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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-05-08, 22:14
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Pingy 
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Big Letdown
Remember that girl K I was excited about seeing again?
Well, in the few months I haven't seen her, she's turned into some kinda druggie. She smokes, she pops pills (she told me she took a whole bunch last night and passed out for 15 hrs), she had dark bags under her eyes, and she generally looks downtrodden. =(
I was hoping she would be the same K from the summer, but there was this "stressful event" that she tells me changed a lot.
Our connection just doesn't seem fully there anymore. I tried bringing up some past things and she couldn't fully remember.
Now I really miss my girl. I really miss talking to her and just being around her. Now she's the only one who can offer me that kind of connection, and it makes me long for her too much for my own good.
So I just wanted to tell you guys. =(
Anything similar ever happen to you??
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#2
 2008-05-08, 22:32
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KriminalMinded 
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Re: Big Letdown
I'm sorry to hear that. Maybe she needs YOU. Perhaps?
As far as it happening to me, Ohhh, you don't
wanna know. I wish you the best of luck and hope
your problem ends in peace.
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#3
 2008-05-08, 23:25
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Re: Big Letdown
Some people change for the worse; some for the better; a lot never change. It sucks.
But she sounds like she isn't doing too hot. Like actual addiction potential there. As a friend, you should talk to her about it.
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#4
 2008-05-09, 10:20
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Re: Big Letdown
It's a phase.
She probably just needs something as 'big' as what changed her to change her again. Go do sumthing really fun and not drug related together.
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#5
 2008-05-10, 07:26
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Affect 
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Re: Big Letdown
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Originally Posted by parkus
It's a phase.
She probably just needs something as 'big' as what changed her to change her again. Go do sumthing really fun and not drug related together.
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Good call.
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#6
 2008-05-10, 13:14
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Re: Big Letdown
Yeah, it sucks when stuff like this happens.
you can either hang around and attempt to help her, possibly fail. Or you can give up on her and go have a good time with your girlfriend.
One problem here is that if she's a pillhead and a bit fucked up now, chances are she may hit on you. (your friend not the girlfriend). How will you deal with that if it happens?
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#7
 2008-05-10, 18:41
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Pingy 
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Re: Big Letdown
I think the going out and doing something with her idea is a good one. Maybe I could buy her some dinner, and then we could walk in the park or something like that.
If she starts hitting on me, im just going to ignore it. I think thats the best course of action.
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#8
 2008-05-10, 18:49
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Re: Big Letdown
give her a bunch of oxys
then raep her and sell teh video on the interwebs
by her more oxy with the money to make up for it
repeat ad infineum!
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#9
 2008-05-10, 18:57
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sidewayz6.6 
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Re: Big Letdown
Remember that girl K I was excited about seeing again?
Well, in the few months I haven't seen her, she's turned into some kinda druggie. She smokes, she pops pills.
Mmmm, sounds fun to ME...:)
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#10
 2008-05-10, 19:48
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Thuracine187 
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Re: Big Letdown
Don't waste your time.
Women are everywhere, that connection can be easily made with anyone else just as easy.
Go out and experience something new.
Or
Sit at home doing nothing but trying to make someones else's problems yours.
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