Long story short=

Ex says she still has feelings for me.
Ex put the moves on me.
Ex tells me she slept with(or damn near to it) my best friend.
Me, being an idiot, reluctantly forgives ex.
5 minutes later, I dig out of ex that she slept with three guys when she was up in Colorado, when we were still dating.
Me, being a COMPLETE idiot, tells ex that I might forgive her eventually, I just need time to come to grips with the matters at hand.
Ex puts more moves on me.
Ex tries to shift all the blame to me by making up some bullshit excuse, I resisted.
Ex puts even MORE moves on me.
Half an hour after she leaves, ex calls. Ex says that she still isn't sure she wants to pursue a relationship, or anything, at the matter because she "wasn't thinking" when she told me that 3 hours ago, and had PLENTY OF FUCKING TIME to tell me when we were in person.
Me, being pissed off, (for some strange reason, I still have some remnant of feelings for this wench) punched the wall.
Me, realizing this was a stupid idea, gets even more pissed, and looks for drugs while holding my hand between my legs.

Y'know, the usual.

I actually typed this up last night, when it happened, and waited 'till the 'morrow, to see if it didn't sound like utter horseshit, and it's manageable, so work with it.

When I found out one of my ex's cheated on me when we were dating I told her
"oh that's ok, don't worry about it, you were just kinda like my girlfriend on the side anyway."

She hung up :) ah sweet revenge.

So your ex is a slag and basically wanted to fuck you.

Your being confused doesent make you stupid.
What exactly do you want from her?

She doesent sound very good for you.

When I found out one of my ex's cheated on me when we were dating I told her
"oh that's ok, don't worry about it, you were just kinda like my girlfriend on the side anyway."

Ahaha. Good thinking-on-your-feet there, son.

Let me put it this way.

You already know the end of the movie and didn't enjoy watching it the first time, why the hell do you want to watch it again?

That's an awesome analogy. I'm stealing that one.

That's an awesome analogy. I'm stealing that one.

I concur, that's going in my repertoire. But yeah, stop worrying about the slag, get a hotter girlfriend, living well is the best revenge, etc.

As simple as that is, it sure speaks the fucking truth.

I'll agree with the title of this thread.
After that, you should realize that having feelings for her is not going to do anything but bring you down. She's obviously a slut, and not good for you.
Move on.

Hell, I just want to be happy. I wish relationships didn't have to be so complicated.

And no, everyone who's met both her and me agrees with you.

I'll agree with the title of this thread.
After that, you should realize that having feelings for her is not going to do anything but bring you down. She's obviously a slut, and not good for you.
Move on.

I have realized that, and I'm probably just going to break off communication with her. Thankfully, she's so indecisive, if she decides she wants me back (again) and throws herself at me, she'll change her mind halfway into the leap.

Let me put it this way.

You already know the end of the movie and didn't enjoy watching it the first time, why the hell do you want to watch it again?

Awesome metaphor. It's the only film I own.

At the time I was dating her, it was either go with her, or nothing. My choices were (and still are) severely limited. And, I barely knew her at the time, I was suckered into it.

Man, staying single just keeps looking better and better.