This has been going on for a good few months now, and is starting to worry me more everyday.

I don't seem to care much about women anymore. When a woman does take my fancy, i don't take much interest in her at all. I can't help but thinking 6 months ago I would have shown much more enthusiasm, got a little giddy, and started scheming, but now a days it's very much "meh".

Masturbating has gone way down as well. I'm 20 if that helps.

Mate don't worry about it, it gives you an opportunity to place importance on other things. I have to assume it's natural. I mean, do you enjoy your new-found independence?

When you act like you don't really have an interest on women thats when theyll want you.

the australian guy knows what he's talking about....


and I need an 'ey....like fonzy used to say

I mean, do you enjoy your new-found independence?

It's not new found, I've been single for 15 months now. I enjoy my independence I guess.

Perhaps you're a homosexual.

You have a testosterone defficiency i reckon.

You're in a slump. It doesn't mean you're automatically gay, it just happens now and then. Find something productive to do, think about other stuff, and eventually you'll get back in the swing of it.
This has happened to me before. All of a sudden I just wasn't interested in guys, girls, or anyone for that matter. I thought I'd turned asexual for a minute but it went away after a while. I just didn't dwell on it.

^ That's pretty much it.

It's a thing that happens, worrying about it isn't proactive man.

bunch of faggots

Perhaps you're a homosexual.

damn I wanted to say that, oh well. shit hapens

Maybe it's not women you're bored of, so much as life. Dating and chasing girls is just another part of the daily grind, and it's easy to become melancholy when everything is the same, day in and day out.

Maybe you need a change of scenery or routine.

I find it funny that everyone thinks this is a bad thing. I feel that losing the curse of being easily manipulated by a pretty face and being led around by your penis is awesome. I hate it when my sex drive gets stronger again, but that's happening less and less.

I've moved 13 times since 2005, I don't think that's it.

I guess I'll just try and ride it through. Wondering who else has gone through similar though.

I've moved 13 times since 2005, I don't think that's it.

I guess I'll just try and ride it through. Wondering who else has gone through similar though.

I have in the past. Lately it's been quite the opposite, but I do remember having a conversation with a good mate where we both agreed we'd be much happier if we didn't have to worry about sex. It gets in the way.

I envy you a bit. All situations have a good and a bad side, the only bad I see here is that you're not getting your dick wet. Nothing that important. I'd also assume it's an ebb, not a flow.

It's sort of disorientating having your raison d'être* dissapearing on you.

*yeah, I'm pretentious on purpose

Lol, yeah it would be, that's why I'm trying to reassure you it's a natural thing. Hopefully someone who's better able will spot this thread, but if that doesn't happen and you're still worried I'd see a good doctor. They know things.

I'm currently experiencing the same thing, well I pretty much have been for just about forever. I kinda had a fucked up childhood, cry about my mommy I know so I won't get into it. Basically it negatively affected my relationships and I'm well aware of this. I spent A LOT of time by myself growing up, all during my middle school/high school years. I adapted to this so well that the thought of sharing my life with someone else seems like a foreign concept. When I would spend hours alone I used to play with my dad's guns. I'd take them apart into as many pieces as I could, then put them back together. I poured my mind over the firing process visualizing how the gas would re-cock the action. I know do engineering work for my job. I love understanding how things work. Today I can't really "fall" in love because that implies a lack of control both externally and self control. I've never fucked without a connie because the risks are far too great. When I see a female my mind kicks in, I naturally check out the tits and the face. While this process is occurring my concious mind is telling me, "this is a normal phisiological response to the stimuli in front of you right now. This is an instinct that has been bred into our species since our very beginning, it is the most natural instinct out there. The risk of this behavior is that you could get burned with a nasty disease or a child. Nothing in the entire universe can erase the fact that you fathered a child, I take that concept extremely seriously. The times I have had sex I've always pulled out, and I've always worn a condom. Even to me that seems still risky, I like overkill, overkill keeps me childless and out of handcuffs, is it a coincidence that the things that keep me out of jail and contraception devices are made out of the same material? Of all the drugs I've done in my life, nothing compares to the power and addiction of the pussy. I tend to think of myself as a recovering addict, only I still do real drugs, haha. People sacrifice all sorts of things in the name of "love", just turn on the radio. I joined this forum 6 years ago when I was still in high school. Today I'm out into the real world and couldn't be happier. I'm in the process of getting my own house and starting a great career. I buy all my own things and am always thinking about my goals in life, trying to make that paper. Unfortunately many people tend to compromise those goals to accomodate a relationship, I luckily do not have that problem. All the things normally done only by couples like home and vehicle purchases, I am simply doing myself. I've never had a serious girlfriend even, aside from getting pussy what's the real benefit? Everyone can get pussy, people starving in africa still manage to pop out a few kids into their shithole existence. In doing so they fuck those kids over and put the burden on us.

