Called me today before class and I told her I had to go. She just IM'ed me and im talking to her now. I'll post the conversation in a bit.

this thread is useless without pix.



It's probably useless with them aswell.

So what do you want us to say?

I fail to see this threads point.

So anyway, for a bit of a back story, this girl and I used to be close friends. That should be enough right there but for to clarify, I was "the friend." She'd come to me when she needed someone to listen to her problems and then go on her merry way. One day I decided to stop talking to her and see how long it would take her to respond. That was last November. Today she called me while I was on my way to class and I said that I couldn't talk. Tonight she messaged me. Here's the conversation.




her: wayyyyy to be an asshole today
me: yeah i know
her: was it on purpose im not cool enough for ya or busy asshole?
me: i was outside my classroom
me: sorry
her: haha its alright
her: i just didnt know if it was a sara type deall
her: ya know?
her: so was it?
me: your asking if im abandoning you?
her: haha um abandoning....more like if you hate me now?
me: no i dont hate you
her: alrightt
her: well. cool. i guess?
her: hah.
me: cool, i guess
her: i was gonna call you, when i heard you were in ri, but i got the feeling
her: youd do the sara thing
her: so ya knowwwwww
me: know what this biggest problem in relationships is?
her: the biggest problems in relationships?
her: what?
me: people always wait and don't tell people their problems, thinking the other with fix them
her: hmm
her: how does that relate to this?
me: hrmmmm
her: im not saying that in an asshoel way. i just dont see it
me: last year, i decided to stop talking to you
me: and see how long it would take before you tried to contact me
me: i think it was about two months ago
me: two vacations
me: and nothing, not a word
me: one day i realized that whenever we had a conversation, or made plans, or anything, i was the one who initiated it
me: i had to come to you, you never came to me
me: XXXX, i dont want to be your emotional mule anymore
me: i dont want you to come to me with your problems so that you can cry on my shoulder and then leave
her: okay.
her: well.
me: i dont know what that means to you, but i cant really say that it means anything to me
her: first. i tried calaling your cell phone a couple times. and it went to voicemail so i thought you ignored it. and i never saw you online . anddd. i actually did wonder where you were both vacations and i was upset i didnt seee you. but i figured that you were doing the sara thing. to me. so i dont knoww
me: you see?
me: neither of us was able to come to the other
her: i didnt want to call you and have you be an ass. haha.
me: even though we both knew that there was something wrong
her: yeah.
her: youre right.
her: thats mad lame.
her: huh.
me: so? where do we go from here
me: what more do you want from me
her: i dont knowww XXXX
her: what dod you mean
her: by the last phrase?
me: im just not sure where to go from here
her: ohh
her: well
me: i dont know what i can offer you, and i dont think you have anything to offer me
her: i guess
her: the most appropriate question would be
her: do you want to be friends?
her: or not?
me: thats just it XXXX!
me: thats why this isnt just a simple question
me: because even if i say no, am i really losing anything?
her: i dont know XXXX its up to you
her: im willing to be friends with almost anyone whos nice and cool and im a completely changed person for the better so i dont know
her: up to you
me: i dont know
me: i need more time to think



well?

I don't know what to do. I'm emotionally drained right now. What more can I say to this girl? I need some advice, please.

I have some advice for ya, QUIT BEING SUCH A PUSSY!

OKay so there are many many factors you need to consider.. and some more things we need to know


Okay so I'm assuming she ignorantly used you... I mean in the way that she didn't realize that it was always her needing your support. So you have to decide if her using you unconsciously is worse than consciously.

Also... you have to think about that if you call her all the time and you stop, that is a huge indication that you are mad....especially if she did try to call and you never called back.

Some people are insecure bastards who don't want to make the first move... and who wants to be so openly rejected....this is why people don't call people during fights, it's easier to just not think about it.

So my personal opinion.... I'd give her another shot IF it won't bother you if she becomes a bitch again... and then you say fuck off for good. But if you think it will cause you a lot of distress...then you shouldn't give her another chance.

