Ok this thread on females wanting to be dominated inspired me to write this:
http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2094246

Ok, I may be a pussy according to most Totseans, but honestly I prefer to be cute and more feminen w/ girls. Yes, I do lead my girl, all the time (I always tell her what to do and when to do it etc.), but my tone of voice (unless I'm angry) and body language does not necessaly indicate "dominance."

Now, sexually I am the complete opposite. I am completley dominate, I treat them like objects by slapping them hard across the face, ass, pulling their hair (hard), scratching them (hard) etc. I throw their bodies around, and into objects such as the floor, wall, an occasional lamp. Constant motion and switching of positions, and I always end up jerking off on her stomache/breasts (I have to pull out because we don't use condoms and she is not on birth control)

Ok, when I say "their" I really only mean "her" because my new girl is the first girl I've done this too.

W/ past gfs, by treating them like respected people during sex, I only got laid about 2/3 times a week. W/ this girl, it could just be coincidence and she is just only horny, I get laid all the time. The amount is really high and is ridiculous to normal society.

My point is that can I still be thought of as a manly, dominant man (because females want to be dominated) if I only dominate through sex but not day to day life? I want to come off as a dominating manly man so my bitch stays w/ me and doesn't get bored of me. But I like to be cute through daily living. These both obviously do not work out, but sexually it doesn't matter.

If this doesn't make sence just ask me to rexplain it.

I had a gf like that. It was great, like sex 3-4 times a day. I really wish things had worked out....mostly due to a current lack of sex...

Can any of you assholes give me your opinion?

first off, you sound like a girl. scratching and pulling hair during sex?

yes to being assertive in bed, no to acting like a chick around her.