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 #1 
Old 2008-01-09, 23:31
mikehunt1 mikehunt1 is offline
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Bitch of 6 months breaks up with me the other day because I "promised" I wouldnt drink anymore. I can be an ass and abusive(verbally) when I drink and she fuckin says that she won't take me back until I prove that I won't drink anymore. Also because I can be sneaky and talk to girls on myspace and she found out(has my password).

Anyways what should I do? I feel like it's bs and I shouldnt be waiting around, I could be moving on but noo.

wtf?
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Old 2008-01-09, 23:34
Otsego_Amigo Otsego_Amigo is offline
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i guess growing up isn't an option... just tell her that you stopped drinking again?
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Old 2008-01-09, 23:35
CurbStompJesus CurbStompJesus is offline
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i think your mistake was giving her your myspace password, haha
that can ONLY cause problems
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Old 2008-01-10, 00:00
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Change your myspace password and don't drink around her. Then you won't verbally abuse her, and she can't see what you're doing on myspace. Or just delete it.
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Old 2008-01-10, 00:23
mikehunt1 mikehunt1 is offline
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Default Re: should I even give a fuck?

I can't change my myspace password because if I do she will KNOw something is up, but I guess I can now since she broke up with me.

As far as the drinking goes, I feel like she should be supporting me instead of pushing me away, doesnt make much sense to me.
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Old 2008-01-10, 00:29
kappelpie kappelpie is offline
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Didn't you cheat on her and were planning on breaking up with her anyway? Why do you care then? You're only pissed because you didn't get the last say in the matter.
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Old 2008-01-10, 00:30
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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I think you're the one wasting her time, frankly.
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Old 2008-01-10, 00:38
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Originally Posted by Orange_Crusader
I think you're the one wasting her time, frankly.


This.
 #9 
Old 2008-01-10, 00:47
mikehunt1 mikehunt1 is offline
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Originally Posted by kappelpie
Didn't you cheat on her and were planning on breaking up with her anyway? Why do you care then? You're only pissed because you didn't get the last say in the matter.


Yes but that doesnt mean she is right lol..and she is wasting both of our time with this bs.
 #10 
Old 2008-01-10, 00:51
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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i'm wasting both of our time with this bs.

Yes.

The message you have entered is too short.
 #11 
Old 2008-01-10, 01:42
thatsMYdog thatsMYdog is offline
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Don't hurt that girl anymore. Find someone else to piss off.
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Old 2008-01-10, 01:49
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If you are abusive when you are drunk you have deeper emotional issues. I think you should sort yourself out before you consider another relationship.
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Old 2008-01-10, 02:11
mikehunt1 mikehunt1 is offline
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So when you want someone to stop drinking you leave them? Doesnt make sense, wouldnt that make it worse because you would be making that person more depressed and in return he would wanna drink more to dealwith it.

Also im not wasting her time, Ido love this girl alot. Wanna work things out also.
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Old 2008-01-10, 02:19
Orange_Crusader Orange_Crusader is offline
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Originally Posted by mikehunt1
So when you want someone to stop drinking you leave them? Doesnt make sense, wouldnt that make it worse because you would be making that person more depressed and in return he would wanna drink more to dealwith it.

Also im not wasting her time, Ido love this girl alot. Wanna work things out also.


She doesn't like you drinking and being abusive. You go and drink. You want her to be goddamn supportive of this?

Doesn't sound like you want to budge one bit.
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Old 2008-01-10, 02:27
mikehunt1 mikehunt1 is offline
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^^^ No I meant supporting me to stop drinking, like help me somehow. Maybe even quit with me, shits hard man ask any alki. Yes I would like to cut down to maybe a few times a year, I know how I get and I would stop drinking for her, but she dumped me and says when i change we will get back, well obviously its gonna take time to show her that I stopped. So why should I have to wait this fuckin long? shes goin to college after the summer and i would like to spendas much good times with her as possible. Fuck im not waiting.
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Old 2008-01-10, 04:54
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If you really want to win her back and prove your drinking isn't a problem wait until she gets a new boyfriend, find a night when they will be going out together, then get drunk and beat him up in public. That will show her that you still care about her, and that you can handle yourself even when drunk. Trust me this has guaranteed success.
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Old 2008-01-10, 06:33
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So you treat this girl like a dumbass...You treat her like shit when you drink and you screw around with girls on Myspace...And it's bullshit that she dumps you?!

All hail the sofa king of we todd did.
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Old 2008-01-10, 08:08
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Yeah mate seems like you need a drinker girlfriend.
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Old 2008-01-10, 08:23
ihatesawed_off_pump ihatesawed_off_pump is offline
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holy shit the OP is a retard

you want her to "help" you through it? no, no you don't. you don't want to quit drinking at all. if you did you wouldn't need her help - any addict will tell you that if you're going to come clean, you do it for yourself. i promise you that if you quit drinking (or binge drinking) for her, you'll be back on the sauce in no time.
 
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