Alright so, I met this girl on new year's and I really really like her. She's in my earth science class. She is always coming to sit by me during it. Yesterday she called me crying, and I wasn't sure if that meant I was stuck in the "friend zone" or not. I let her use my iPod today during class, when she gave it back she said "Here you go my love".

Never assume you're stuck in the friends zone unless you make sure of it. And with not even 2 weeks, I very very very seriously doubt you're stuck in the friends zone permanently.

Dude, sorry... but you gave her your number without first making a move on her?

I'm betting you're in the friends zone.

You're now her buddy, nothing more.
You should have tried taking her out or hanging out with her and MAKING A MOVE before giving her your number.

How long have you known her for now though, you still MAY have a chance.

does it really matter? who cares if she likes you right now. life aint about being safe (unless youre in africa). if you like her make a serious move, and if she does youll know. if not whatever. same goes if you care about her or just want to get in her pants.

No, We kissed on New Years.
But I can't tell.
But as they say, "You'll miss 100% of the shots you don't take."

Just call her up and say "hey, I like you and it'd be cool if we went on a date sometime, what do you think".

Problem solved, and she'll probably say yes anyway. Srsly, ask her straight up otherwise you'll spend weeks chasing her in circles before you realize it's not going anywhere. You kissed her on New Year's? That was over a week ago, if you don't make another move soon she'll lose interest.

But if you MET her on New Year's and it took less than two weeks for her to call you crying, I'd write her off as crazy and never talk to her again, honestly.

Gave her your number without first making a move on you? Are you fucking retarded? Seriously, you're really saying he's a permanent buddy because he gave her his phone number without making a move on her? You are more retarded than words can express. Or date some pretty dirty whores. I mean...seriously??? Do you have any clue what you're talking about?

I wouldnt say your in the friends zone, but if you think you are then you are...simple as that.

Jesus christ Idk how guys can sit around and pull this shit, then after they are around the girl they need the book thrown at them with proof wondering if this girl likes them. You were around the bitch in person, what do you think? Its like asking a blind man what color shirt he is wearing, he fucking dont know, just like we dont know cause we weren't there to fully judge the situation.

Why did she call you crying? Let me ask you that though.

Why did she call you crying? Let me ask you that though.

She probably broke up with her boyfriend!!

If so, take advantage of this glorious moment. Go "comfort" her.

She probably broke up with her boyfriend!!

If so, take advantage of this glorious moment. Go "comfort" her.

Almost, Her bf broke up with her a couple days over break, then when we got back to school, he was a dick to her and started spreading rumors.

sounds obvious that she likes you from here

well flannery it can be quite the contrary in some cases[hate to contradict you btw,dont take it offensively at all,because it is not intended to do such]

sometimes when a chick confides in you over breakups it can mean that they just feel close to you and safe enough to use you as an emotional tampon,but then again this isnt obviously so, seeing as how she kissed you on new years..now if this was me,id do what some of the others prescribed to you as advice but well thats pretty common knowledge what every man should know,but id make it a bit more memorable and unique,or at least this is how i lay down my way of handling the women out there

-and o i would so love to hear what type of rumors are bieng spread about this chick at your school even if you think they are fictitional,it never hurts to know and question the ''what might be'' ,and for fun if you like[it may be risky] but you could always go confront the guy nicely and ask if shes crazy ,dont,what ever you do act as if you have interest in this girl,if so hell just brush you off and ignore you or more then likely might be pissed with ya, i mean it doesnt hurt to know someones faults even if there from a most likely biased individual in the case

okay well as long as you're not ugly or well below her in physical appearance or social status then she likes you.

To the OP, you definitely NEED TO MAKE A MOVE SOON, otherwise your going to be stuck in the friends zone PERMANENTLY! You should call her tonight or tomorrow and ask if she want's to do something, if you don't your chances are fucked.

Are you a virgin? Or just plain dumb?She's kinda making it obvious dude. Go for it. What do you have to lose if you are in the "friend zone"?

She probably broke up with her boyfriend!!

If so, take advantage of this glorious moment. Go "comfort" her.

"Comfort" as in, drug her and fuck her.
"Comfort" as in, go over there, offer her something like a small trinket or chocolate or flowers or something and maybe you'll get a rebound fuck
"Comfort" as in, just straight up tell her you'll sex her up if she wants
"Comfort" as in, Kiss her and slowly move forward, you'll surely get a new girlyfriend if you play your cards RIGHT. :P

Of course, I could be wrong.

the drug her and fuck her one would be ideal

Gave her your number without first making a move on you? Are you fucking retarded? Seriously, you're really saying he's a permanent buddy because he gave her his phone number without making a move on her? You are more retarded than words can express. Or date some pretty dirty whores. I mean...seriously??? Do you have any clue what you're talking about?

Sorry, I didn't type that out too clearly.

I meant that if she's calling him crying too. I was under the impression that class just started (I just started classes a week ago), he gave her his number in class, and she's now calling him crying about other problems.

But it seems like he's known her for longer then a week.

Just ask her and find out!