Here's something for y'all to laugh at, but hey, fools can hope.

A few months ago I'm adding random girls on Facebook with the idea that for every hundred I add, one might be interested in a loser like me. I was right, one did. She seemed nice and we started chatting on MSN and a while later I suggested we meet up and go do something (she lives pretty close) which she seemed good with but she was away somewhere at the time for the next week or so and I guess as my life just spiralled down for other reasons I forgot about it and didn't bother to follow it up.

I never thought about her afterwards and for about 3 months we never chatted again until 2 nights ago when I see her online. I originally thought she must've blocked/deleted me so I was pretty surprised, and even more surprised when she IM'd me.

We start talking and soon get into a pretty deep discussion (surprising considering how little we know each other) about her ex and how she screwed up so badly, even though it ended 4 months ago. She asks me if I'm with anyone and I tell her no, not since lateish last year and she asks me what happened. Long emoesque chat later, she goes offline.

So... what do I do? What *should* I do? Taking into account my own interests, obviously. She still seems pretty upset over losing him and I know that telling someone in a state like that to just 'get over him' isn't easy to hear.

Advice! Thanks...

Didn't you ask for naked pics????!!!111

What kind of totsean are you?!

This. What better way to get back at her ex than by sending naked pics to a total stranger?

Yep, hilarious.

Serious replies please... *sigh*

1). ???
2). Profit!!

That should be your general plan.

First get "a grip of drugs"
Second, put up your webcam
?????
Profit.

Or kill her. Hide the body. Problem solved.

But seriously, should I just ask her out straight away, or what? I want ansarz when I get back.

Yeah, dude, I figured that would have been REALLY obvious.

just ask her out, you might end up really clicking.

I will. I just think my chances aren't that graet since she still seems pretty attatched to him/memory.

*shrugs*

Meet her, find out if you both like each other, ??? PROFIT

The best way to get over an attachment is to meet someone new.

Just meet up with her. You don't have to ask her out immediately, do you?

ask her out to a rave or a rock show or to bomb some hills or do some drugs.

The best way to get over an attachment is to meet someone new.

Or just let it go? It IS as easy as it sounds...actually wanting to do it is a completely different matter. People like to abuse themselves. "Oh poor me! I got screwed over and hurt. Now give me your pity because my own isn't enough!"

Fucking cunts and assholes.

Or just let it go? It IS as easy as it sounds...actually wanting to do it is a completely different matter. People like to abuse themselves. "Oh poor me! I got screwed over and hurt. Now give me your pity because my own isn't enough!"

Fucking cunts and assholes.

Yeah, except it might be difficult to let go when there is a massive void in your life. Filling this void and letting go should work a lot better.