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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2008-01-20, 17:46 |
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 Damnit, bad choice?
Hey everyone, well I met this nice girl at a restaurant, and for the first 4 weeks of knowing her everything seemed fine to me. We are still not going out but she says she likes me. But now, she's flirting with every guy you can possibly think of, (marrying random guys on facebook, not a very big deal to me, but when she talks to her friends about liking 'multiple' people, it makes me think it's just a first come-first serve kind of thing.) She is still saying she wants to be with me, I call bullshit.
Totse, if something happens, I need a fast way out of this.
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#2
2008-01-20, 18:18 |
thatsMYdog
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
Forget You Met Her
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#3
2008-01-20, 18:20 |
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
Forget You Met Her
This one, sadly. It leads to total crazyness and a big waste of time very easily after the first whiff of crazy.
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#4
2008-01-20, 21:42 |
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
This has been such a fucking emotional rollercoaster, I can't deal with this shit.
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#5
2008-01-20, 21:47 |
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
1) Take the reigns.
2) Put her in her place.
3) Relax.
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#6
2008-01-20, 21:48 |
Docta?
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
OK, all you need to do is change your point of view on the whole thing.
This isn't real life, this is a game... just a game.
Like Pac-Man! Get the strawberry and then get the fuck out of these before those ghosts trap you again!
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#7
2008-01-20, 21:54 |
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
You're being pussy whipped and you aren't even getting anything out of it sexually.
Ask her..before you ask us.
If she doesn't want you now, then forget her.
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#8
2008-01-20, 23:34 |
cooldarkknick
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
I just kicked a fucking hole in the wall, fucking great...
Of course, the whole girl problem only added to my rage about my internet not working.
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#9
2008-01-21, 00:46 |
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
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Originally Posted by cooldarkknick
I just kicked a fucking hole in the wall, fucking great...
Of course, the whole girl problem only added to my rage about my internet not working.
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Three words for you, my dear friend:
Anger Management Counseling
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#10
2008-01-21, 02:11 |
cooldarkknick
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
Three words for you, my dear friend:
Anger Management Counseling
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Yeah, I can be like that sometimes, but I'm pretty angry about the girl, and the internet thing kinda tipped the bucket.
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#11
2008-01-21, 02:17 |
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Yeah, I can be like that sometimes, but I'm pretty angry about the girl, and the internet thing kinda tipped the bucket.
So how are you posting if your internet didn't/doesn't work?
Relax, dude, doesn't help anything or do any good to get pissed, just move on/put it aside.
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#12
2008-01-21, 02:20 |
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
So how are you posting if your internet didn't/doesn't work?
Relax, dude, doesn't help anything or do any good to get pissed, just move on/put it aside.
Well, I might be stealing someone's wireless.
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#13
2008-01-21, 02:25 |
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Well, I might be stealing someone's wireless.
I know I am.
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#14
2008-01-21, 02:32 |
jvm222
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
Well, I might be stealing someone's wireless.
Hey nigger take my advice.
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#15
2008-01-21, 06:22 |
cooldarkknick
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
Hey nigger take my advice.
I'm not really at any power to tell her to stay away from other guys, we aren't going out yet, but we will be soon, well maybe not, depending on how all this shit turns out.
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#16
2008-01-21, 07:11 |
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Dude if she's not taking it seriously/you know she won't, then don't make it (publically at least) such a big deal either. makes you look like a desperate loser.
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#17
2008-01-21, 15:13 |
Docta?
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She can do better
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#18
2008-01-21, 15:36 |
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
I'm not really at any power to tell her to stay away from other guys, we aren't going out yet, but we will be soon, well maybe not, depending on how all this shit turns out.
How about you make the first move? Thats what i meant when i said "Ask her".
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#19
2008-01-22, 00:34 |
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She's fucking with your head allready and you're not even dating yet!
Take this as a lesson well learned and run for the fucking hills. If she's this bad now,imagine how she'd be in a relationship with you?
