Yea so i'm talking to this totally hot chick and she tells me yesterday that she wants me to be her backup....sexually, to like have sex if she's bored or something. Now I kinda get what this means, but I couldn't tell if she was serious. She seemed serious, but she didn't go into any more detail and frankly this isn't the kind of thing that just comes up in conversation you know. So I was just wondering if this has happened to anyone else or if anyone has some advice as to how to proceed. Danka.

She sounds like a bitch.

How to proceed?

Make her your backup, duh!!!

Go out looking for relationships or sex or whatever, and give her a call when you're lonely/bored/etc.

I'm pretty sure that if anyone said that to me, I'd tell them to fuck right off.

I mean, what the fuck? Who wants to be some backup, second-rate, second-choice? Fuck that.

Whoa, don't take that shit.
Tell her she can be your backup IF she asks nicely.
That'll get her unbelievably hot in her pantaloons

If you're willing to hook up with her because she's desperate (and so are you) then that's your business. Just don't sound too eager to be her backup, and more importantly, don't let people find out you're her backup, or you won't be able to find someone else to fuck as easily.

Remember, kiddies, this is the Facebook era.