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 #1 
Old 2008-01-29, 04:14
downwithhopeupwithdope downwithhopeupwithdope is offline
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so i started to sit next to this one girl in my logic class a couple of classes ago. I have talked to her a little bit and made stupid jokes about the professor and i got her to laugh a bit, and we also worked on a little group exercise together. The group thing went well because i did the work before hand and knew what i was doing.
Also what got my attention from her, because originally i sat in the back of the classroom was her participation in class, and then i noticed how pretty she was. I also participate in class alot giving my view point and answers as pertains to the subject, basically its me her and one or two other people that give answers usually.
I just need some help on breaking the ice and be able to see if she digs it or gives any signs or anything. I try to make as much eye contact with her when possible, like when she walks into class i always try to catch her eyes.
i have made some small talk during class but its not like you can have a conversation. also before class if she gets in there i usually pussy out on what to say and im usually pretty high.
So any help or suggestions would be awesome.
P.S. im looking for a relationship not just a fuck buddy.
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Old 2008-01-29, 05:19
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Just don't be a bitch about it. Keep up the small talk, and show that you're interested in her. Slowly try to increase it, and then eventually ask her for her number. If she says yes, good job, you're one step closer. If not,* then move on.Just watch her signs, when you ask her for her number, her face lights up and she gets a big smile, then thats obviously good. Most of this stuff is common sense.Most people that aren't succesful with girls just get too nervous to carry a conversation. Jussst reeelaaax.I'm stoned. you could probably tell though.
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Old 2008-01-29, 13:32
downwithhopeupwithdope downwithhopeupwithdope is offline
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and what if her face doesnt light up when i ask her for her number, she just is like yea here it is? and i was thinking about some time when im talking to her just slipping in something like, i bet your boyfriend would like that or something to see what she says.
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Old 2008-01-29, 14:21
J-Beth J-Beth is offline
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her just slipping in something like, i bet your boyfriend would like that or something to see what she says.

No, No, No that just sounds creepy and wierd. If she has a boyfriend, and you go for it unless she hates him or is a complete slut then she will just tell you whats up. DONT worry about if shes taken or not.
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Old 2008-01-29, 17:38
sirlicksalot sirlicksalot is offline
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You got this, you are doing all of the right things already. You made the first move, you are working in groups for the class with her, you make her laugh. You are good to go *does the hand motion*
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Old 2008-01-29, 19:09
KarnivOre KarnivOre is offline
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or failing that, just chloroform her and have yer filthy way

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