lets say a guy calls you for the first time. you see him like other every week but never hung out with him for too long. then both of your peer groups meet up and chill after you tell him where you are and tell him to come along. you ask him if he wants to chill and do drugs within a few days and he says he will call you on that day and his place is available. is it more attractive if he calls you like he said or expects you to call him?

my jackass of a friend asked me this and I don't know how to answer him.

who gives a fuck if you get high whos gonna remember who called who

Whoever did the inviting should do the calling. You don't just invite people to hang out sometime and then expect them to chase you down to make plans.

u didnt read it right.

Well he said he'd call you. So he'll probably call you.

no no no....thats not it what i meant. the guy who im asking the question for wants to know what to do. if he should call or wait for the call...

Oh, well in that case.

Well he said he'd call your friend. So he'll probably call your friend.

Fix'd.

But really, it make no difference.

Oh, well in that case.



Fix'd.

But really, it make no difference.

so the guy who said he was gonna call the girl shouldn't call and wait for her to call him instead?

He should call; if he doesn't he's being a douche.

so the guy who said he was gonna call the girl shouldn't call and wait for her to call him instead?

What the fuck. Maybe you're terrible at fucking writing, but the OP seemed like it was from your friend's point of view, being asked by some dude to do drugs.

If you ask someone, of course you call them when you say you do. Why the fuck wouldn't you?

seriously? or are you being sarcastic?

its not as so much him not wanting to be a douche...its that he fears that if he stalls she might think hes not interested in w.e...therefore giving no more chances

It's just seems like the polite thing to do. I think it's kind of silly to initiate plans and then not follow through; it will make him seem like he wasn't serious about hanging out and she'll think he's a flake.

What the fuck. Maybe you're terrible at fucking writing, but the OP seemed like it was from your friend's point of view, being asked by some dude to do drugs.

If you ask someone, of course you call them when you say you do. Why the fuck wouldn't you?

I been reading too much of David Deangelo and his logic has me all screwed up upstairs cuz i got so used to catering to female logic that i got confused.

I been reading too much of David Deangelo and his logic has me all screwed up upstairs cuz i got so used to catering to female logic that i got confused.

Oh okay. Well, he should call. Calling won't disrupt anything as long as he's got the cocky comedy thing Dave talks about going. If he calls her, then he's still calling the shots. Not that it matters overly.

I been reading too much of David Deangelo and his logic has me all screwed up upstairs cuz i got so used to catering to female logic that i got confused.

Do you want to know the biggest tip ever? Those books are crap.

Treat a girl like a human being instead of like they're some mythical creature that needs to be figured out. Hot girls are used to guys treating them like trophies to be won, but treating her with same treatment you would a male friend will set you apart .

so this Silverfuck no longer holds?

so this Silverfuck no longer holds?

What?

Do you want to know the biggest tip ever? Those books are crap.

Treat a girl like a human being instead of like they're some mythical creature that needs to be figured out. Hot girls are used to guys treating them like trophies to be won, but treating her with same treatment you would a male friend will set you apart .

they are not being treated like mythical creatures. all they are are human beings with drastiacally different styles of communication from men.

my freind is male and he calls me everyday. im still his freind. if you call a girl everyday then she will be be your "friend".

What?

the first thing you told me about the one doing the inviting being the one to call...is that now void?

No? I haven't changed my advice.

I just think the whole 'what do I do, she's a GIRL?!' mentality is silly. If you offered to hang out, you should call and do it. You shouldn't hold off or change your actions based on the fact that she pees sitting down.

its based on the fact that he's trying to nail her so he has to seem important and attractive. attraction is not a choice, its something you cause to happen in a woman. thats all.

and how hasn't it changed first you said she should call since she invited him and now you say he should call lol

I must have misread the OP. Whoopsy daisy; it is late after all.

Well, whoever did the inviting should call. That's what I meant to say :)

Who ever said they were going to do something should do it.

Yeah, failure to carry your words into actions is a big turn off.

Do you want to know the biggest tip ever? Those books are crap.

Treat a girl like a human being instead of like they're some mythical creature that needs to be figured out. Hot girls are used to guys treating them like trophies to be won, but treating her with same treatment you would a male friend will set you apart .

Actually you could argue that that's exactly what DYD books are telling you to do.