Sometimes people make mistakes.... BUT.. sometimes people don't give a fuck if they're making mistakes. So you'll just have to see if she cares.

you forgot to bleep one of the screen names out.

it is xIndeed i t i sx I just imed her but im not gana do anythign stupid

xxxJosh420xxx (10:03:36 PM): are you the type of girl that likes to cuddle?
Lol (10:03:48 PM): who is this?
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:04 PM): i saw you in the hall today at school, im one of the seniors there. I just thought you looked cute and cuddly
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:37 PM): i know thats kind of a strange approach
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:42 PM): maybe creepy, but i was just compelled
Lol (10:04:52 PM): haha too bad i wasnt in school freak
Lol signed off at 10:04:55 PM.


I tried. :(

any time a female says "lets be friends" immediately reply "with benefits" if she goes for it cool. if not, then ditch her. theirs nothing more un-cool than being a girls "close guy friend who she tells everything" it makes you look gay, and or a pussy who just wants female attention even if it is totally platonic.

I'm IMing her as we speak to settle this shit OK?


Fuck she signed off. I'll wait.





Fuck I didn't see some other jackass IMed her. FUCK you fucking RUINED IT FOR ME

I am pretty sure that the whole "copy pasta" from a 'whatever' conversation is just perfectly clear to you, but for those of us who are NOT you, try condensing that into a Cliff Notes version and post again.

tnx buhbynow

i told her i liked the way her panties smelled. it reminds me of grandmothers tuna cassoral. she ignored me :(

xxxJosh420xxx (10:03:36 PM): are you the type of girl that likes to cuddle?
xIndeed i t i sx (10:03:48 PM): who is this?
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:04 PM): i saw you in the hall today at school, im one of the seniors there. I just thought you looked cute and cuddly
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:37 PM): i know thats kind of a strange approach
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:42 PM): maybe creepy, but i was just compelled
xIndeed i t i sx (10:04:52 PM): haha too bad i wasnt in school freak
xIndeed i t i sx signed off at 10:04:55 PM.


I tried. :(

lulz. but still. :(

You ruined it for me, she was going to masturbate and show me a phone vid.

You ruined it for me, she was going to masturbate and show me a phone vid.

She ignored me as soon as I said HAI!...

She ignored me as soon as I said HAI!...

Atleast i got a few creepy lines in there.

Atleast i got a few creepy lines in there.

Yeah :(

Hey, I IMd her a link to this thread. Hope ya dont mind!

Course not...thats how we roll.

xxxJosh420xxx (10:03:36 PM): are you the type of girl that likes to cuddle?
xIndeed i t i sx (10:03:48 PM): who is this?
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:04 PM): i saw you in the hall today at school, im one of the seniors there. I just thought you looked cute and cuddly
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:37 PM): i know thats kind of a strange approach
xxxJosh420xxx (10:04:42 PM): maybe creepy, but i was just compelled
xIndeed i t i sx (10:04:52 PM): haha too bad i wasnt in school freak
xIndeed i t i sx signed off at 10:04:55 PM.


I tried. :(

lol.

this is exactly why I'm never posting something like this on totse.

Okay so I'm assuming she ignorantly used you... I mean in the way that she didn't realize that it was always her needing your support. So you have to decide if her using you unconsciously is worse than consciously.

Unconsciously. I don't know if its worse or not, but it still feels like shit. She'd come to me with something to get off her chest and then she'd be gone. I be left there after having made and emotional investment in a girl no less and I'd have gotten nothing in return.



Also... you have to think about that if you call her all the time and you stop, that is a huge indication that you are mad....especially if she did try to call and you never called back.

Some people are insecure bastards who don't want to make the first move... and who wants to be so openly rejected....this is why people don't call people during fights, it's easier to just not think about it.

That was her reason for not calling. What happened was after a while her life was back on track and she didn't need me any more. Eventually I was the one always calling, or messaging. It's like she only payed attention to me when she needed someone to confide in.