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#20
2008-01-22, 05:44 |
cooldarkknick
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
Message I sent to her:
listen, its really hard for me to say this but
unless you stop acting like you do with me with like every guy you know (as in liking like everyone) i cant deal with it, its really stressing me out, and making me feel really bad when you act like you like me, then i think youre just leading me on cause you talk the same way with like 10 different guys
you married someone youve known for like 3 days,(to all the members of totse, on facebook, not in real life, and as 'friends') and youve known me for years and years and you wont do anything with me, thats kind of stupid
you say youre only like this when youre single, and then once you get a boyfriend, youre dedicated
even with that, it makes me feel as though being your boyfriend is a first-come first-serve basis
im sorry, but unless you stop acting like that, i cant deal with it, and there cant be anything between us.
i really like you, but if it makes me feel bad to like you, then ill HAVE to stop
goodnight baby, i really hope you think about this
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#21
2008-01-22, 06:00 |
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Originally Posted by cooldarkknick
Message I sent to her:
listen, its really hard for me to say this but
unless you stop acting like you do with me with like every guy you know (as in liking like everyone) i cant deal with it, its really stressing me out, and making me feel really bad when you act like you like me, then i think youre just leading me on cause you talk the same way with like 10 different guys
you married someone youve known for like 3 days,(to all the members of totse, on facebook, not in real life, and as 'friends') and youve known me for years and years and you wont do anything with me, thats kind of stupid
you say youre only like this when youre single, and then once you get a boyfriend, youre dedicated
even with that, it makes me feel as though being your boyfriend is a first-come first-serve basis
im sorry, but unless you stop acting like that, i cant deal with it, and there cant be anything between us.
i really like you, but if it makes me feel bad to like you, then ill HAVE to stop
goodnight baby, i really hope you think about this
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yeah um........did you actually read that before you sent it to her? If it wasn't over before, it sure is now. You put the pussy on a pedastel and it's over. You have shown her that you're totally weak and that she has you if she wants you. It is no longer fun for her because you're available and women never want what's available. So, you should have been more confident and less whiny. Lesson learned. I suggest you stop talking to her completely. At this point it's gone past humiliating. |
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2008-01-22, 15:20 |
cooldarkknick
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
yeah um........did you actually read that before you sent it to her? If it wasn't over before, it sure is now. You put the pussy on a pedastel and it's over. You have shown her that you're totally weak and that she has you if she wants you. It is no longer fun for her because you're available and women never want what's available. So, you should have been more confident and less whiny. Lesson learned. I suggest you stop talking to her completely. At this point it's gone past humiliating.
I knew she might take it like that, but I thought there was still a chance she would think about it and maybe not me, but boyfriends in the future she won't fuck with.
I know that I messed it up, and I really don't care, I don't want a girl like that anyway.
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#23
2008-01-22, 15:56 |
jvm222
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
You fucked up! Call the girl next time if you can't talk to her in person about it. And you call her baby at the end? After accusing her of stuff...lol
Please let us know how it goes down.
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#24
2008-01-22, 18:25 |
Docta?
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Originally Posted by cooldarkknick
Message I sent to her:
listen, its really hard for me to say this but
unless you stop acting like you do with me with like every guy you know (as in liking like everyone) i cant deal with it, its really stressing me out, and making me feel really bad when you act like you like me, then i think youre just leading me on cause you talk the same way with like 10 different guys
you married someone youve known for like 3 days,(to all the members of totse, on facebook, not in real life, and as 'friends') and youve known me for years and years and you wont do anything with me, thats kind of stupid
you say youre only like this when youre single, and then once you get a boyfriend, youre dedicated
even with that, it makes me feel as though being your boyfriend is a first-come first-serve basis
im sorry, but unless you stop acting like that, i cant deal with it, and there cant be anything between us.
i really like you, but if it makes me feel bad to like you, then ill HAVE to stop
goodnight baby, i really hope you think about this
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Like, i really like think that was a bad like way to end it... like. |
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#25
2008-01-22, 20:41 |
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Wow, I think I pussied out on my girlfriend, but that's because we've been going out for 3 weeks, I've seen her for about 4 hours a day, and I actually love her, I didn't want to go all macho on her at this point because if she's not different, I don't want her.
I got lucky, she is different (ie, a good person) and I'm seeing her tonight.
But you man, you totally sold out. You should have just sent her a message saying:
"look, I'm a busy guy and I don't like people screwing around with my time. Let's go out friday? No excuses, no bullshit, just you and me on a date. Shiney?"
If she says anything but yes you reply with: "see ya around".
PS. Orange_Crusader I'm sorry I told you to give your girlfriend an ultimatum. I've realized that when you actually love somebody and you're not just out to get sex it's a lot harder to tell them "do this or fuck off". You actually want to work it out, regardless. Just thought you should know, though it's probably counter-productive to your emotions to hear it now...
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#26
2008-01-25, 18:12 |
cooldarkknick
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Re: Damnit, bad choice?
Shes talking to one of my old friends, things between me and him went sour a few years ago. The amount of anger I feel right now is straight to ridiculous.
Fuck her, fuck him, I'll find someone else.
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