So, me and my girlfriend were going through some problems, if you don't know what I'm talking about, check out my other thread on my girlfriend breaking up with me.

Anyways, I found out that the very next day after she broke up with me, she sends a a full nude, and a picture in this lingerie thing to a guy I know. Then about a week later, she does shit with him and fucks him. I hear from some people that apparently in 3rd hour, Theater 7/8, they were sneaking off together or just going to some alone places, while and after we were dating.

She said that sex to her doesn't mean the same as love, there's physical and emotional love, and sex is nothing compared to emotional love. In other words, sex with someone like the next day you broke up with someone you said you "loved" is considered a-ok. Then she went on to say she has needs, and then said "Why do you think a bunch of people in college would have sex with each other and think nothing of it, and not have to love the other person? that's ok" And I said "No, girls who fuck some guys just for the sake of sex are considered sluts" in which case she said "Well thanks for calling me a slut".

Anyways, that's about enough you need to know, oh and this guy was a friend of mine and it's pretty shitty of him to do this too, apparently he was doin' the "Oh yeah we can get together and everything it would be great!" to get into her pants, then went after his ex afterwards.

Do you guys consider this a slutty move or what?

Yeah it's pretty slutty. I'm pretty sure she wasn't fucking him thinking "oh i wonder how my ex-boyfriend feels?"

Shes just giving her excuse to why she's a whore. A lot of girls are and they fail when they try to have a relationship.

Yeah I don't even know what to say about all this. I really am in shock and at a loss for words, eh.

Emotional love and physical love can be different, contrary to what you might believe. Females tend to see sex and love more separately than males do, while men tend to see them as fundamentally connected.

E.g. A woman would usually feel worse if she thought her partner was falling in love with someone else, rather than just having a fling. Men tend to think the opposite way.

I'm kind of drunk right now and can't articulate my thoughts any better than this, sorry.

She's obviously been planning this for a while.

I think she's trying to justify an infatuation, as apposed to casual sex or "Love".

She's also probably trying to justify it with you in case she wants to date you again as a back up.

If I were you I would play the same game she's at and bang some honies.

OR, and hear me out on this, get over her and just forget about her. The best thing you could do for yourself is not let this impact your thoughts or actions. Act as if your independent and nothing is swaying your motions.

QFMFT.

Slutty and manipulative?

It sounds as though you're better off without her.

Why are you still talking to her, by the way?

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I think you are ;) How blatant do i have to be?

kill that bitch....no seriously just forget the ho....fo sho