So my personal opinion.... I'd give her another shot IF it won't bother you if she becomes a bitch again... and then you say fuck off for good. But if you think it will cause you a lot of distress...then you shouldn't give her another chance.

Sometimes people make mistakes.... BUT.. sometimes people don't give a fuck if they're making mistakes. So you'll just have to see if she cares.

I don't think the even realizes it. If I do decide to talk to her should I make it clear to her what she was doing, and why I can't be that person for her anymore?

Fine. I'd prefer it that way. She can either read it here or I can tell her myself.

Fine. I'd prefer it that way. She can either read it here or I can tell her myself.

Either way, it's best to be open. You'd regret the 'thing you wish you'd said'. TRUST ME :(

Either way, it's best to be open. You'd regret the 'thing you wish you'd said'. TRUST ME :(

Whatever. MaryJane will make me feel better..... for about two hours. :(

She probably hates me now anyway, after I gave an entire army of perverted 12 year olds her screen name.

Just be honest with her. If she was given this thread anyway, she'll understand. Don't sweat it man, if she was a good friend it won't matter will it? You're all jackasses btw, don't fuck with someone like that .

Aw man I was too late to join the IM party.

I love being creepy to random girls I don't know.

Ok, continuing the conversation. I don't know if she'll like it or not put I'll post it for you guys. :D

Either way, it's best to be open. You'd regret the 'thing you wish you'd said'. TRUST ME :(

You know a lot of people say that... but... sometimes it's easier to regret not doing something than regretting doing it. I think this specifically may be one of those cases... hell if it works out then good.

This isn't something stupid like telling your best friend you love her, something where you have no frame of reference. He has a frame of reference.

Being her friend may cause you more pain.

But that being said.... you two can have the same thing as before and that's okay. People regret things. I think people regret things more than we all realize. We feel bad that we treated others poorly. So at the end of the day you just have to think, would i want her to give me another chance, do I think I deserve another chance... if i had done the same thing.

Personally, I treated my ex like shit for a long time. It was conscious... and it wasn't mean at all, it was more..... like being meh towards him and not acting like I cared... possible the same as your situation. Now me and him are so much better because it was kinda just that one day I was just like... wtf am I doing to this guy. He's there for me all the time and I was so preoccupied that I ignored him.

I'm so happy he didn't stop talking to me. I feel very lucky I got through that and he was still there. BUT, I still think he should've said something to me. Or done something to stand up for himself... so I suggest you keep standing up for yourself and let her know you're pissed so that you're not just a door mat. Be the inbetween friend of unconditionally loving her, and making sure no one ever gives you shit.. no ifs ands or buts.

This isn't something stupid like telling your best friend you love her

I tell my best friend I love her every day...

well i meant that situation where the guy is like ive been in love with my best friend for years how can i tell her.... in that situation you just fucking do it.

