Ladies of totse, if you found out that I engaged in certain illegal acts would it exclude me from being a potential mate? Would it make you think less of me? What would you think of a guy who smokes weed on the weekends? What about if he sells drugs? What if he shoplifted regularly? Driving drunk? I don't do most this stuff but I want to know if it would matter.

some likee some don't

that's like asking what ladies think about seinfeld or somethin. Some like it, some don't.

Every girl I can recall gettin with doesn't give a fuck though.

Cookie cutter answer #8:

Depends on the girl.

The girls who do care arn't worth it, they are judging you based on societies rules and regulations. Whores.

Or yknow, their own morals and standards, not wanting some goddamn deadbeat.

Or yknow, their own morals and standards, not wanting some goddamn deadbeat.

true.

to the OP:
theres a difference between smoking pot on the weekends (harmless) and drunk driving(very harmful)
Don't lump them together.

they dig it.

Drunk driving is easy dude. If you think it is dangerous you're either an idiot who drank too much or a jew. Basically, driving with a .132 is easy to me because I am a blood. (My friend Cig Ricky has a breathalyzer.)

D easy to me because I am a blood.

lolwut?

and this, children, is why so many people die in car accidents.



isn't the legal limit 0.08? not that you care, just making sure.

Ladies of totse, if you found out that I engaged in certain illegal acts would it exclude me from being a potential mate?
Most likely.
Would it make you think less of me?
Most likely.
What would you think of a guy who smokes weed on the weekends?
Do what you want to do, but don't expect me to be around it; I'm not going to risk fucking up my life just because you want to get high.

What about if he sells drugs? What if he shoplifted regularly? Driving drunk?

Fuck no.

isn't the legal limit 0.08? not that you care, just making sure.

Yes, it is.

From about 13-21, you'll get bonus points for it.

From 21-25, I'd say it's not really encouraged or frowned upon.

After 25, it just makes you look pathetic.

(With the exception of weed. Smoking weed wouldn't be much of an issue unless she's an uber christian. Dealing might be a bit more, but chances are if you're that type of person...you'll be dating a girl that smokes out anyways and will be thankful for the free hookup.)

Do what you want to do, but don't expect me to be around it; I'm not going to risk fucking up my life just because you want to get high.


I suppose the real question is whether you'd actually want to be with a girl like this.

My girlfriend's fun as fuck high. :)

-F☺rd

Stealing would be a "no." for me.

Drugs, well... weed is fine, I'm not sure on anything 'harder'. Both selling and using.

Driving drunk? depends on how drunk you are, how often you do it, and what kind of drunk you are. If you get stupid crazy reckless after 3 beer, then no. If you've had a few and are just buzzing a bit, thats not as bad... still would make me nervous though.

Take it from a habitual thief, if your partner knows you are stealing shit you aren't covering your tracks well enough.

I suppose the real question is whether you'd actually want to be with a girl like this.

My girlfriend's fun as fuck high. :)

-F☺rd

I've never been in a situation where a guy was interested in me until he found out I don't do drugs.

I've never been in a situation where a guy was interested in me until he found out I don't do drugs.

You just happen to have dealt with a more mature bunch of guys than the 'zomg weed is > all' crowd that wanders here.

You just happen to have dealt with a more mature bunch of guys than the 'zomg weed is > all' crowd that wanders here.

This is the internet, afterall. I mean, how would you become cool and popular on the internet unless you smoke weed all day and have a supermodel nymphomaniac girlfriend that loves to suck your14" cock while you play video games?

Depends.

Most like some level of bad-assness as long as you've outgrown the major stuff.

Drug dealing, drugs, gangs, etc are all fun and games if you did it in high school, if you're still getting high regularly, there's a problem (I say regularly, nothing wrong with a blunt every now and again), that is assuming you're trying to get with girls 18+.

I have a lot of stories about my past, and I tell them to my girlfriend. Some she likes, some not so much, but she knows I'm no longer in gangs/dealing/doing drugs/etc. I quit smoking (thank God) and toned down the drinking (my liver says YAY) and while I haven't had a toke since we've been going out, I haven't quit...just waiting for a lull in school.

Imagine how immature it would be to be dealing drugs at 20 though. Unless you live in the ghetto, that shit's not interesting, safe, or sexy.

if you smoke weed on the weekends. doesnt bother me too much, still fucking sad if u do it because you think u get kudos. depends on ur approach to weed. if you flaunt it you suck.
sells drugs... well you suck if you sell it to kids younger than you. if deal to your friends, you still suck but slightly less.
Shoplift - only if its insignificant. but you'd suck.
if you drive drunk your an asshole.

if you smoke weed on the weekends. doesnt bother me too much, still fucking sad if u do it because you think u get kudos. depends on ur approach to weed. if you flaunt it you suck.
sells drugs... well you suck if you sell it to kids younger than you. if deal to your friends, you still suck but slightly less.
Shoplift - only if its insignificant. but you'd suck.
if you drive drunk your an asshole.

