Fucked you on the first day you meet..Obviously you think of her as a slut..but would you consider a relationship with her? or just view her as a slut?

hang out with her some more see if you like her, and if you keep fucking and shes not talking to other dudes.... then think about the relationship part.

It's already happened, about a year ago. Just wanted to get some opinions from other people..As how it turned out? we dated for 7 months and it didnt work out because she had to talk to her exes, so just getting an opinion :)

To have sex with a girl and then deem her a slut is a pretty asshole thing to do. I've never understood the logic behind that. If anything I have more appreciation for a girl who doesn't make me jump through hoops just to get her into bed.

As long as this isn't like a weekly thing for her, and as long as she stays committed when she's actually in a relationship, then I really don't see the problem.

Well fuck you too.

Its that kind of attitude that makes chicks wait before giving it up.
So fucking what if she likes sex - if i fucked some girl on the first day we met id be cheering.
It could be a one night sort of thing, but either way i'd be pretty happy with myself.

If a chick fucks you on the first day you meet, maybe she likes you??

Judge the person, if shes an emotionally fucked up whore then what were you doing fucking her in the first place?

Meanwhile i love slutty girls, SO MUCH FUN!!

Dude, you fucked someone the first day you met them. That makes you a slut. No one should have a relationship with you because you talk to people who you've had sex with before. No one should like you because your a slut.

It can be done, and id keep it if she was in fact of a descent quality.

I met this chick at a party we had sex that night and i am still with her.. we have a kid together and are in love...and i never viewed this girl as a slut i new right away that i liked her now i love her and my daughter more than anything

You broke up with her because she talked to exes? Sounds like you're the dink here.

That doesn't meet any of my critera for a relationship.

So no.

I've yet to meet a girl who didn't fuck me on the first day we hung out. I fucked my fiance the first day I met her, and we are still in love almost two years later. Lots of chicks fuck guys right aways cause they don't want to waste months on you just to find out you suck in bed. They're only sluts if this is a common thing for them to do, and never had plans for any relationship.

Well fuck you too.

Its that kind of attitude that makes chicks wait before giving it up.
So fucking what if she likes sex - if i fucked some girl on the first day we met id be cheering.
It could be a one night sort of thing, but either way i'd be pretty happy with myself.

If a chick fucks you on the first day you meet, maybe she likes you??

Judge the person, if shes an emotionally fucked up whore then what were you doing fucking her in the first place?

Meanwhile i love slutty girls, SO MUCH FUN!!

I'm not complaining, I don't view her as a slut, I was just getting peoples opinions on this..

This is the same girl who said I will fuck anyone, and when she says that I just remind her, "well you fucked me on the first day" :)

If I get pussy on the first day i'm happy..but sometimes you have to worry if she does that alot, but I guess you could call me a hypocrite

Now you can truly connect with her, if you want.

I pulled a similar stunt, except I was talking to her for about a month over the web. Odds are if she gives it up quick to you, she'll do the same for her exs or random dudes if she's fucked up. Seriously, every girl I just jumped into it with has ended in a horrible messy break up with her on some other guy's dick while we're still dating.

If she already gave herself to you when you just met her,is she worth it?She could do it to another guy if you were with her.

Don't do it,she doesn't seem worth it.

I JUST got out of a relationship that started like this. The relationship ended less than a week ago. But we lasted a year and a half. It only ended because I am moving to another state. We'd still be together most likely otherwise.

HOWEVER, it was not easy. Because of that first night, I had a LOT of trouble trusting her. Even though I did trust her, I couldn't get the way we began out of my head. It bothered me because if she was so eager to hop on me and it made me nervous about her just hopping on someone else while I wasn't around. As far as I know, this didn't happen. But the way the relationship began caused a lot of problems for me, and us. And even though overall it was a decent relationship, I would never start another one with another girl the same way. Ever. It bothered me too much.

As awesome as it is to get laid on the first night, sometimes it pays off to have to "earn" it. Sometimes in ways that you don't even realize till they happen.

slut.

I HATE this type of thinking.
If a girl is a slut for sleeping with you the day you met her then you're a slut to bitch. She can't fuck you if you don't put your dick in her...