SoscatSJ: http://www.totse.com/community/showthread.php?t=2092752
SoscatSJ: here
SoscatSJ: i said it all there, you might as well read it
xIndeed i t i sx: She probably hates me now anyway, after I gave an entire army of perverted 12 year olds her screen name
xIndeed i t i sx: that you did
xIndeed i t i sx: haha
xIndeed i t i sx: but i dont hate you
xIndeed i t i sx: i dont know what to say
xIndeed i t i sx: i didnt realize i was being an asshole
xIndeed i t i sx: ....
xIndeed i t i sx: and if you want to be friends
xIndeed i t i sx: im down
xIndeed i t i sx: if not
xIndeed i t i sx: i understand
SoscatSJ: jess
xIndeed i t i sx: yes?
SoscatSJ: hrmm
xIndeed i t i sx: and btw.
xIndeed i t i sx: a whole army of perverted 12 yr olds
xIndeed i t i sx: did im me
xIndeed i t i sx: and it freaked me out
SoscatSJ: yeah i know
SoscatSJ: theyre vicious
xIndeed i t i sx: and i just started blocking
xIndeed i t i sx: everyone who im'd me
xIndeed i t i sx: right away
xIndeed i t i sx: it was terrifying!
SoscatSJ: lol, i know
xIndeed i t i sx: i was like nooo now i have to change my screen name hahha
SoscatSJ: im soo sorry
xIndeed i t i sx: its alrightt (:
SoscatSJ: give it a day or two, they'll forget
xIndeed i t i sx: its who ya talk to. im sure theyll leave it alone eventually
xIndeed i t i sx: good
xIndeed i t i sx: haha
SoscatSJ: ha, wow
SoscatSJ: anyway
SoscatSJ: i never really intended to stop knowing you
SoscatSJ: it's just that i know, i can never be the same for again
SoscatSJ: i cant be that involved with someone who could disregard me like that
SoscatSJ: and now that i dont live close to you anymore i can never give a chance to know me the way i'd want you to
SoscatSJ: that why jess, i cant make that kind of emotional investment in a person unless i know it matters to them
SoscatSJ: can you understand that?
xIndeed i t i sx: yes i can im sorry i didnt answer sooner
xIndeed i t i sx: i was grabbing my laundry
xIndeed i t i sx: um
xIndeed i t i sx: well it does matter to be
xIndeed i t i sx: me
xIndeed i t i sx: because youre a cool guy
SoscatSJ: .....
xIndeed i t i sx: and im interesting in talking to you and being friends with you and like listening to you and helping you out with any issued.
xIndeed i t i sx: but im not going to try and force us
xIndeed i t i sx: being friends
SoscatSJ: lol
SoscatSJ: no, i dont need help with any issues, thats not exactly what i was talking about
xIndeed i t i sx: yeah im just saying
xIndeed i t i sx: if you did
xIndeed i t i sx: haha
xIndeed i t i sx: so i dont knoww.
xIndeed i t i sx: it matters to me
xIndeed i t i sx: but i dont want to try and force you
xIndeed i t i sx: i can tell its big deal for you
SoscatSJ: i think maybe i'm asking too much of you
xIndeed i t i sx: why?
SoscatSJ: you don't quite understand, but i can't explain it
SoscatSJ: SoscatSJ: that why jess, i cant make that kind of emotional investment in a person unless i know it matters to them
SoscatSJ: thats why
xIndeed i t i sx: yeahh
xIndeed i t i sx: well it does matter to me, but i dont know what else to say in response
SoscatSJ: what i'm saying is that you don't know me that personally, and i don't think you really want to
SoscatSJ: we can never have that
xIndeed i t i sx: okay
xIndeed i t i sx: well it doesnt sound like you want me to
xIndeed i t i sx: so i dont know what to say
SoscatSJ: it's just, i dont know that you do
xIndeed i t i sx: well id like to
SoscatSJ: im the kind of person who needs to know that
xIndeed i t i sx: yeahh, i understandd.
SoscatSJ: i don't want to continue this here
xIndeed i t i sx: okayy
SoscatSJ: maybe if i see you, you'll still want to know me
SoscatSJ: if not i guess friends is all we'll ever be
xIndeed i t i sx: okay well i dont really know what to say
xIndeed i t i sx: except
xIndeed i t i sx: that
xIndeed i t i sx: i guess let me know if you want to be friends?
xIndeed i t i sx: it doesnt seem like you do, which is understandable
SoscatSJ: im not going to confess my love for you, you dont need to worry about that :-X
SoscatSJ: but yeah, i guess we're friends
xIndeed i t i sx: hahah
xIndeed i t i sx: okay ("
xIndeed i t i sx: (:
xIndeed i t i sx: cool
SoscatSJ: it's just, i don't think we'd really be true friends
xIndeed i t i sx: yeahh i knoww
xIndeed i t i sx: more like
xIndeed i t i sx: casual friends
xIndeed i t i sx: not besties or whateverr
SoscatSJ: yeah
SoscatSJ: i know it sucks but i dont think its gonna happen
SoscatSJ: hrmmm
SoscatSJ: well i guess all i have to say then
xIndeed i t i sx: okay
SoscatSJ: i'm sorry, im just passionate like that
xIndeed i t i sx: dont be sorry, its you
xIndeed i t i sx: its not something to be sorry fr
SoscatSJ: i do weird things like stop talking to my friends, and then theres sara

She totally wants ur cock.

