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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-01-28, 03:13 |
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 Just so you know.
I am tired of being told that bdsm is torture and is wrong. Anyways I found this:
BDSM is not Abuse
BDSM is not about abuse. Abuse is when someone uses fear to control their partner--fear of punishment, or threats, or psychological manipulation. In many cases abuse is simply not being able to say no. A common phrase in the BDSM community is: safe, sane & consensual. One of the things which this means is that we do what we do with the consent of our partner and after negotiation. Part of the negotiation is often how to say no.
We want our partners to grow, to feel happy, satisfied, healthy and fulfilled, and to go with us and explore the avenues of BDSM with their own desire, determination and passion. Communication, trust, caring and respect (including the respect of each others' limits) are the way to get this.
Source: http://www.ozabis.info/intro0.html
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#2
2008-01-28, 03:21 |
Flannery
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Re: Just so you know.
okay, freak
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#3
2008-01-28, 03:49 |
needtoknow
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Re: Just so you know.
okay, freak
The truth hurts :-(
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#4
2008-01-28, 04:09 |
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The fine line between genius and madness
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Re: Just so you know.
The truth hurts :-(
It does if you do it right...
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#5
2008-01-28, 05:13 |
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Re: Just so you know.
It's hard to fall in love with and respect anyone who requires micromanagement. Usually BSDM just satisfies leftover coping mechanisms usually caused by childhood trauma. By denying the trauma such people are doomed to repeat them.
Sure some fantasies are fun. But I don't see how a 24/7 type thing could be fun.
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#6
2008-01-28, 23:18 |
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Re: Just so you know.
BDSM is horrible. You are a terrible person. Quit abusing women /thread
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#7
2008-01-29, 00:20 |
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The fine line between genius and madness
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Re: Just so you know.
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Originally Posted by SAS25
BDSM is horrible. You are a terrible person. Quit abusing women /thread
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You're entitled to that opinion, just like I'm entitled to the opinion that being tied up and spanked is awesome. |
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#8
2008-01-29, 07:16 |
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Re: Just so you know.
It does if you do it right...
haha. win.
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#9
2008-01-29, 10:28 |
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Re: Just so you know.
Ok, thanks.
There was an article lately, allthough I've forgotten where.
This UK couple, goths, the guy leads his girlfriend around on a lead (She's willing and accepting of this) and they tried to get on a bus, and the bus driver kicked them off saying he "doesent let freaks and dogs on his bus". Cocksucker.
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#10
2008-01-30, 01:00 |
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Re: Just so you know.
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Originally Posted by yoyobek
Ok, thanks.
There was an article lately, allthough I've forgotten where.
This UK couple, goths, the guy leads his girlfriend around on a lead (She's willing and accepting of this) and they tried to get on a bus, and the bus driver kicked them off saying he "doesent let freaks and dogs on his bus". Cocksucker.
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Haha why would you ever let someone on a leash on the bus. Everyone else would get the fuck off at the next stop. Goths should keep to their caves. |
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2008-01-30, 05:37 |
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Re: Just so you know.
Haha why would you ever let someone on a leash on the bus. Everyone else would get the fuck off at the next stop. Goths should keep to their caves.
Furthermore, we should nuke these caves.
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