But you know what? Just because you slept with her the first day you met does not in any way mean she or you is a slut. Does it increase the chances that she is a "slut"? Sure, but it doesn't mean she is.

Above all of this, why is being a slut even bad? If your a guy and a slut you generally get a reputation boost (Obviously depending on lots of variables but I'm talking in a largely general sense) for being bad ass and cool but noooo if your a girl your dirty and low. You have to sleep with a lot of girls in a small amount of time before people will start trashing you when your a guy. Things like this make me hate this society.

There's nothing wrong with sex, just stay as safe as possible and this is much harder to do when you fuck often with different partners but do what you want, just try not to hurt anybody in the process.

That's just how it is..I actually had to think about after I made this thread, like how am I gonna call her a slut for fucking on the first day when I did the same shit, but whatever. I agree with the other poster, if you start a relationship after that, it does cross your mind if she will do it behind your back..I think it's that way because woman hold more power when it comes to having sex

Why would I think of her as a slut?

It's already happened, about a year ago. Just wanted to get some opinions from other people..As how it turned out? we dated for 7 months and it didnt work out because she had to talk to her exes, so just getting an opinion :)

So you were the insecure on in the relationship?

I'm not complaining, I don't view her as a slut, I was just getting peoples opinions on this..

This is the same girl who said I will fuck anyone, and when she says that I just remind her, "well you fucked me on the first day" :)

If I get pussy on the first day i'm happy..but sometimes you have to worry if she does that alot, but I guess you could call me a hypocrite

You sound like a typical asshole. Throwing it back in her face...what a loser.

I HATE this type of thinking.
If a girl is a slut for sleeping with you the day you met her then you're a slut to bitch. She can't fuck you if you don't put your dick in her...

But you know what? Just because you slept with her the first day you met does not in any way mean she or you is a slut. Does it increase the chances that she is a "slut"? Sure, but it doesn't mean she is.

Above all of this, why is being a slut even bad? If your a guy and a slut you generally get a reputation boost (Obviously depending on lots of variables but I'm talking in a largely general sense) for being bad ass and cool but noooo if your a girl your dirty and low. You have to sleep with a lot of girls in a small amount of time before people will start trashing you when your a guy. Things like this make me hate this society.

There's nothing wrong with sex, just stay as safe as possible and this is much harder to do when you fuck often with different partners but do what you want, just try not to hurt anybody in the process.

It's because sex motivates men and women in different ways, which is why it carries different stigmas.

That's just how it is..I actually had to think about after I made this thread, like how am I gonna call her a slut for fucking on the first day when I did the same shit, but whatever. I agree with the other poster, if you start a relationship after that, it does cross your mind if she will do it behind your back..I think it's that way because woman hold more power when it comes to having sex

You're wrong, men and women in the long run are on equal grounds when it comes to power in a sexual relationship. Do what behind your back? Sleep with someone? Are you saying that you were a guy she cheated with, and then you took her as a girlfriend?

Why would I think of her as a slut?



So you were the insecure on in the relationship?



You sound like a typical asshole. Throwing it back in her face...what a loser.



It's because sex motivates men and women in different ways, which is why it carries different stigmas.



You're wrong, men and women in the long run are on equal grounds when it comes to power in a sexual relationship. Do what behind your back? Sleep with someone? Are you saying that you were a guy she cheated with, and then you took her as a girlfriend?

No, i'm saying if she was so quick to jump on me, what if she did some other dude when I was with her..It's just a thought, and it would be natural to cross any mans mind.

No, i'm saying if she was so quick to jump on me, what if she did some other dude when I was with her..It's just a thought, and it would be natural to cross any mans mind.

It isn't natural to a secure man's mind. Ever think that she jumped on you so quickly because she liked you? If you are going to spend your time worrying whether or not your girlfriend is out sleeping with a bunch of guys, you are doomed.

What makes you think she wouldn't think that you would go after the next girl to walk by?
No matter how a relationship starts, I think trust is one of the biggest foundations for a healthy relationship.

