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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2008-05-18, 18:04
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right, so I've been seeing this girl. everythings going great she loves to fuck and cuddle which is great, right?
thing is, she doesn't wanna come when I fuck her. or something.
see when I fuck her she gets really loud, sems to be really enjoying herself, then she starts talking about how she feels like she's peeing and she gets me to stop for a bit before I continue.
what is this.
also when I was fingering her she's about to come and she stops me again, I ask her why. she says "because"

women. wtf?
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Old 2008-05-18, 18:09
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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Originally Posted by Awkibo
right, so I've been seeing this girl. everythings going great she loves to fuck and cuddle which is great, right?
thing is, she doesn't wanna come when I fuck her. or something.
see when I fuck her she gets really loud, sems to be really enjoying herself, then she starts talking about how she feels like she's peeing and she gets me to stop for a bit before I continue.
what is this.
also when I was fingering her she's about to come and she stops me again, I ask her why. she says "because"

women. wtf?


This sounds like a relatively common case of retroglide ejaculation.
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Old 2008-05-18, 18:19
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second star to the right.
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retroglide ejaculation.

wat?

5char.
 #4 
Old 2008-05-18, 18:25
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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wat?

5char.

She could be a squirter like my ex. My ex never wanted to come because she'd spray everywhere and we'd have to have a good laugh about it afterwards. But, then things would be SOAKED in love-juice.
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Old 2008-05-18, 18:44
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Originally Posted by Awkibo
right, so I've been seeing this girl. everythings going great she loves to fuck and cuddle which is great, right?
thing is, she doesn't wanna come when I fuck her. or something.
see when I fuck her she gets really loud, sems to be really enjoying herself, then she starts talking about how she feels like she's peeing and she gets me to stop for a bit before I continue.
what is this.
also when I was fingering her she's about to come and she stops me again, I ask her why. she says "because"

women. wtf?


next time she tells you to stop, go harder and faster and prepare for the glorious flood
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Old 2008-05-18, 18:49
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next time she tells you to stop, go harder and faster and prepare for the glorious flood

yeah, to bad she scrunches her legs together, and to continue after she says "STOP" is kinda a social faux pas
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Old 2008-05-18, 18:51
H4T3 H4T3 is offline
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yeah, to bad she scrunches her legs together, and to continue after she says "STOP" is kinda a social faux pas

PUSSSSSYYYYYYY
 #8 
Old 2008-05-18, 18:58
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DONT WORRY ABOUT IT.
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get on top and just hold her down and FINISH HER, thats bs man sounds almost like your complaining because of it....id suggest your ontop of some trash sheets/blankets just in case.
 #9 
Old 2008-05-18, 18:59
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Do her in the shower. Nothing beats easy clean up.
 #10 
Old 2008-05-18, 19:06
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totse
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Have her pee before having sex with her?
 #11 
Old 2008-05-18, 19:20
moonmeister moonmeister is offline
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"Don't make me cum! 'Cause then I'll get really hung up on you." EEK! :(
 #12 
Old 2008-05-18, 20:03
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Congrats, you got a squirter there man. She's obviously not comfortable doing that around you, and for good reason since you didn't know even with the key phrase "feels like peeing". Just bring it up and tell her you know what's up and think it's hot so she won't be embarrassed about it.
 #13 
Old 2008-05-18, 22:56
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I had the exact same thing happen with my girlfriend. Every time she came close to coming she would tell me to stop because she felt like she had to pee even though she went right before we had sex. After numerous attempts I finally was able to convince her to just let it go and low and behold she was a squirter.
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Old 2008-05-19, 04:30
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Istanbul, Turkey
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A lot of girls aren't comfortable with the sensation of orgasm if they're inexperienced. She needs to masturbate and understand how her body works and be comfortable with how orgasm feels. It doesn't necessarily mean she's a squirter, although it could. If she's young then she probably just isnt' comfortable with how orgasm feels.

You shouldn't keep going when she says no, because she could call rape on you. What you need to do is get her to let you keep going.

Try it in the shower or put down a towel, so that way she can feel more comfortable if she does squirt. Eventually she'll get used to how it feels, and life will be good.
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Old 2008-05-19, 05:10
VenaticalOne VenaticalOne is offline
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Have her pee before having sex with her?


correct, this is a common things for girls to feel, just have her piss before you have sex so that she knows her bladder is empty and tell her she needs to feel comfortable with that feeling and give in to it or she wont be able to cum. she most likely wont squirt or anything and almost definitely wont actually piss at all, they just need to go with the feeling or it makes it near impossible for them to cum.
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Old 2008-05-20, 00:27
ViperX202 ViperX202 is offline
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next time she tells you to stop, go harder and faster and prepare for the glorious flood

lolol that was funny man

Viper
 #17 
Old 2008-05-20, 00:48
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next time she tells you to stop, go harder and faster and prepare for the glorious flood

Calm down Moses.
 #18 
Old 2008-05-20, 01:07
MongolianThroatCancer MongolianThroatCancer is offline
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Calm down Moses.

you're thinking of noah retard
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Old 2008-05-20, 01:34
crazy hazy vermonter crazy hazy vermonter is offline
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you're thinking of noah retard


TRUE 5CHAR
 #20 
Old 2008-05-20, 02:16
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you're thinking of noah retard

fuck off.

he was talking about Aristotle, and it wasn't even that funny.

so I think I'll just tell her to piss before we fuck, easiest and simplest solution.
 #21 
Old 2008-05-20, 03:47
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Istanbul, Turkey
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you're thinking of noah retard

Moses parted the Red Sea. So, it counts if she's bleeding.
 #22 
Old 2008-05-20, 03:51
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All of a sudden things make sense on my side of the fence... so that's why she makes me stop, huh? Now I'm REALLY going to have a fun time in bed.
 #23 
Old 2008-05-20, 08:23
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It doesn't mean you got a squirter. Needing to pee comes with g-spot stimulation. It can be really hard to get over the fear of
actually peeing on a guy. I never let my bf finish off when he went down on me for that reason.
 #24 
Old 2008-05-20, 10:39
Defekt Defekt is offline
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If your boyfriend licks your Gspot he must be a CHAMP.
 #25 
Old 2008-05-20, 12:42
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He said fingering and sex. Confused
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Old 2008-05-20, 15:59
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next time she tells you to stop, go harder and faster and prepare for the glorious flood

LOL

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