So I was in a serious relationship (4 years) about a year ago we broke up. So I started going out and meeting other girls. I got heaps of attention from girls- I was lovin' it. Had a few flings and that, basically had a ball of a time.

I kept quiet for a while, ready to settle down again. I met an awesome chick through my sister (Whom I'm now with) and we have been going out for 2 months. But i've actually known her for quite a lot longer.

Now I really like this girl, but there is a problem- another girl...

The other girl I really want to have sex with (she is fucking hot as) and thought I could because of my arrogance. I just found out by a friend and also a complete stranger that she is 'in love with me' and always talks about me and is disappointed about me having a girlfriend.

Also, I just drove some chicks around, one was trying to get with me when I dropped her off. When I dropped her off one of the others then tried to get with me, but I shunned her off.

Now I've never cheated on a girl before, I think cheating is a dog-act. But I feel a bit like a dog and am seriously considering it, the reasons being...

1: I have never really received any attention off girls in my life untill fairly recently. I was always the 'friend' or the 'kid with the funny hair'. So it really makes me happy being around these kind of girls.

2: I haven't had sex with my new girlfriend yet because of some deep seeded emotional issues of mine and we are taking it slow.

3: I'm always horny as fuck, especially because it's summer here in Australia and there are sooo many chicks in skimpy outfits everywhere

So I figure I have 3 solutions

Stay faithful to girlfriend

Fuck just one other chick, not tell my girlfriend and continue on the relationship if I decide thats not what I want

Or

Dump her and fuck as many chicks as I can...

So what do you guys think? Is it worth it to go out and fuck heaps of chick just for an ego boost?

You have deep seeded emotional issues about fucking your girlfriend, but have no problem with fucking some random girl who tries it on with you?

do whatever the fuck u want until u find the girl u love till then its all good for "teh lulz".
btw wat part of australia u from?

First off, I would like you to clarify this.

Second off, all things considered, you absolutely need to dump your girlfriend. Feelings like you are having wont just go away naturally, you need to get it all out of your system. Fucking loads of random chicks gets boring after awhile, but every guy needs to figure that out on their own. You need to do that before you are ready for another serious relationship. Four years of commitment is quite a while for a guy your age.

However, you don't want to be an asshole about it. Break up with your girlfriend, she doesn't need to have the shame and grief of you cheating on her. Once you break up with her, you are your own man and have no prior obligations.

The issue about having sex with my girlfriend (actually any girl i've had feelings for), started when I broke up with my girlfriend of four years. It's just that I pussy out because I'm scared of my performance, and I want to please them, but i'll deal with that in my own time. It doesn't matter with random chicks, because I don't give a fuck what they think.

Also the feelings for my current girlfriend are really strong. It's just the feelings for wanting a root are stronger, probably because I haven't seen her for about a week.

I really want to stay with this girl, because I am falling in love with her- not quite yet though.

I always do a little test with girls now, to see if they can put up with me.

First week or two I'm with a girl, I'll be myself around them. Then I stop. I put NO effort into the relationship whatsoever. Not mean too them or anything, just not nice- if you get me.

The last too girlfriends have pretty much broken up with me after a month, maybe two months max- because they got sick of me and deep down thats probably what I wanted.

This current girlfriend is still 100% keen on making our relationship work which is one reason why I'm attrated to her, because my ex of four years cheated on me, dumped me and hooked up with another guy 1 week later. So I want a girl who is willing to stick by me even when I'm not being nice or when times are rough.

Well I will see her today/tomorrow, so when I'm around her I'll have a good hard look at her and figure out if I really want to be with her.

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This thread suffers from a distinct lack of Crue.

The song was the first thing that came to mind while reading the title.

I kept quiet for a while, ready to settle down again. I met an awesome chick through my sister (Whom I'm now with) and we have been going out for 2 months. But i've actually known her for quite a lot longer.
lol

As for your post... if you're seriously considering cheating on your girlfriend, she's too good for you.