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I'm experiencing something similar - any feelings that I get for a girl get pushed to the back very quickly, my justification being that I would rather not get involved in the drama. Prior to university this wouldn't have happened at all...been going on the entire year. I reckon I'm somehow rationalising that my studies are more important than the bullshit that accompanies my rampaging around the dating scene.

Shrug. I save money on dates.

So damned true. Every time I see a good looking girl that I romanticize in my mind (wow she looks smart, she looks etc) I feel good that I am not her fucking slave, forget about her and go on with my life. If you fall for every girl you see you will just live a very depressing life of let-downs. I only fall for girls I am sure i can win, and they never are able to manipulate.

you guys are so fucking hardcore


LETS ALL DIE ANGRY AND ALONE

Nothing in the entire universe can erase the fact that you fathered a child

Actually, murder/suicide in the first ten weeks does wonders for that sort of thing.

LETS ALL DIE ANGRY AND ALONE

Who's angry?

I'm up for that!

We can do it together, right..?

ya but you have to hold my hand

K, totally.

Quoted for absolute fucking truth.

I pretty much came in here to say something along those lines.

Or to make a gay joke... :p

Rabbitweed, you filthy sodomite! ;)

EDIT: my mojo appears to be back!

Now I am back to being frustrated and dissapointed, yay:/

:)

I've been going through the same thing. Its getting harder for me to masturbate lately and sex just isn't that interesting to me right now. My girlfriend still turns me on and I definitely don't like guys. Its just that I don't feel like being sexual. I've been looking at a ton of porn lately hoping it'll spark something in me and make me want to be more sexual again but nothing is working. I think I'll just give up the masturbation and porn for a while and work on other things. It'll come back eventually.

Im in the same fucking boat, past relationships fucked me up, i hate that feeling when a women just leaves you, for some idiotic reason,

then you really really want to forget you ever had that relationship, but you cant forget it, it gets you that deep down inside alone feeling, like your heart is missing you know?

you want to forget it, but for some reason you cant, its like the body's instinc for some reason to get those feelings

i really really hate that feeling, i dont ever want to ever have it again, im afraid if i get into another relationship, and it ends the same way before, ill end up killing my self.


im not gay, its just makes me not ever want to have a relationship with a women again or ever get married.

i dont think id be able to stay sane if i were married and being with one person for the rest of my fucking life.

either way, i cant have kids because of an accident i had years ago that left me the chance of 0 to one percent of ever having kids.


I have a really good friend i knew a long time ago from high school, now he is my roomate.

he talks about having a wife and kids alot, he even told me once he finds a good girlfriend, he would marry her in a week after he meets her.

Then one time i told my friend about my feelings about having a relationship with women (mentioned aboved)

i thought he would understand, but he doesnt,

so now he cracks gay jokes every now and then because of what i told him. i mean,I COULD NEVER BE GAY!

i dont hate him or anything, it just bothers me that he doesnt undertsand what i have been through,

because he has never been through of what i have been through.

i dont have a lot of friends, id say he was the only good friend i ever had, it just seems like its all fading away just because i spoke my feelings about having relationships.

now it seems like im going to end up loosing a good friend,

it kind of makes me sad, depressed a little bit, kind of makes me feel empty you know?

I know how you feel, nonarky. I always thought it was best to avoid pain if you can. "Better to have loved and lost" - I'm really not that sure.

Sucks about your friend... maybe he's just joking around? I wouldn't think he'd suddenly stop being your friend over something that small!

You're not alone. Right now i'm going through a stage like this - my girlfriend is just a sex crazed machine..and i'm just happy in my own world, chilling and-a chonging..

Sex means nothing to me now. I've done it (almost) to death..it's just not the same. I need a break.

Fuck, I can't even get it up to normal porn. Women no longer interest me. I just hang out with my best man mate, and have fun there..why have women to complicate matters? When you can lie on a trampoline at night, watch the stars, get stoned and listen to some good music.

If it were a woman, you'd have to spoil her etc etc, no drugs..

although that said, I did book a 4* hotel in Brighton for my 1 year anniversary with my girl and she refused to come (selfish cunt). So i'm going with said man mate..gonna be such a laugh now..no romantic shit, just having fun..

Hooray! See? Told you it wasn't so bad.

Whenever I get depressed I lose some interest.
It goes away whenever I come back up, sometimes it's even the slight interest in a girl that will bring me up so the slight interest will turn into a full blown interest.

Don't worry about it, focus on your general mood and activities and do what makes you happy.