If you can't use proper grammar you're an asshole.

hey sherlock, i'm on the internet, like it counts if i use an apostrophe or not. and since thats the worst grammatical error you can find i don't think you should be lecturing me. Lecture bitches who actually can spell and use lolz, not someone who takes English A1 Higher in the IB.

How is drug dealing "immature" ?

How is drug dealing "immature" ?

As much as I feel people should have a right to do whatever they want with their lives:

1) Drugs, in general, are not very productive to society
2) You can get thrown in jail at any time, then where would that leave the woman?
3) It's dangerous

Women like safety and security. They don't like boredom, but they don't enjoy drug dealing either.

Smoking weed is alright as long as you're not a total pothead and you're not irritating when you're high.... like all giggly and shit that just sucks.

Shop lifting is immature as is driving drunk.

Selling drugs is fine as long as you don't get caught. Especially fine if you give me free drugs (not weed though)

I've never been in a situation where a guy was interested in me until he found out I don't do drugs.

How many times have you been interested in a person and then changed your mind because you found out he was doing drugs?
.

How many times have you been interested in a person and then changed your mind because you found out he was doing drugs?
.

I don't know anyone that does drugs, at least that I know of.

My idea of a romantic weekend involves a healthy dose of crime and a hell of a lot of weed and alcohol. I've never really been with anyone who wasn't into doing this kind of stuff with me. I guess it all depends on your idea of fun,

I don't know anyone that does drugs, at least that I know of.

Yes you do. Believe me, you do.

I don't know anyone that does drugs, at least that I know of.

Well hypothetically speaking, say you asked someone or they asked you out to coffee, after talking you discover they do ___ on the weekends, etc,etc, but also that they normal productive human beings with a successful social/academic/whatever life. Would you be quick to dismiss them? It doesn't have to be sexually/romantically interested in a person, also friendship wise, since you seem to know no one who does drugs.

I don't mind someone smoking pot. That doesn't bother me.

The stealing bothers me because you don't know if they would steal from you.

And if someone is doing something that can result in harm to another person then we have a little bit of a problem. Driving drunk can result in death, as can selling drugs, murder, rape etc. There is no fucking way I would even look at them twice. It's not a fact that it's going against societies rules, it's just that it's wrong and goes against my morals. There are plenty of things that are illegal that I think are stupid and over look.

The stealing bothers me because you don't know if they would steal from you.


This is untrue. I have no problem stealing from stores and people I don't know, or don't like. But I would never steal from a friend, especially not a boyfriend.

I was in a relationship with a girl who was very anti drug. As far as drugs are concerned, she respected my right to use them (it was just pot), she expected me not to do it while I was spending time with her. I know she wanted me to stop all that for my own good, and I cared about her enough that I did really slow down my drinking to a complete stop and stopped using drugs till about 4-5 months ago.

Our relationship was amazing, I truly loved and cared about her more than anything else in the world and we meshed together in every aspect of life. I seriously wanted to pursue a long term relationship with her however due to distance it could not happen, the end.

I just reread this:

Why would you want your girlfriend to know you are a drug dealer?

Pot doesn't matter, of course, but if you are actually selling drugs, and she knows about it, that is a bad thing. She will most likely talk to at least SOME people that her bf is a dope man, and word will get out. After she breaks up w/ you she might do something stupid if she is crazy.

I think if you have everything on lock down and do crazy shit on the side, a girl is not going to care if she can think for herself instead of society.

If you go to school, have a job, pay your rent, pay for half the dates, work out, etc. why would a girl who liked you get upset if you used drugs??

People who can actually drive drunk don't talk about it anyways. If you are going around boasting to girls that you can drive drunk, A) your probally lying and b) its not attractive. If you are under the influence and need to drive somewhere, just do it, don't give a fuck about it and let everyone know.

If you go to school, have a job, pay your rent, pay for half the dates, work out, etc. why would a girl who liked you get upset if you used drugs??


This may come as a surprise to you, but some girls can be crazy control freaks :o

because I am a blood. (My friend Cig Ricky has a breathalyzer.)

Why isn't anyone ripping this guy apart for this? I fucking lol'd.

