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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-05-22, 06:40
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BondageNinja 
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What am I supposed to do?
Alright, I never though i'd be asking for relationship help on &T but I really just don't know what to do.
Recently my girlfriend and I..well ex i guess, have been having issues concerning drug use, mine to be precise. she always bitches and complains about me smoking pot ad thats all that i had done at that point. she recently found out that i did E and has nonstop been tearing me apart about it. she broke up with me because of it and has been making me feel like complete shit, making me absolutely hate myself over it. then tonight, she comes out and tells me that she did cocaine, mushrooms and extasy. on top of that awhile back, when she found out that i had finger fucked my ex she flipped shit about it. she also told me tonight that she let a guy 4 years older than her do a line of coke off her tits. she appologized and is begging me to forgive her for this.
im sorry if im not being coherent but im really stressed and im trying really hard to make it all make sense.
I love this girl guys, but i dont know what to do, please, help.
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#2
 2008-05-22, 10:23
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Fza 
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Re: What am I supposed to do?
I think you should continue this stable relationship, you're both clearly made for each other. Don't listen to the naysayers, hiding drug use and adultery for each other is perfectly natural, honesty is for people who have nothing to hide.
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#3
 2008-05-22, 11:15
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WorldFamous 
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Re: What am I supposed to do?
Tell her to fuck off. Girls who play the escalating "well if you did that, I did THIS" game aren't worth the trouble.
Although it might be worth persevering just so you can do a line off her tits and high five her afterwards. :D
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#4
 2008-05-22, 13:31
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Strakynyar Krongoth 
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Re: What am I supposed to do?
Right, so she feels that doing drugs is bad. She doesn't do them any more. She sees you doing them and gets upset. This bit all makes sense. In fact, it's perfectly normal. Our parents have tried many things they'd never willingly let us try.
What doesn't stand is that she never told you why. She never mentioned that she did worse than you, used to toy with guys by teasing them to make them want to fuck her by getting them to snort coke off her tits and then fucking them. You can believe that she fucked them or you can not believe that. My experience with girls that are a lot less bad than the one you describe is that they did fuck him and their lying to you. So I believe she did.
They will always lie to you. There is ALWAYS something girls like that are keeping from you.
It's that keeping of such a terrible secret from you, in order to save your feelings, that allows them to pretend to themselves that their good people really and think that their martyrs.
Their not. Their shit.
Don't bother with her again. Find something better to fill your time with, especially other people.
Although it might be worth persevering just so you can do a line off her tits and high five her afterwards. :D
If your going to do that, why not just stick a mound of it on each nipple, squish the two next to each other and fill both nostrils at once?
Aaa, fun!
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#5
 2008-05-22, 19:51
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NiGhT PrOwLeR 
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Re: What am I supposed to do?
man if I found out my girl did coke
I'd get fucked up on every drug I could
and have a ho rail some blow off my
dick
Its perfectly normal. Trust me brother
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#6
 2008-05-23, 04:47
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Re: What am I supposed to do?
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Originally Posted by Fza
I think you should continue this stable relationship, you're both clearly made for each other. Don't listen to the naysayers, hiding drug use and adultery for each other is perfectly natural, honesty is for people who have nothing to hide.
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nice post.
I agree with him, with all the sarcasm incuded.
But seriousely, you're at the point now where there's just going to be too much pain and complete mistrust between the two of you. It just can't work out because of the hurtful past. Short-term anyways.
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#7
 2008-05-23, 04:52
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Flannery 
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Re: What am I supposed to do?
your ex is crazy and dumb. find a better girl.
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