It isn't natural to a secure man's mind. Ever think that she jumped on you so quickly because she liked you? If you are going to spend your time worrying whether or not your girlfriend is out sleeping with a bunch of guys, you are doomed.

my mind isnt secure as yours, it takes time for me to trust a girl, thats how i am. I can trust, but in time

my mind isnt secure as yours, it takes time for me to trust a girl, thats how i am. I can trust, but in time

Of course it takes time to trust someone, however there is an initial amount of trust that you have to start with in a relationship. How are you going to say you don't trust her around other guys, and will only trust her if she doesn't cheat on you in say the next two years...

I mean does that seem unfair to you? The point isn't how secure you are with yourself, the point is becoming MORE secure with yourself by working towards goals, and by realizing what you want out of life. It's obvious you want a faithful girlfriend, so why don't you present her with your concerns and see what she says. Then report back here. :-)

Of course it takes time to trust someone, however there is an initial amount of trust that you have to start with in a relationship. How are you going to say you don't trust her around other guys, and will only trust her if she doesn't cheat on you in say the next two years...

I mean does that seem unfair to you? The point isn't how secure you are with yourself, the point is becoming MORE secure with yourself by working towards goals, and by realizing what you want out of life. It's obvious you want a faithful girlfriend, so why don't you present her with your concerns and see what she says. Then report back here. :-)

I think it was just the girl + me alittle..I mean I had reasons to not fully trust her(I wont go into detail unless needed)..and this was the same girl I fucked the first day(yay were BOTH sluts)anyways that relationship didnt work, ok lets move on..

Now i'm in a relationship, and I trust her more than I have trusted any girl in my life!

ok ok so the fact that she is a virgin has SOMETHING to do with it..whatever..I have admitted I have issues, but hey i admitted them right? that means Im willing to correct them..the past is the fuckin past and im building everything on now and the future and I feel like im off to a good start as far as the trust thing goes..TRUST IS HUGE, I agree and thats what failed my past relationships

I think it was just the girl + me alittle..I mean I had reasons to not fully trust her(I wont go into detail unless needed)..and this was the same girl I fucked the first day(yay were BOTH sluts)anyways that relationship didnt work, ok lets move on..

Now i'm in a relationship, and I trust her more than I have trusted any girl in my life!

ok ok so the fact that she is a virgin has SOMETHING to do with it..whatever..I have admitted I have issues, but hey i admitted them right? that means Im willing to correct them..the past is the fuckin past and im building everything on now and the future and I feel like im off to a good start as far as the trust thing goes..TRUST IS HUGE, I agree and thats what failed my past relationships

A lot of guys get really protective over virgins, do not become blinded by her virginity. In the end you'll end up crushing her heart when you realize that the chemistry was never there.

A lot of guys get really protective over virgins, do not become blinded by her virginity. In the end you'll end up crushing her heart when you realize that the chemistry was never there.

I feel chemistry, its not just that she is a virgin..I mean to me meeting a virgin at my age(22), is crazy and I respect that alot of her..

WHy you complicate me? lol why cant i love the fact that she is a virgin and like her for her?!?!?!?

I feel chemistry, its not just that she is a virgin..I mean to me meeting a virgin at my age(22), is crazy and I respect that alot of her..

WHy you complicate me? lol why cant i love the fact that she is a virgin and like her for her?!?!?!?

Well it's pretty clear that you are about to form a death grip on her because you are sooooo in love with the fact she hasn't fucked any other men. That is extremely appealing to guys, and a lot of guys go ape shit over virgins. To be the first, and that is why you are going to end up smothering her, and hurting her.

Well it's pretty clear that you are about to form a death grip on her because you are sooooo in love with the fact she hasn't fucked any other men. That is extremely appealing to guys, and a lot of guys go ape shit over virgins. To be the first, and that is why you are going to end up smothering her, and hurting her.

OH MY MOTHERFUCKING GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Carbon's actually semi-right for once.

Apart from that thing about no-one loving me.
We all knew that already.

OH MY MOTHERFUCKING GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Carbon's actually semi-right for once.

Apart from that thing about no-one loving me.
We all knew that already.

::|:-)

I like Carbon's posts lately, they're less "piss everyone off" flame posts and more "I disagree!" or devil's advocate posts, depending on the thread it seems.

^ Truth. In general anyways and yes depending on the topic. Though he is also entitled to his opinion and sometimes his opinion will piss people off like anyone else's.

Yesterday I had pretty good conversations between us in a bunch of different topics. I'm enjoying it.