SoscatSJ: yeah
SoscatSJ: i know it sucks but i dont think its gonna happen
SoscatSJ: hrmmm
SoscatSJ: well i guess all i have to say then
xIndeed i t i sx: okay
SoscatSJ: i'm sorry, im just passionate like that
xIndeed i t i sx: dont be sorry, its you
xIndeed i t i sx: its not something to be sorry fr
SoscatSJ: i do weird things like stop talking to my friends, and then theres sara
xIndeed i t i sx: yeahhh
xIndeed i t i sx: do you talk to her at all?
SoscatSJ: nope
SoscatSJ: dont really want to
xIndeed i t i sx: oh yeah
xIndeed i t i sx: me either
SoscatSJ: people tells me shes changed, so i guess it was a success
xIndeed i t i sx: i dont talk to her at all
xIndeed i t i sx: yeah i dont know
xIndeed i t i sx: i got sick of her quick.
SoscatSJ: emotional turmoil changes people, i was trying to see if i could do that
xIndeed i t i sx: ohh yeahh,
xIndeed i t i sx: it worked?
xIndeed i t i sx: or no?
SoscatSJ: i don't think me alone would have done anything but with that ontop of pat and college and anything else she had going on but maybe it pushed her a bit harder
xIndeed i t i sx: ohh yeahhh.
xIndeed i t i sx: i dont know
xIndeed i t i sx: its weird
xIndeed i t i sx: i think i just got done with hearing about pat week after week when he had a new girlfriend
xIndeed i t i sx: you know?
xIndeed i t i sx: she never got over him, which is ridiculous, so i couldnt listen to the same thing over and over and then have her treat me like crap.
xIndeed i t i sx: haha
xIndeed i t i sx: but whateverr
SoscatSJ: well, i was pretty evil, but you were too
xIndeed i t i sx: wait how was i evil?
SoscatSJ: but yeah jess, i cant let that happen to me
SoscatSJ: you abandoned her, dont you realize that?
xIndeed i t i sx: no i didnt, i tried soo hard to be friends with her still. and she just kept being mean abd pushing me away and then shed only talk to me when she had to talk about pat
xIndeed i t i sx: i tried really hard to be friends
xIndeed i t i sx: and hang out with her
SoscatSJ: ugh, jess
xIndeed i t i sx: but then shed forget about plans, or i would, or we both wouldd.
xIndeed i t i sx: i dont know why im defending myself to you
SoscatSJ: thats exactly what you did to me, you dont even realize it
xIndeed i t i sx: you want to be an asshole.
xIndeed i t i sx: do it to someone else
xIndeed i t i sx: i dont need someone judging me on bullshit that doesnt matter, plenty of other people judge me for jsut as bullshit reasons
xIndeed i t i sx: and i dont need another one
SoscatSJ: wow, impressed
SoscatSJ: haha, nice job
SoscatSJ: im pretty good at that myself
xIndeed i t i sx: I try and be nice
xIndeed i t i sx: and not hurt your feelings
xIndeed i t i sx: and not be a jerk
SoscatSJ: lol
xIndeed i t i sx: and try and be friends with you
SoscatSJ: dont bottle yourself up for me jess i want you to let it out
SoscatSJ: let me know
xIndeed i t i sx: and youre an ass. i dont care john, im not interested in being friends with someone whos emotionally crippled or whatever the hells up with you. you used to be cool because you were weird
xIndeed i t i sx: now your just weird and mean
SoscatSJ: lol i know
SoscatSJ: im rediculously weird
SoscatSJ: you dont even realize
SoscatSJ: haha, you never will
xIndeed i t i sx: so whateverr have a nice life being weird and torturing small animals and trying to mess with people who dont really care if you do. because its all bullshit
xIndeed i t i sx: good night john.
xIndeed i t i sx: grow up
xIndeed i t i sx: then you can have a girlfriend and a nice life, i hope your life turns out good
SoscatSJ: what? wheres that coming from?
SoscatSJ: wheres the rage!!!
SoscatSJ: damn, i was enjoying thaty
xIndeed i t i sx: but i dont really care to stick around and see how deranged you are
xIndeed i t i sx: there is none john
xIndeed i t i sx: i dont know what happened to you
SoscatSJ: i said rage but i mean passion
xIndeed i t i sx: you seem really disturbed. but i hope it all works out in the end, its orbably just a college phase
xIndeed i t i sx: bye now
SoscatSJ: ciao







