My girlfriend complained when we were trying to go for a quickie I last too long. I thought I had alright stamina, we were going at it for 15mins and I know it felt like nothing. In all honesty I am not trying to brag, this is serious. I'm just curious on how to last shorter when you are trying to do pull a quickie. Advice?

Change positions.

Cock ring.

Drugs.

-N-

Wow. The same thing JUST happened to me like...right now.

I don't know man. Mine's probably worse than yours though. We just went for 45 minutes, and then I got a blowjob for the rest. It STILL wasn't sufficing, so I had to try and finish myself off, and I couldn't even do it. I just sat on the edge of my climax for most of it, without being able to go over the brink.

'Tis a curse indeed :(

-relax, as someone on totse once told me "the watched pot does not boil"
-don't masturbate
-don't put a huge emphasis on it, like "omg omg i have to come omg omg", just have fun
-relax
-make sure your girlfriend isn't being all "omg can he not come because of me I must be so ugly omg I can't believe my boyfriend hates me"

This has happened to be a few times and I usually completley stop for about 15 seconds, then it's more sensitive when you start again and orgasms ensue. =]

This man knows. Well, I assume he does. I don't have a penis or anything so I can't say for sure. But it sounds right!

This man knows. Well, I assume he does. I don't have a penis or anything so I can't say for sure.

lies. the rest is true tho

Breathe harder and faster.

When I worry about coming quickly and think, "uhoh, here it comes too early..." ill come early. But, If I don't care and I am trying, I can last forever. Backwards.

it aint nuthin but a thang....

when i'm on the brink i know whats holding me back....its my thoughts of what she may be thinking...

i just tell her it feels really good and sometimes i will grab her n kiss her while she jacks me off...

something about making out while getting jacked off does it for me.


but durring sex its like missionary...check....girl on top...check....funky position....check....doggystyle....OOHHH AHHH OHOHOHHHHHHH

I dont know if this is terrible or not but.

go to some sex story site, literotica.com is the best I think and look for some crazy kinky story that REALLY does it for you. Masturbate to it a few time, just get to know it, Do this for a few short stories.

Then, when your having sex, enjoy yourself, have fun, get close but then .. if you want to last longer, think about puppies, or the laundry, or whatever you do to last logner..

and if you want to get off quick, think of that story, think of the girl your with IN that story, basically role play and she dont know about it. Its all a mind game.

My wife and I's 'quicky' record is clothed -> sex -> cleanup -> clothed in 6 minutes.

Doesn't that make you last longer?

stop beating off
if you know you got some sex coming up , say like on a weekend, dont beat off for like 3-4 days before hand

Do something that turns you on extremely, think more about cumming and how hott she looks/sounds while moaning on your dick. Works for me.