This would mostly be for the ladies, but would you feel bad if you needed lube for sex? I mean, in my opinion its pretty much the same as not getting getting a boner for a guy.
Anyways, the reason i ask is because thats pretty much what i need. Its not like i'm not turned on or anythng but i just wasn't wet. To be totally honest me and my boyfriend have only had sex a few times and it still hurts and all that so i think it might be something to do with that.

Any particular advice anyone could give me? Or at least tell me that i'm not a freak who is destined to carry the Sahara desert in her pants?

oh, and guys, would you be offended if this was the case with your girlfriend?

Cheers

oh, and guys, would you be offended if this was the case with your girlfriend?

Nope, some girls are naturally more wet than others. I tend to last a while anyway, and the initial vaginal wetness dries up eventually.

Meh same problem with my girlfriend.


Come to think about it....it kinda ruins the moment. "Hai, hold on, lemme get lube"

but after a while, you get used to it.

Sometimes it happens and sometime birth control can bring it on as well. It's not particularly a big deal with me, but I'm pretty lax on most subjects.

It might help if you avoid using products like vinegar, yogurt, hand lotions, soaps, and bubble bath. If that doesn't work speak with your doctor, they have several options you could consider. e.g. if the dryness is caused by low estrogen your doctor might suggest a vaginal estrogen cream like Estrace or Premarin, of course you have to insert this one with an applicator every night before you go to bed, a vaginal estrogen ring like Estring might be better since you only insert this one once every 3 monthes.

Reference
www.mayoclinic.com (2008) Vaginal Dryness.

Not at all. Sometimes my mind is hornier than my vagina lol. Plus putting it on is pretty fun too

birth control made me wetter. :o is that bad?
i get wet when nothing has happened
i'll just be thinking. is that bad?