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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2008-01-15, 13:05
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Default So she just broke up with a douchebag...

The situation, an uber hot girl I know has just dumped her toerag of a boyfriend. She's a little "mopey", but otherwise ok.

The choice, Do I do the honourable thing and console her through troubles, or do I move in like a hyena and go for the rebound. I'm actually having trouble with this one.
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Old 2008-01-15, 13:13
getoffmylawn getoffmylawn is offline
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Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

Hyena's prefer dead meat so move like a cheetah...

and post a pic of her
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Old 2008-01-15, 13:52
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Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

and post a pic of her

I actually have a pic of her you guys would love. Alas, certain people who also know her are on totse. I'd say they might tell her if I posted it.
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Old 2008-01-15, 14:54
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Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

Do you want to date her or just do her?
If you want anything meaningfull with the girl it might better to wait, because right now she'll probably do some guy and cast him away just to make herself feel better.
..Which means if you want some sexing, go for her now.
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Old 2008-01-15, 15:17
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Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

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Originally Posted by yoyobek
Do you want to date her or just do her?
If you want anything meaningfull with the girl it might better to wait, because right now she'll probably do some guy and cast him away just to make herself feel better.
..Which means if you want some sexing, go for her now.


That's the thing, I don't quite know... I had her laughing a lot on the phone earlier. I'd called to ask her something and she said she broke up with toerag this morning and felt suprisingly good. We talked for a while and I kept wondering which path I should take.

She's the kind of hot you see in a decent swimwear catalogue, she's smart, likes knives etc... *Kyoki gets big fuckin' grin* The other side is that she is a fairly demanding girl to date, from what I've seen anyway... I fucking love working her up until she hits me. Not from masochism, just well, yeah.

Another consideration is that we're sort of friends. More friends of friends but we will be coming into contact with eachother at a later date. I wouldn't want to make a pass and go down in flames... My approach must be stealthy... or... something...
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Old 2008-01-15, 15:32
StraitUpSkankin StraitUpSkankin is offline
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Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

console her, but while doing that, make it clear you're happy she's available (subtley)

don't let her think you're JUST there for her, but be there for her.

i'd recommend getting her to do stuff with you (not sexual, yet) , and not just talking to her on the telephone. i suppose this is a bit harder since she's ok with the break up, but her social life probably (based on the girls i know) shrunk during the relationship, and she should probably want to get out and do stuff, especially with guys.
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Old 2008-01-16, 05:46
BondageNinja BondageNinja is offline
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... likes knives etc...

This is the selling point, you must keep her and never let go!
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Old 2008-01-16, 06:20
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Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

Get in there and hope for the best.
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Old 2008-01-16, 07:10
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Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

Quote:
Originally Posted by yoyobek
Do you want to date her or just do her?
If you want anything meaningfull with the girl it might better to wait, because right now she'll probably do some guy and cast him away just to make herself feel better.
..Which means if you want some sexing, go for her now.


this doesn't seem like yoyobek advice...weird.
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Old 2008-01-16, 07:51
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

Wait. So she's hot... How do you know her? A friend, someone you've hung out with, someone you see occasionally... More details are required.
 #11 
Old 2008-01-16, 08:33
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New Zealand
Default Re: So she just broke up with a douchebag...

She's going to get back with her ex and you'll get pwned.

Go for her straight away.
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Old 2008-01-16, 14:52
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Wherever there's consciousness
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chances are she'll end up with another douchebag, can't expect reason to be included in a woman's logic for choosing a male.
 
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