So I just got with a 19 year old virgin, who has never had a bf or a real kiss..

Now I know you must be sayin..Well she must be a Christian girl, or a pretty ugly girl.

Well the answer is neither. Shes not "ugly", shes not "skinny" but not "fat, if you could imagine, anyways, shes average.

So I'm "experienced, I have a son, I have been with partners obviously, i'm 22. How do I go about this? I don't want sex right away, because I have respect and can understand..but when I want it, what do I do?

It's not like I can just be like "hey, let's fuck" ..shes a virgin, never done it..so this is totally new to me, I need advice..

input?

Well, she obviously is a virgin for some reason, right?

Know why she is a virgin, and respect that. I wish I would have saved my virginity, but you can't go back now.

Anyway, don't go about it any other way then you normally would. She's a normal girl, except she hasnt had a dick plowing her. People put too much emphasis on the fact that people are a virgin and they kind've forget that they are normal people, they kind've put a stigma on the fact that people havn't fucked before.

If you really aren't looking for just sex, then it shouldn't be a problem. Just chill with her, cuddle her, eat her out...anything you want to, really.

I'm waaaaasted right now, so maybe you shouldn't listen to me. But just forget she's a virgin, and maybe if you care enough about her and she knows that, then things will change. But for now...just roll with it!

Have fun, go do things, chill out, relax, she's a girl who obviously has morals, and she needs to be respected for that.

But again, im wasted and don't know what I'm talking about.

But...yeah, just forget about the stigma "virgin"

HAVE FUN WITH HER!

exactly except the girl has given no vibes off as to if she ever gets horny or plays with herself..I guess my fear is getting rejected while im trying to put my hands down her pants when we're makin out..I DO want sex obviously, but im not gonna "push her"..but would love "other things" for now, just gotta get to know her more I guess

Some people just fall through the net and some just have a really really low sex drive. Might sound strange to the young men here who have to put up with perma-erections all day.

Work on being a friend and try and get her to open up to you. Maybe try getting a couple of drinks in her. For all you know she wanks herself everyday.

Like Saline said, do not go on and on about her virginity. But talk to her, really talk.

exactly except the girl has given no vibes off as to if she ever gets horny or plays with herself..I guess my fear is getting rejected while im trying to put my hands down her pants when we're makin out..I DO want sex obviously, but im not gonna "push her"..but would love "other things" for now, just gotta get to know her more I guess

Mikehunt lulz, i get it :$

Just give it a go. Take it easy and be comfortable and all that stuff but just give it a go sometime.

If she rejects you, she rejects you. You can then talk about this and find out why she did so and why she doesn't appear to want sexual relations.

You won't get anything if you don't ask.

Sexual relations? Like in " I did not have sexual relations with that woman"? Jesus wept boy, in English we say 'want to fuck'.

You want to play at being president then go to the US. You couldn't do worse than the nigger,the geriatric or the woman they've got trying to get in at the moment!

:P

Rip her a new one :)

I don't see an issue as long as you know she will have an immense connection to you after you have sex. Which is a good thing if you like to love and be loved. =]