I've recently entered into a relationship, and so far so good. She's a great person, cute girl, awesome personality. We get along great and she's a consistently positve and upbeat person.

Here's my problem....although I am enjoying myself at the moment in this relationship, I know that I don't want it to be long term. I'm 20 years old...definitely not in the market for a wife. In the next few years, I will be graduating from college, begining my career, and whatever else life brings my way. I have so much more to experience, and I don't want to be tied down.

She, on the other hand, acts as if I'm her trial husband. I can tell she's definitely looking for something serious, whereas I just prefer to have fun.

Should I break up with her now so I don't really crush her later on in the future, or should I just ride it out and let the relationship run it's natural course? Am I being selfish knowing that this will one day end and let her continue to believe that there is a future?

This isn't something we've talked about because, well, frankly it's not a fun conversation, and it's too early anyway. This is all something I can just sense and that I know I'm right about.

Ah man....thats pretty sad really....

Give the relationship a shot will ya? Try experiencing her and getting to know her better. It is a new relationship after all. However, when you are absolutely sure that it will go nowhere then end it man, and most importantly make your feelings clear. It will be better for the both of you. Trust me on this one.

Lol why do you project so much. Living each day as it comes will get rid of your commitment phobia, and allow the relationship to blossom becuase you're not thinking about being tied down forever. You should chill.

live for the moment.


You can be assured things will change, but cross that bridge when you get to it. Trust me, feeling for someone is great, but it doesn't always work out perfectly. People change, shit happens, but you know what? Life doesn't end after a relationship ends.

live for the moment.

Life doesn't end after a relationship ends.


Unless of course she´s so pissed off at you for leading her on that she decides to kill you.

If you're always worrying about what maybe could possibly happen someday you'll miss out on a lot of things in the present.

Give the relationship a shot, because like you said, you're young. If you feel like you're in to deep you can always back out.

I lolled at your handle being 'cassanova', but I'll read the thread now.

If you're always worrying about what maybe could possibly happen someday you'll miss out on a lot of things in the present.

Give the relationship a shot, because like you said, you're young. If you feel like you're in to deep you can always back out.

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Happy to help.

Stay in it, and just break up with her when you would break up with any other girl. Treat her the same as you would any other girl. Just because she's a dumb bitch trying to latch onto a successful career-oriented man doesn't mean you should give her credit for it.