with a wise decision. We cannot tell you what to do.

Sorry no. I'll only delete soapboxing comments. Whether redjoker was right or not his opinion is valid.

Fair enough. I guess I was just stupid to turn to &T... specially about something like this. I guess I don't really have anyone else to talk about it with...

redjoker: Go ahead. Laugh. Do what you want. I did the same shit when I wasn't in this position. Karma's a bitch...

stab:
Yeah, you're right. It's just really... uncomfortable to be in this position. I've always been on the outside thinking to myself "ha, that's never going to happen to me" , but it did. And now we have to fix it.
We're both pretty dumbstruck about this whole situation, and we're talking about what to do, but then again, I think both of us are definitely not ready( in any sense of the word) to take care of.. a new life...

And to add the icing to the cake, she's a bit religious. So, yeah. These are going to be some not-so-fun weeks coming up...

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The longer you delay this, the worse it gets, this isn't the kinda thing you can mess around with, nor is it the time to have doubts- Use Google to research the pill, and if not then get somewhere where it is legal, if you don't have the cash to pay for a flight, get it. Don't bring another child into the world without capable and responsible parents to raise it.

. Don't bring another child into the world without capable and responsible parents to raise it.

You mean like every parent ever? No one starts out a capable and responsible parent, it comes with time. Most make it, some don't.

we had this one dumb broad tell everyone she was pregnant this bitch even wore those pregnant belly shits fuckin ridiculous...but cytotec i think can errm kill her aswell

what. the. fuck.

The longer you delay this, the worse it gets.

This is the one thing that's totally true in this thread.

As the pregnancy continues, the abortion techniques get more and more intrusive. And more expensive. And it'll be harder on her because the longer the pregnancy the more human the baby will become to her.

Don't know how, but she's around a week late for her period and the test came back positive.

Shoryuken :
> v > x

This is the one thing that's totally true in this thread.

As the pregnancy continues, the abortion techniques get more and more intrusive. And more expensive. And it'll be harder on her because the longer the pregnancy the more human the baby will become to her.

Yes. I know. We're planning on doing it this week coming up or the next at the most.

A swift kick to her stomach should solve your problem. And it comes with a free meal.

And it comes with a free meal.

^win.

dog i know exactly how you feel. this shit sucks and shes gonna be all fuckin sketchy after the abortion too. basically you just gotta falcon punch her about 6 inches above the vagina and your gold

Just have the fucking Kid. The "we could'nt give it a good life" and all those other excuses are a load of shit.

gallagher that bitch!