Well hypothetically speaking, say you asked someone or they asked you out to coffee, after talking you discover they do ___ on the weekends, etc,etc, but also that they normal productive human beings with a successful social/academic/whatever life. Would you be quick to dismiss them? It doesn't have to be sexually/romantically interested in a person, also friendship wise, since you seem to know no one who does drugs.

I wouldn't judge a potential friend solely on the basis that they do drugs, but the fact that they do them would rule out the potential for anything more than friendship. I would make it clear that I don't want them bringing drugs around me, though.

If you go to school, have a job, pay your rent, pay for half the dates, work out, etc. why would a girl who liked you get upset if you used drugs??

Because of the chance that you'll end up in jail as a result of it.

Because of the chance that you'll end up in jail as a result of it.

so you wouldn't be with someone because there is a chance they could go to jail for disobeying some unjust laws?

grow up
there are a ton of things that people (innocent or not) can and will go to jail for.

This may come as a surprise to you, but some girls can be crazy control freaks :o

That is surprising...I thought it was all.

dead man driving

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_alcohol_content

Because of the chance that you'll end up in jail as a result of it.

I've always liked you as a poster, and you seemed to have a good head on your shoulders.

Reading this though, is disappointing.

"All you people up there in City Hall,
You're fuckin' it up for the people that's in the streets.
This is a song for the people in the streets,
Not the people City Hall.
All you motherfuckers in the streets it's time to rise up, up up up
Come along children and fuckin' rise!

Lots of times when me and KG are watchin'
All the fuckin' shit that goes down at City Hall,
We get the feeling we should fuck shit up,
Yeah we should fuckin' start a riot.
A Riot!

We have 'em screaming in the streets,
we have 'em tippin' over shit and breakin' fuckin' windows of small businesses,
and settin' fuckin' fires!
and settin' fuckin' fires!
and settin' fuckin' fires!"

Reading this though, is disappointing.

Reading anything having to do with your relationship with your children is pretty depressing.

I'd love to find a chick who shop lifted, did drugs and drunk drove.

Shame all the ones who do are chavs

Maybe there's a reason for that.

I've never been in a situation where a guy was interested in me until he found out I don't do drugs.

Aha everyone's first impression of you is that you are a druggie.

Reading some of the posts on here, it astounds me we live in such an age of "information". The narrow minded and naive stereotypes that some people clearly adhere to in their psyche on this thread....sounds like kids back in pre-TV eras. All the shit on deh netz, in movies, on tv, in your school, on your block.....and you have such a weird idea at what the "drug world" is and really means.

True story about me to give all you partyer/stoner/in trouble dudes out there thinking about settling down with a possible straight edger. About 2 weeks into being with my now wife I ask her about any current usage of weed. Her answer to me....."yeah, I did all that in high school and then I grew up". DOHHHH! 9 years later I'm still toking daily, and while I can't say she "encourages" it.....she doesn't hassle me too much. It hasn't been easy, and of course we had problems with quite a few fights. But ya wanna make it happen? Real easy. KEEP YOUR SHIT TOGETHER! Don't be a fuckin loser and a stereotype for the establishment. Keep a job, go to that job, don't be late, strive for a career. Be a nice loving partner, treat her well, don't be an asshole. Don't be an asshole when on your substance. Blah, blah, fucking blah. In other words, don't let drugs BE your life..... instead just a small part of it.

Part of the problem I had with my wife was the relationship before me she was with a drunk for 8 years. He WAS a loser and couldn't handle his shit, and keep his life in line. So she was even more leary/sensitive to how responsible I was with my life.

To summarize....if you are just an irresponsible asshole loser that parties going nowhere, stick to other similar chicks for mating. If partying is just a part of your life letting you enhance the enjoyment/understanding of its experiences and not utterly control it....then sure, there is no reason at all a "good girl" can't be by your side while living out that journey. Yes you can party every day and still lead a productive, satisfying life. Just don't let your partying get in the way or make you sacrifice any other parts of your life.....and you can live happily ever after.

Spides in Belfast used to (and still do sometimes) fake a limp so girls think they've been kneecapped for drug dealing or joy riding. It works apparently. Probably not the sort of girl you'd want though.

I do a fair few illegal things such as drugs, graffiti, shoplifting (Graffiti supplies), Pyro but it doesn't seem to make any difference to what girls think of me. Although tbh only my very close female friends know that about me and usually by that time they are so close to me as friends they are unlikely to become prospective "mates." As well as the fact that in the eyes of most girls the things I do are probably relatively boring, unnecessarily dangerous or pointless and not very exciting for them.

If anything the things I do probably make them think less of me but either way I don't care.

I'm feeling kinda rebellious now so I think it would make me like you more.