Alright so I want your opinion on this.

I work for a company that demands a lot of physical movement. Loading planes, moving boxes with radioactive medicinest, blood, human organs, things like that. It's a stressful job because if I mess something up someone might die, or is the TSA decides to do an audit and something is fucked up than it's a big fine that I really don't want to pay so I spend my day looking at every detail and getting screamed to not fuck shit up. My girl friend is a desk jockey. She answers phones all day. And she has started this thing over chores. I don't mind helping but when I get home I just want to rest for a while, drink a beer watch T.V. but as soon as I come in the door it's why didn't you do laundry? Why didn't you wash dishes? Why didn't you change the cat box? Why didn't you do clean? Why didn't you take the trash out? (this is the same women who left her Christmas tree box sitting in the den for a month when all she had to do was walk it outside) And I'm so tired that I just sit there and look at her I work a lot and even when I'm not at work I still get phone calls 3 or 4 times during the night so it seems like I never get any sleep. So by the time I get home at nine she has been home for 6 hours and usually has done nothing. Occasionally she picks up a little but no laundry nothing like that. I am tired when I get home and admit that I tend to be a bit sluggish so it's not that I'm running around doing everything but I think that if she has a problem with something so much she should do it. I mean I do a load of clothes every few days but she let's it all pile up till she has nothing to wear and there is 10 loads of laundry so I ask her to go through and sort the laundry and I'll wash it and it never gets done yet every night she bitches and bitches that I'm being lazy and I don't want to do anything. And that always leads to you never do anything for me, even though I spend hours rubbing her back or her feet. And I get up every morning at 5:00 a.m. to take her to work which is another reason I don't want to do anything. It's pissing me off, I'm not sure what to do about it. Civilized conversation is not working and I hate being guilted when I know I'm doing the best I fucking can. Opinions?

raise your hand and be all like "bitch dont make me go upside yo' head!" if that fails then once again raise and and say "go make me a sammich bitch"

1. print this page out
2. hand it to her

She's being a cunt. No amount of logic or reason will change her view.

yep shes being a cunt, tell her shes fucking lazy and she should do something around the house, she has a easy ass job and gets home earlier then you, the bitch can pull her own weight.

Just tell her you're not going to do everything.

Or dump her ass, fuck it man, sounds like the last thing you need is this bitch.

Having said that, we haven't heard her side.

She definitely sounds like she's being a cunt.

As thatsMYdog said, just tell her everything you just told us.

Try to stay calm as you do it, although that's probably going to be hard in the situation.

New job, New girl, or sit down and have a long talk.


I'ma blame her though. Tell her she reminds you of her/your mother, and it turns you off. You'll be on the couch for a bit, but it'll sink in.

Just tell her how you feel.If that does'nt work just "Smack dat bitch in the mouf".

You're both working? No kids?

HIRE A MAID/CLEANING WOMAN

No I'm not joking.

Some 'mexican' who comes in 3 mornings a week probably won't cost a fortune and it'll be worth every single fucking cent and do your relationship a power of good.

But hell even if it costs you US$100 a week its worth ten times that to be able to come home, relax and have quality time with the one you love.



I only realised this myself when I moved in with the Ex. She had a polish student who came in for a couple of hours each saturday. Cost less than the price of a couple of hours in the bar.

Yep, she's a cunt.

And you have to let her know, somehow...
Or maybe just move out.

Organise some kind of schedule where you have to take turns doing stuff, so she has no excuse to weasel out of it.

E.g. You do the laundry one week, she does it the next, etc.

Just whatever you do, don't marry her.

Oh god, QFT!!

If you cant come to an agreement about housekeeping issues and you marry this seemingly lazy girl, YOU IZ DOOMD! <In the words of the lolcat.

Well number one I would never marry her because she pisses me off too bad. Number two... the united states does not allow same sex marriage.

On a side note this morning at three she woke me up bitching because she had no clean clothes. And I was asleep and she was poking me with her toe. I growled at her told her to go away and she just kept bitching and bitching and bitching so I kinda went off. I told her if she was so worried about her clothes than she should get off her fucking lazy ass and wash them herself. She went off, started beating me with a pillow before storming out of the bedroom. I found humor in it... she did not. She was walking around the house bitching about how things were not going to be this way and things were going to change around here. I personally am still pissed off that she still didn't do anything about the laundry. (Even though she wore brown with black which apparently is bad I dunno not a fashion person, but to her it was a big no no) She has ignored me all day now...so yeah now I feel shitty even though I have no reason to and will now end up sleeping on the sofa for the weekend. And people bitch about not being in love. -snort-

Oh and Jack as far as a maid we had one for a long time who ended up stealing from her jewlrey box so the maid thing is a no no unfortunatly. I think she just lost the ring and drew conclussions cause she's damn good at doing that.

I've got a chore for you: paragraphs.

But yeah, shes being a cunt. Tell her to stop being a hypocrite, and start being a bit more helpful. Argue, and have wild make up sex.

Wait why was she waking you up to do HER laundry? I'm sorry if i misunderstood something, but it sounds as though your woman wants to sit on her ass and make you her new mommy. Honestly, it's one thing to not wanna do laundry, but to bitch at your partner because they didn't do YOUR laundry... wtf?

On a side note this morning at three she woke me up bitching because she had no clean clothes..

The answer is http://www.hqspanking.com/paddle-ass-spanking.jpg.

Huh. A boss I once had told me of his 'lovely wife. He worked 6 days a week. He had to get up at 6:30.

His wife was out drinking with her friend & she comes home after 1 am & shakes him awake to tell him to be quiet in the morning when he's getting ready for work?

Her friend was sleeping on the couch & she didn't need no jerk getting ready to work to disturb her sleep! I guess some people are real thoughtful like that? :)