Anyways he's right again here but i didn't feel like a simple "QFT".

I don't know I never go on dates. I usually hook up with girls at parties.

Dates are for fags.

Dates are for fags.

Dates are for 1950s fuckheads.

Uh oh, he is reinforcing my good behavior!!!!!! :P

^ Truth. In general anyways and yes depending on the topic. Though he is also entitled to his opinion and sometimes his opinion will piss people off like anyone else's.

Yesterday I had pretty good conversations between us in a bunch of different topics. I'm enjoying it.

Anyways he's right again here but i didn't feel like a simple "QFT".

I mean, you don't want to seem like you are showing TOO much interest, right? :P

Dates are for fags.

Lol, right....

Dates are for 1950s fuckheads.

Fo sho.

Fucking drag racing, drive-in frequenting, milkshake drinking greasers!

Lol, right....

They are!

And so is sex...

http://www.sexisforfags.com/

That is extremely appealing to guys, and a lot of guys go ape shit over virgins. .

this is bullshit everyone i talk to assumes virgins wont know what theyre doing or ill be "too tight"

She's a slut if she fucks a ton of guys the first night she meets them.

And a man who does that he's a manwhore.

She's a slut if she fucks a ton of guys the first night she meets them.

And a man who does that is a pimp.

fixed for truth.

fixed for truth.

only if he has standards.

this is bullshit everyone i talk to assumes virgins wont know what theyre doing or ill be "too tight"

Hey, who has an insiders view of men, you the virgin, or me the man? Alright then, you probably will be inexperienced and the sex will suck at first, doesn't mean men won't cherish the value of a virgin. Which is usually being "untainted".

I mean, you don't want to seem like you are showing TOO much interest, right? :P


Your posts aren't that much better lol :P

Hey, who has an insiders view of men, you the virgin, or me the man? Alright then, you probably will be inexperienced and the sex will suck at first, doesn't mean men won't cherish the value of a virgin. Which is usually being "untainted".

SUP FAT ASS

Hey, who has an insiders view of men, you the virgin, or me the man? Alright then, you probably will be inexperienced and the sex will suck at first, doesn't mean men won't cherish the value of a virgin. Which is usually being "untainted".

i will not suck at sex, i watch tons of porn. ill be better at it than most people

Your posts aren't that much better lol :P

Lol, I can only care for so long, this is the internet after all! :)

i will not suck at sex, i watch tons of porn. ill be better at it than most people

Right....and playing Grand Theft Auto makes you a professional thug.

SUP FAT ASS

What's up fan #1,252!?!?!!!?!?! :-P

i will not suck at sex, i watch tons of porn. ill be better at it than most people

LMFAO!
Wow... you have a big surprise headed your way, well, if you're going to get laid anyways...

That's like saying because you read lots of stuff online about coding a website using HTML, XHTML, CSS, PHP, etc. that you'll be able to jump into every website development program from Dreamweaver to M$Expression Web
and write an amazing website without any practice. No, masturbation doesn't count as practice for this, in this metaphor masturbation is more like having a better memory for reading text or being able to stay up late, which may help but it's not real practice.

You're going to need to actually write some code, test it out, change it when it's not optimal, etc...

EDIT: FUCK! I forgot you were a girl, the above metaphor was more for guys, but you should get the idea. BTW CarbonB was right AGAIN, being a virgin might make you suck in bed at first but that won't make your virginity less appealing to most guys. Think of it this way, lot's of employers enjoy finding someone with no experience with a certain job because then they don't get confused with the difference from how their last job liked things done with how the new job wants them done. The employer gets to train them exactly to their needs.

Aside from the metaphor, being to tight could be a good thing for some guys because while yes, it might (Too tight is kind of rare, but pretty tight is perfect) take a bit to work into, you won't stretch bigger then them, at least until you find a new cock.

You won't "stretch" at all if you do kegels.(which I do)

Yeah Im not gonna suck I masturbate and do deep throating exercises everyday so Im not gonna suck.

Ok, you won't suck.

AFAIK the whole "stretching" thing happens most of the time but yeah you can remain tight as fuck doing kegels(SP?)

How else could a virgin go from "too tight" to something that isn't?