Haha, I knew she had that in her somewhere. I guess that decides it for me the? lolololol :D:D:D


That was fantastic. This feel great. I live for emotions like these, its vampyric.


The only part that makes me mad is she told me to grow up. The whole point of this was that I was trying to act like an adult. Not in ignoring her of course but in explaining myself. Do any of you even understand what I was saying?

Iam suprised no one said this yet but now theres another women on totse at least ...which brings the total up to a respectable 3 or 4 5 questionable

lol, I know. I really have nothing to say to that.

There is so way more than 5 of us.... I bet that there is 30% females 70% males... or perhaps even more even than that

dude i did the exact same thing almost i decided to not talk to a girl because i thought that i was doing all of the work. she didn't talk to me either. last time i talked to the bitch was mid July 2007.

Why don't you quit being a wanker?

Tell her to fuck off and talk to all her girlfriends. So they can tell her all about this great, friendly guy they just met.

I read the first up until where you posted the first conversation and you know what? Fuck this thread. It's obvious you want to have sex with that girl and everything that happened was your own fault.

After reading the OP's OP, I realized that whenever I read something with a censored name I think of common one syllable names such as Jeff, John, Joe, etc.

SoscatSJ: ugh, jess
xIndeed i t i sx: but then shed forget about plans, or i would, or we both wouldd.
xIndeed i t i sx: i dont know why im defending myself to you
SoscatSJ: thats exactly what you did to me, you dont even realize it
xIndeed i t i sx: you want to be an asshole.
xIndeed i t i sx: do it to someone else
xIndeed i t i sx: i dont need someone judging me on bullshit that doesnt matter, plenty of other people judge me for jsut as bullshit reasons
xIndeed i t i sx: and i dont need another one
SoscatSJ: wow, impressed
SoscatSJ: haha, nice job
SoscatSJ: im pretty good at that myself
xIndeed i t i sx: I try and be nice
xIndeed i t i sx: and not hurt your feelings
xIndeed i t i sx: and not be a jerk
SoscatSJ: lol


ROFL. Seems like she got really pissed when you said, "SoscatSJ: thats exactly what you did to me, you dont even realize it"

What/how are you judging?
About bullshit that doesn't matter.. but when its her friend who is ignoring her (who she tries really hard to be friends with; sounds like someone who posted this thread), it matters. How old is she, 17? 18? 15?

her: "fuck, he's right.. time to use my natural woman instincts and be a huge bitch"

I see where you're coming from though.. who wants a friend that uses you to vent? Say's they're your friend, and never acknowledges you until they have a bad day..


Recommend www.livejournal.com and slicing wrists.

fuck that girl x 5

"OOOOH WHY DO YOU HAVE TO MAKE THING'S SO COMPLICAAAAAAAATED?"

Next time act more like a man faggot, girls like guys to be controlling, you just pissed her off and freaked her out. And thats how your always be remembered. Good job, Wait till she spreads pollen too, every chick will know your bad rep now.

The only reason I fucked with her like that is because I don't live in that state anymore. lol, why would I make my social life a wreck if I had to stick around and watch it burn?

ROFL. Seems like she got really pissed when you said, "SoscatSJ: thats exactly what you did to me, you dont even realize it"

What/how are you judging?
About bullshit that doesn't matter.. but when its her friend who is ignoring her (who she tries really hard to be friends with; sounds like someone who posted this thread), it matters. How old is she, 17? 18? 15?

her: "fuck, he's right.. time to use my natural woman instincts and be a huge bitch"

I see where you're coming from though.. who wants a friend that uses you to vent? Say's they're your friend, and never acknowledges you until they have a bad day..


