I've already posted about this a couple of times, but I said I'd say what happens. Well, it turns out this girl has a b/f. She didn't make a point about saying it either, it just kinda came up. Seems like all hot girls do. She didn't find anything out about my past that I know of. She was still like she was last week.
Very flirty. She has her chair closer to me than everybody else and their neighbor, she brushed her leg against me quite a few times again, I said/did something to make her laugh and she smacked my arm. She's 19 and she had a hysterectomy for some weird reason, any ideas? I still want this girl so bad though. What should I say to her? Straight up ask her out, and if she says I got a bf pretend I didn't know? Should I say something like "hey if you and your bf ever break up, give me a call? I'm worried that if I ask her something like this to soon, it will ruin the friendship we have, do you think it will? Should I wait until the end of the quarter to do it? I was thinking too, if she was my gf and she acted like she does toward me to other guys, I'd be fucking pissed. Do you think she's trying to get me to ask her out? This shit was such a letdown, their really isn't any hot girls in any other one of my classes.

Don't go near anything that has a boyfriend.
End of story.

Why? She's the one who took interest in me before I could even take it in her. Girls break up with dudes all the time to go out with other dudes, don't they?

Why? She's the one who took interest in me before I could even take it in her. Girls break up with dudes all the time to go out with other dudes, don't they?

Yes, and she'll do the same to you, just watch.

Don't mess with her, if you wanna fuck 'n run. She has a boyfriend, so if she leaves him expecting something significant with you, he gets hurt. Then when you leave her ass cuz u got pussy, shes hurt too. And then you just ruined a perfectly good relationship.

if you're really interested in her tell her straight up..

something like this: "i'm aware that you have a boyfriend, but the fact of the matter is i'm interested in a romantic relationship with you. i'm not trying to fuck with your head, but if you decided you would be happier with me maybe we could talk about it.."

i have no moral problems with "stealing" somebodies girlfriend. if it happened to me itd be my fault, either that or the girl is a bitch so fuck it.

you might both have your head in the wrong place for all i know.. but they do say all is fair in love and war.

itd be a shame if you guys were awesome together but nothing ever happened due to some half baked concept of morality/loyalty. loyalty should always shift to something higher and more profound (edit: even something more genuine), not hold things back.

Good advice, that's kinda what I was thinking.

Do you think I should say something like this next class or at the end of the semester? Who knows she might break-up with her b/f before the class is over with. I wouldn't want to make her feel more uncomfortable or anxious, I can tell she's anxious. Also, I wouldn't want to ruin the friendship we have.

Well said. The proper thing to do is just keep flirting with her and just have fun. Out of respect to your fellow man don't cross the line. Just imagine if you were in that situation would you want some guy fucking with your girl. Just let her no you're available and you're interested. And if things go right then you get some pussy.

That would be extremely good for "teh lulz".
good relations that are ruined over sluts doing stupid things are quite humerous, i say take the bitch fuck her bulk then dump her when your done.

That would be extremely good for "teh lulz".
good relations that are ruined over sluts doing stupid things are quite humerous, i say take the bitch fuck her bulk then dump her when your done.

I'm not like that at all. Sure I've had one-night-stands that were meaningless. They just kinda happened in drunken hazes.

I really do like this girl though. Sure I'd give a leg, well not quite but you get the idea, to fuck her but that just isn't where my morals are at. I'd at least wanna be on dating terms, not just fucking her with a boyfriend; meaningless sex.

Just so confusing though with the way she's acting. The first week of class, I was thinking she's definitely single and wants me to ask her out. The second week I had some Xanax in me and was all worked up to ask her, but just in talking, not something she made a point of saying or anything, she said she had a boyfriend. She was still very flirty, like to the very extreme a girl could act to show that she likes you. It's almost like she wants me to ask her out, or she's devious and enjoys teasing or something.

But fuck, contrary to what I said up a couple paragraphs, if she just straight up asked me if I wanted to fuck, boyfriend or not, I probably would. In meaning, I'm very attracted to her and just in general really like her as a person.

I'm going to try and ask my friends girl what she thinks this girl is doing this for. She may just be really flirty, fun for her, but not me, that's all I can do, fucking big tease.

Do you think I should say something like this next class or at the end of the semester? Who knows she might break-up with her b/f before the class is over with. I wouldn't want to make her feel more uncomfortable or anxious, I can tell she's anxious. Also, I wouldn't want to ruin the friendship we have.

personally i'd probably put it out there the next time i felt she was hearing me out.

Even in this stupor, that's what I've been thinking. I mean I'm SO attracted to this girl and all. I just can't stand thinking "what could of been." you know? Do you guys think it would ruin what little we do have if I was to make a provocative comment like this?

Ended up, my friends girl invited this whore over tonight. She was menstruating but let alone that, she wants to work at the porn store and frankly wasn't to good looking.

Such a heap of confusing bullshit. It's starting to play on me so much I can't even focus on what really is important. If only she didn't have a b/f...

bump5

Alright, you know she has a boyfriend. She's either doing this for your attention, or she's interested in leaving her boyfriend, hence the anxiety in her behavior. Some hot girls leave their boyfriends all the time, simply because they can. I dated one like that. She's constantly in another relationship, simply because she can.

Realize that even if you get this girl, it will not last. She will do the same thing to you that she's doing to her boyfriend now. You will never be able to really trust this girl knowing what you know about her behavior.

So you have two options: ask her out, or don't. You should base your decision on a couple things. How do you feel about her having a boyfriend? Are you ok with possibly breaking up their relationship? You said you would want to "date" the girl rather than just fuck her. She would have to break up with her boyfriend for that. If you're ok with her breaking up with her boyfriend and you're ok with knowing that nothing you have with her will ever last then go for it. If you can't handle those two facts then find another girl.

Looking at your situation, if she really is as flirty as you think she is then she probably wants something with you. You need to take into account that you might be misreading her, in which case hilarity would ensue should you ask her out. My take on this is that you might as well ask her out. Pretend you didn't know she had a boyfriend if she says she has one. You might as well see where it will go. If she says no then she's just teasing you and fucking with your head for her own pleasure, and you will then know what kind of a person she is, and you'll know you don't want to be friends with her. That saves you from worrying about trying to get with her anymore. If she says yes, then you've probably scored some easy pussy. Easy being the key word. It won't last, and you'll probably feel like shit when she breaks up with you to fuck another guy less than a month later.

All in all you might as well just take a chance to see what she does. At the least you'll know what kind of person she is.

Yes I've known and thought about this constantly; I'm a very anxious person. It's very confusing man, I REALLY REALLY like her and if I was able to get with her even, for a month say, it would kinda be worth it. They say "it's better to have love and lost then have never loved at all," I'm thinking at the very best, I'll be testing this theory. Even if she were to say no, just from reading her, I'm thinking it wouldn't be a big deal "to her," and we'd still be friends, only in my attempt though to still win her over.

I really don't think I'm misreading her. Just the way she acts, I mean she really couldn't do much more to show me she likes me. Even without your well though out comment that makes a lot of sense and I appreciate VERY much, I probably would ask her out. Just where my head/heart w/e is leading me. Thanks again for your good advice.

Realize that even if you get this girl, it will not last. She will do the same thing to you that she's doing to her boyfriend now. You will never be able to really trust this girl knowing what you know about her behavior.

i dont know why i'm bothering.. but this here isnt necessarily true. this is a very defeatist position. she might want to stay with him because he makes her happy and vise versa. i'm probably stepping on some toes so i'll take my leave.