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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-05-22, 06:23
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Macdaddy4738 
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How to get her to give it up?
Ive been dating this girl for 9 months now and we STILL havent had sex.
Shes 18, and a virgin. We've done everything else (best head EVEEEER). We've been close, but havent yet, and honestly its getting a little annoying. She says shes wants to after she graduates in June, but honestly Im not holding much hope for this.
Im guessing theres no way to really get her to, I guess I just have to work with her demands on this one?
And before anyone says anything, I do love her, which is WHY ive been with her for so long without any sex.
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#2
 2008-05-22, 06:55
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
Just wait man, It'll come. I had to wait over a year for my last girlfirend. If you love her, just have patience, I know it sounds stupid and I know it takes a LOT a patience to wait for 9 months, but trust me, I've been there, It'll happen.
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#3
 2008-05-22, 06:56
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
Rape the bitch, yo.
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#4
 2008-05-22, 07:14
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
Just try not think about how hardcore she's gonna slut out at college.
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#5
 2008-05-22, 07:33
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Macdaddy4738 
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
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Originally Posted by genericwittyusername
Just try not think about how hardcore she's gonna slut out at college.
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To be honest, I dont think she will. My last ex totally did, but she was a partier to begin with.
My girl now doesnt have many friends because she just kinda hates people, as do i. She doesnt drink or go to parties...
I just dont want to think about the whole college situation now, its gonna be difficult, but I think I can trust her.
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#6
 2008-05-22, 10:09
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Kimness 
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
To be honest, I dont think she will. My last ex totally did, but she was a partier to begin with.
My girl now doesnt have many friends because she just kinda hates people, as do i. She doesnt drink or go to parties...
I just dont want to think about the whole college situation now, its gonna be difficult, but I think I can trust her.
Haha, she sounds like me *hates everybody* except that I lost my virginity at 15. Anywho.
If you love the girl, wait for her. If you're getting oral out of her, then there shouldn't be much of an issue. Sex is great and all, but it's not the be all end all of a relationship if you have other ways to bond (which at 9 months, I'm sure you do. You'll get there eventually :)
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#7
 2008-05-22, 10:13
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
She'll suck your dick but she won't let you fuck her??
She sounds like a real epitome of chastity and virtue... 
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#8
 2008-05-22, 11:11
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
have you tried talking to her about it?
what are her reasons?
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#9
 2008-05-22, 11:13
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
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Originally Posted by gadzooks
She'll suck your dick but she won't let you fuck her??
She sounds like a real epitome of chastity and virtue... 
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i <3 u
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#10
 2008-05-22, 11:19
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
I could do it.
I mean i love my woman in many ways, but without sex i couldnt keep the love on flowing.
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#11
 2008-05-22, 19:15
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
Ask her whats up?
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#12
 2008-05-23, 01:01
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superspeedz 
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
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Originally Posted by Macdaddy4738
Ive been dating this girl for 9 months now and we STILL havent had sex.
Shes 18, and a virgin. We've done everything else (best head EVEEEER). We've been close, but havent yet, and honestly its getting a little annoying. She says shes wants to after she graduates in June, but honestly Im not holding much hope for this.
Im guessing theres no way to really get her to, I guess I just have to work with her demands on this one?
And before anyone says anything, I do love her, which is WHY ive been with her for so long without any sex.
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man seduction you have to get her way way way hornier than you are, till the point where she's in the moment and begs for it.
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#13
 2008-05-23, 01:52
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
Dude just chill and don't worry about it. IMHO blowjobs are just as good if not better than sex, especially if she lets you come on her face. If you're a virgin too and your eager to have some sex then fair play, but wait and if she doesn't make good on her promise to do so after graduations lose her. When she asks why, tell her the truth, she broke a promise.
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#14
 2008-05-23, 02:02
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
That's sad. You're already pussy whipped and you haven't even gotten any. Grow a set.
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#15
 2008-05-23, 02:07
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
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Originally Posted by gadzooks
She'll suck your dick but she won't let you fuck her??
She sounds like a real epitome of chastity and virtue... 
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You're the sole reason I have faith in Canadians.
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#16
 2008-05-23, 02:30
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Dissed 
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
why is she waiting? whats the point? shes already giving you oral?
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#17
 2008-05-23, 02:36
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
I'm in the same boat, my girl is a virgin(im not) and I wanna pop that cherry, keep in mind im not getting any, the chickens are not plucking around here
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#18
 2008-05-23, 02:40
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PieGirl 
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
Haha
I went out with someone for 2 years
from when I was 14 until I was 16
And we never had sex :D
if she wants to wait
and you don't
then just get over it or find someone else..
or get wasted
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#19
 2008-05-23, 02:45
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Dissed 
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
Whats The Point Of Waiting Though? ^
She Already Gives Him Head
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#20
 2008-05-23, 02:55
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
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Originally Posted by Dissed
Whats The Point Of Waiting Though? ^
She Already Gives Him Head
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What the fuck's the point of capitalizing the first letter of every word? I've never understood why some people do that.
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#21
 2008-05-23, 03:52
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
Yeah, it reminds me of those bands that make their song titles long sentences that often make no sense.
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#22
 2008-05-23, 04:29
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Dissed 
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
What the fuck's the point of capitalizing the first letter of every word? I've never understood why some people do that.
I actually typed it in all caps but totse turns it into all capital first letters.
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#23
 2008-05-23, 04:32
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
...How the hell do I end up getting sex within the first 4 weeks of all my relationships? I'm not bragging or anything... I'd just like a decent girl.
Although my girlfriend now is excellent, and I think we had sex so quickly because I'm that good of a guy. She's always had shitty relationships prior, then I come along, always understanding and never quick to temper.
OK, so I bet after 9 months is frustrating, but hey! You have a keeper... for now. Sex can ruin a relationship or can be a healthy part of it.
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#24
 2008-05-23, 04:55
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Dissed 
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
thats nothing to brag about. i dont see why women would reluctant to have sex at all.
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#25
 2008-05-23, 14:28
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Anywhere, except for now.
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Re: How to get her to give it up?
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Originally Posted by iSoape
...How the hell do I end up getting sex within the first 4 weeks of all my relationships? I'm not bragging or anything... I'd just like a decent girl.
Although my girlfriend now is excellent, and I think we had sex so quickly because I'm that good of a guy. She's always had shitty relationships prior, then I come along, always understanding and never quick to temper.
OK, so I bet after 9 months is frustrating, but hey! You have a keeper... for now. Sex can ruin a relationship or can be a healthy part of it.
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Thats how it is with my current girl. She and I've both been in shitty relationships in the past. Everything just seems so great with us. I'm the in between guy. I'm an asshole, but I can be sensitive when the time calls for it. She's always apologizing for little things and I tell her there's no need to, and she says that I'm so understanding.
We've had sex several times, and we've only been together for a month today. Although she's paranoid now about pregnancy, so we are waiting until after she's on birth control. Anywho, If you guys love each other, it'll happen. Just gotta make sure you guys are both physically and mentally ready. She's gotta be in the mood or it'll ruin the experience and you can end a perfectly good relationship.
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