Recommend www.livejournal.com and slicing wrists.

fuck that girl x 5

Her friend Sara was doing the same thing, coming to her for support then blowing her off until she needed to talk again. So Jess decided to ignore her too, lol.

Nah, those are our real names.

Nah, those are our real names.

Hi John, my name is Josh. I was really high at the time when I imed her. Thats my excuse.

I hate it when people post their illiterate mess of MSN convos!!

It was an AIM convo

Nah, those are our real names.

me: XXXX, i dont want to be your emotional mule anymore

Her name is XXXX?

You are blowing shit out of proportion and coming off like a needy little bitch. That's how I see it anyways.

The only reason I fucked with her like that is because I don't live in that state anymore. lol, why would I make my social life a wreck if I had to stick around and watch it burn?

Then why did you bother doing that?

Then why did you bother doing that?

Some of the most fun I've ever had.

So I'm serious when I say this.... it sounds like you both want each other.

Not even lying.

This thread just makes me sad. I realise that relationships like this suck, but I don't see what you gained.

All you did was get her to talk to you, make it seem like you could be friends, then shut her down and make her feel like shit. Wow, you destroyed the friendship even more. Grats.

All of you are under the impression that I wanted to save the relationship. I couldn't decide for myself whether to keep knowing her or not. I honestly couldn't see anything to gain or anything to lose. I go to school 200+ miles away. The only people I care to see are a few close friends. The rest, I play with. This isn't the first time I've done something like this, and definitely not the worst. Going away to school gave me that opportunity, so I took it. Our friendship had ended for me back when I stopped talking to her. That hurt, allot. But that wound has healed, and this is how I now feel. I didn't think any more of it, I was still laughing the next day. I was looking forward to this opportunity to play around a bit. Thats what this was to me.

For those of you who thinks this sounds crazy, I have a question for you. What do I owe these people? Acquaintances, casual friends. If you want me to acknowledge you you're going to have to know me better than that. Don't get the impression that I don't have friends. I am still outgoing, and I love meeting new people. After all, how can someone know me unless I give them the opportunity? But the people I went to school with had seven years to take that chance. If they haven't by now, I know that nothing will ever come from knowing them.

All of you are under the impression that I wanted to save the relationship. I couldn't decide for myself whether to keep knowing her or not. I honestly couldn't see anything to gain or anything to lose. I go to school 200+ miles away. The only people I care to see are a few close friends. The rest, I play with. This isn't the first time I've done something like this, and definitely not the worst. Going away to school gave me that opportunity, so I took it. Our friendship had ended for me back when I stopped talking to her. That hurt, allot. But that wound has healed, and this is how I now feel. I didn't think any more of it, I was still laughing the next day. I was looking forward to this opportunity to play around a bit. Thats what this was to me.

For those of you who thinks this sounds crazy, I have a question for you. What do I owe these people? Acquaintances, casual friends. If you want me to acknowledge you you're going to have to know me better than that. Don't get the impression that I don't have friends. I am still outgoing, and I love meeting new people. After all, how can someone know me unless I give them the opportunity? But the people I went to school with had seven years to take that chance. If they haven't by now, I know that nothing will ever come from knowing them.


So basically nothing happened whatsoever? Whats the point of this then? That you could be a douche to a chick that was your friend before moving on with your life? Because she wasn't the person to come to you first?

I don't know why i bothered reading every convo you posted... i was like "shit this is gonna lead up to something" then i was dissapointed. I was expecting one of you to confess their undying love god damn it!

.....waste of 10 minutes... plus the 30 or so seconds i took to post.... wow im irrelevant.

Fail.

I have some advice for ya, QUIT BEING SUCH A PUSSY!

I agree.

Hit'n'Ditch that bitch to punish her for taking so long to fucking call.